DH will no longer do joint posts on Instagram

[Whatslovegottodo25]

As per the title - Easter Sunday is off to a dreadful start with ‘D’ H and I already having had an argument.

Some background, we have individual insta’s but for any major ‘announcements/events’ as such we will use the collaboration feature so the post appears on both our grids. Think engagement, wedding, pregnancy-gender reveal/birth, anniversary etc.

It’s our DD’s first Easter so I’ve got her a brilliant outfit, some props and of course eggs. I’ve also got a personalised sort of sign which says it’s her first Easter.

I said to H I’ll get the photos done after breakfast and we can joint post. He says it’s stupid to do this and doesn’t warrant all the effort as it’s ’only Easter’ so he won’t be putting it on his grid.

AIBU to feel pissed off with him? It will look strange if it’s only on my page.

You got the wrong Generation there ?

Most Gen X are now the Grandparents, certainly not the Parent!

Thank goodness. The world can now move on.

I find this super odd and weird, post your own stuff and let him post or not post. Hubby and I took the decision not to post the kids anymore anyhow online after Xmas to many ai thieves etc

I'm Gen-X and i thought an Instagram was something you had at the radiology department.

Quite.

And herein lies the rub with social media, it causes people to think they're celebrities in their own lives.

And such irony. OP wanting to portray a totally contrived slice of happiness for the 'Gram has resulted in argument and bad feelings with her DH.

Well done.

I would have thought bunnies, ducks and little eggs with spring flowers around the baby. Perhaps animated.

Life is too short to worry about this.do your post. Enjoy Easter together.

Oops
I posted my response before I read this .

It's a bit lame, I agree with DH. Just enjoy your family time

A cross? Some nails? A large rollable stone?

I am Gen X (early Gen X, turned 60 a few weeks ago)

I have Instagram but its the one App I very rarely use .

As for OP, YABU love. Chill out a tad.

Is this for real? This has made me feel really old.

Best Easter post!

Gen X are now between 45 and 60, so no.

Hey, don't blame us!
84% of insta users are millenials or Gen Z.
OP definitely does NOT sound like Gen X.

i am gen X but I do like insta but don’t understand your upset over this @Whatslovegottodo25

Just take your pics, post them on your grid, tag your husband or log in to the joint insta account on your phone and post them there yourself and tag him.

Try not to let it spoil a lovely day - what is joyous is the time you actually spend together not the posting about it x

The defining characteristic of Gen X is clearly not reading the whole thread (guilty as charged).

I have a 7 and 10 year old and am so disappointed that they are going to grow up in the age of vacuous shit that includes 'Insta'

Come on, surely you didn't expect anyone who engages in something this moronic to care about correct grammar?!

wow is this real? Get a life.

Ahh I see everyone had the same thought at the same time.

Don't forget the crown...of thorns 🤣

Oh OP, I can understand your excitement. Enjoy all the thrill and pleasure of your first baby’s first experiences! It doesn’t matter what other people think. Your husband sounds a bit embarrassed by your enthusiasm, that’s all. You’re making lovely souvenirs of happy times.

Thick skin? Could've fooled me, all this drama over a fucking instagram post! Will it be like this for the rest of your life, you giving him grief over not joining in with every announcement? He probably agreed to shut you up.

🤣🤣🙈🙈 kids raising kids