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to not understand why Christians think Jesus died for our sins?

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switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 10:06

If Jesus died for everyone's sins, does that mean people are not accountable for their actions? You can kill people, steal and lie but have a protected status because Jesus died for your sins.

How does this work? Why are people not responsible for their own sins? Where is the justice?

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Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:28

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 17:18

Religion - any religion - is ostensibly not a fairy tale, which doesn't mean that any religion- or belief in a deity is true.

Fairy tales arise from specific forms of folk beliefs and are very different in any number of ways to religion. To lump religious belief in with miscellaneous fairy tales is actually quite offensive, because - especially since the enlightenment - folk beliefs have come to be associated with people of little education and/or low intelligence.

By all means feel free to tell Christians, Muslims, Jews, Skihs, Hindus etc that you believe their religions are myths, but don't liken them to fairy tales unless you're attempting to offensively assert some form of intellectual superiority.

And if you do attempt to assert intellectual superiority, then learn what it is you're saying before you say it.

I would also say that in matters of politeness, it's pretty rude to declare religion is nothing but myths and stories to any person marking a holy day. There are times when it's best to remain non-committal or say nothing at all.

This does not affect one's right to free speech.

DT’s went to an international school so we’re lucky enough to be exposed to many different religions, cultures and beliefs. They have good friends of different faiths.
However DH and I are atheists and taught DT’s that people believe different things - no one is right or wrong or better than another but we believe that god/jesus are fairy stories along with the tooth fairy, Easter bunny and Saint Nicholas. Others have different interpretations and they are no more right than I am. This is not to do with low intelligence - we all have post grad degrees. DT’s were encouraged to make their own minds up and as adults are atheists. Politeness to others with different beliefs is paramount and just because you think something, you don’t say to their face.
Today is a perfect day for a debate on religion and other than some saying I’m wrong (which I’m not!) it’s been good natured and informative thread.

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:31

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 17:21

Right. But it’s not true ‘only if you believe’ which is what you said. I might be wrong, but so might you. But that won’t depend on whether you believed it.

What won’t depend on whether I believe or not?

BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 17:31

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 17:15

God is eternal, so a long time for us isn’t long for him.

But also, he’s made it clear that there will be an end point, when there will be final judgment day for everyone. After that, no more judging, just eternal life or eternal hell.

Crikey sounds hideous (sorry).

Redorangehaze · 20/04/2025 17:32

BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 15:01

Dying for our sins just doesn’t make any sense so I think early Christians should have done a better job in making it make sense. How can Jesus have died for our sins when it was someone else who ordered his death. What would have happened if Pontious Pilate decided not to kill him or never arrested him in the first place?

Edited

Well I presume Christians believe God knows how things will work out, so could insert himself/ JC in the situation knowing how it would end up. Its very clear in the gospels that JC talks of his own forecoming death.

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:32

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 17:17

As I said before, it’s either true or it isn’t. Your personal belief doesn’t change that.

There is no evidence of any truths so I’ll stick with my opinion.

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 17:34

@Parker231 maybe don't insist on calling religions fairy tales when I've just pointed out that they're not - even if there is no such thing as god.
I also didn't suggest that anyone, regardless of belief or disbelief, has low intelligence or is uneducated.

What I did was point out how your assertion that religious belief is a fairy tale is objectively false.

BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 17:35

TakeMyLifeAndLetItBe · 20/04/2025 16:03

Really? Nothing at all? No little white lies or envying someone? This is helpful in understanding why Christians believe that we are all sinners. There are none good except for God. Please don't think I'm attacking you though, just picking up on your point. Before coming to know Jesus, I thought I was a good person too 🤗

What makes god good though? One (whoever ‘one’ is even if it’s god themselves) can’t just say god’s good without backing it up (by actions not words). So can anyone say what actions have deemed god good.

RareMaker · 20/04/2025 17:35

BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 17:31

Crikey sounds hideous (sorry).

And why would we want to go to the place where the man deciding is? No thanks 😅

Fiction.

Redorangehaze · 20/04/2025 17:38

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:16

Only for those who believe in this. Evidence please to support your statements.

Edited

Its a belief. She doesn't need to provide evidence, other than that which exists within her own belief system. That's how beliefs work.

As long as she is not requiring others to believe, or society to organise around her beliefs, that's fine.

Its religious belief, it doesn't need to meet the standard of a peer reviewed paper in Nature Journal.

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 17:38

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:16

Only for those who believe in this. Evidence please to support your statements.

Edited

Read your own posts?

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:43

But also, he’s made it clear that there will be an end point, when there will be final judgment day for everyone. After that, no more judging, just eternal life or eternal hell.

re the above post - as it’s only a belief and not fact, won’t apply to non believers.

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:43

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 17:38

Read your own posts?

There is no evidence of fact of heaven, hell, god, etc

YourFunnyTiger · 20/04/2025 17:46

bridgetreilly · 20/04/2025 17:38

Read your own posts?

I wouldn't bother. This poster is just goady and is of the I'm right everyone else is wrong mind. Yet gaslight by saying they wouldn't be rude to anyone's face about their opinion, but the Internet is fair game. Not forgetting they have taught their children that different faiths exist, however I'd hazard a guess they have probably told them that these people are a bit silly.

Funny how it's always non believers who shove their beliefs down others throats and insist they're right.

maddiemookins16mum · 20/04/2025 17:47

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 20/04/2025 10:54

Oh look , it’s the annual Let’s Insult The Christians on their most holy Day’ thread !

I hope the OP puts one up for Eid next year.

They won’t. It’s easier and more acceptable to mock the Christian faith.

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 17:48

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:43

But also, he’s made it clear that there will be an end point, when there will be final judgment day for everyone. After that, no more judging, just eternal life or eternal hell.

re the above post - as it’s only a belief and not fact, won’t apply to non believers.

You've missed their point.

Assume, for a moment, that God exists and atheists have got it wrong - this is just a thought exercise, I'm not forcing a belief on anyone. So, assume for a moment that God exists and what's more the Christian belief of a final day of judgement is correct...

What the pp said is that in such a case, its irrelevant if you or anyone else doesn't believe it, that final day of judgement will still happen.

BunnyLake · 20/04/2025 17:52

Redorangehaze · 20/04/2025 17:32

Well I presume Christians believe God knows how things will work out, so could insert himself/ JC in the situation knowing how it would end up. Its very clear in the gospels that JC talks of his own forecoming death.

I still can’t make sense of it though. Why does jesus need to die, especially as he rises from the dead soon after. Why does the act of dying (and then rising) absolve future sins and what about all the people before Jesus came to earth (I don’t think I’ve got an answer to that one yet).

If I ever met god I’d be like a kid constantly asking why. Although I am not a believer myself I do feel I want to get to the bottom of why certain things have been put in place (regardless of whether they are fact or fiction).

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:53

YourFunnyTiger · 20/04/2025 17:46

I wouldn't bother. This poster is just goady and is of the I'm right everyone else is wrong mind. Yet gaslight by saying they wouldn't be rude to anyone's face about their opinion, but the Internet is fair game. Not forgetting they have taught their children that different faiths exist, however I'd hazard a guess they have probably told them that these people are a bit silly.

Funny how it's always non believers who shove their beliefs down others throats and insist they're right.

the thread has been good natured from both sides so no need to be rude. I’ve put up with posters telling me that regardless of what I believe, god/day of atonement will prevail and that I’m a sinner.

DT’s have had an amazing upbringing with so many different religions amongst their friends - annually they are invited to ceremonies with friends and their relatives. They have always been made very welcome as have their friends in our home. They respect our beliefs and it’s doesn’t affect our friendships. Two of DS’s friends spent Christmas with us one year and had a great time celebrating in a different way.

YourFunnyTiger · 20/04/2025 17:54

maddiemookins16mum · 20/04/2025 17:47

They won’t. It’s easier and more acceptable to mock the Christian faith.

I got ripped to pieces when I posted asking how as a church, could we get more people to attend.

As expected, the usual insults came out.
Churches are full of nonce's
Sky fairy rubbish
Post your proof and so on.

As a Christian I have worked out that people are religious when it benefits them, examples are:
Getting into a Catholic school, you have to attend church for a few weeks/months before you get confirmation that you attended. Once accepted into school, never seen again.

Wedding, same as above.

Funerals.

MrsJoanDanvers · 20/04/2025 17:54

Tbh, when I hear Jesus died for your sins and came back to life, it has as much truth in it as men saying they’re women. Impossible. I just think of it as a myth used by a primitive religion to explain pain and suffering. And hanging on to a bit of human sacrifice too.

YourFunnyTiger · 20/04/2025 17:56

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:53

the thread has been good natured from both sides so no need to be rude. I’ve put up with posters telling me that regardless of what I believe, god/day of atonement will prevail and that I’m a sinner.

DT’s have had an amazing upbringing with so many different religions amongst their friends - annually they are invited to ceremonies with friends and their relatives. They have always been made very welcome as have their friends in our home. They respect our beliefs and it’s doesn’t affect our friendships. Two of DS’s friends spent Christmas with us one year and had a great time celebrating in a different way.

But you haven't been respectful to all posters though. I have been nothing but pleasant and accepting of your beliefs but you still were snide.

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:58

YourFunnyTiger · 20/04/2025 17:56

But you haven't been respectful to all posters though. I have been nothing but pleasant and accepting of your beliefs but you still were snide.

I’ve patiently explained my beliefs and repeatedly been told I’m wrong - am I just meant to accept that?

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:59

YourFunnyTiger · 20/04/2025 17:54

I got ripped to pieces when I posted asking how as a church, could we get more people to attend.

As expected, the usual insults came out.
Churches are full of nonce's
Sky fairy rubbish
Post your proof and so on.

As a Christian I have worked out that people are religious when it benefits them, examples are:
Getting into a Catholic school, you have to attend church for a few weeks/months before you get confirmation that you attended. Once accepted into school, never seen again.

Wedding, same as above.

Funerals.

Have never claimed religion to get into a particular school. Didn’t get married in a church and won’t be having a funeral service in one

YourFunnyTiger · 20/04/2025 18:11

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:58

I’ve patiently explained my beliefs and repeatedly been told I’m wrong - am I just meant to accept that?

And yet if I insisted you were wrong and i was right, what would your response be?

Leafy3 · 20/04/2025 18:14

Parker231 · 20/04/2025 17:58

I’ve patiently explained my beliefs and repeatedly been told I’m wrong - am I just meant to accept that?

It depends what posts you're referring to. For example, I pointed out that your use and understanding of fairy tales is objectively incorrect, which isn't a religious opinion or stance (I'm not Christian either).

MasterBeth · 20/04/2025 18:23

Redorangehaze · 20/04/2025 17:38

Its a belief. She doesn't need to provide evidence, other than that which exists within her own belief system. That's how beliefs work.

As long as she is not requiring others to believe, or society to organise around her beliefs, that's fine.

Its religious belief, it doesn't need to meet the standard of a peer reviewed paper in Nature Journal.

Edited

But in the UK, civic society is organised around religious (Christian) beliefs. There are archbishops in the Houses of Parliament! The head of state is the head of the state religion!

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