DH will no longer do joint posts on Instagram

[Whatslovegottodo25]

As per the title - Easter Sunday is off to a dreadful start with ‘D’ H and I already having had an argument.

Some background, we have individual insta’s but for any major ‘announcements/events’ as such we will use the collaboration feature so the post appears on both our grids. Think engagement, wedding, pregnancy-gender reveal/birth, anniversary etc.

It’s our DD’s first Easter so I’ve got her a brilliant outfit, some props and of course eggs. I’ve also got a personalised sort of sign which says it’s her first Easter.

I said to H I’ll get the photos done after breakfast and we can joint post. He says it’s stupid to do this and doesn’t warrant all the effort as it’s ’only Easter’ so he won’t be putting it on his grid.

AIBU to feel pissed off with him? It will look strange if it’s only on my page.

OP has posted about Mother's Day, her birthday, and now Easter.

Sounds like an entrenched pattern of coercive control, with OP as the abuser.

😂 OP don’t you have somewhere to be today rather than winding up MNetters on Easter Sunday?!

Yes it’s gone way too far.

Posting on insta is a bit lame imo, it’s ridiculous to have a falling out over not having a double post, (which is just taking the poseur mindset a bit further still), BUT the posts ridiculing her for seeing it as a special day are even worse. What’s so laudable about seeing a public holiday as just another day slagging off people online?

@Whatslovegottodo25 I’ve been with my husband for 20+ years. Im always the one who makes a big effort at the Easter. This morning he got up early so he could watch them find their treats. He looked at their Easter crafts with them and talked to them about how the bunny has noticed how good they’ve been. He thanked me, gave me a cuddle and made me a drink. Try not to get lost in social media and how it looks on the outside and focus on how things actually are on the inside and how he cares in other ways.

“Hun” 🙄 That tells me all I need to know about the OP

You sound insufferable.

Get a grip!!!

As my gen Z and gen alpha kids would say, you need to touch grass.

You'd be better off spending the time learning the difference between 'brought' and 'bought'.

It’s you again! Still not recovered from the fact he wouldn’t post a pic on your anniversary, huh?

Announcing major events. I would have thought it is naff, unless of course you are from the Royal Family or a major actor who uses Instagram for work. Or an 'influencer' whose Instagram is their work, in that case I apologise.

I can't wait for the thread .

Should I report my friend to social services?
I have just looked at my friend's Instagram. She has bought a fake thorned crown and loin cloth off eBay and has dress her daughter up in it with fact blood, posing nailed to a cross

Am I unreasonable to report her to social services

Jesus, her poor DH, I wouldn't be surprised if he just walks away from this shitshow one day, I can only imagine what his life's like as a performing seal, bloody miserable I expect.

Grow up , I really hopes your husband has the sense to pull the plug on all this nonsense now and in the future.

It's just embarrassing and cringe worthy.

You certainly don't have the Insta perfect life do you?

Is it not very unauthentic and insincere coming from a joint post point of view?

Are you quite insecure? Is DH allowed to think for himself?

Indeed. I'm the tailend of Gen X and I'm 45, didn't grow up with SM (thankfully)

Fuck me, what have I just read. Wow.

This x1000. Why are they so self indulgent to think that anyone is remotely interested 🤷🏻‍♀️.

It boggles my mind and bores me rigid ….. and I’m referring to own family as well as strangers here.

My first thought was "What is he hiding"?

why not just enjoy the day in the moment, why the need for anyone to post it anywhere?
can totally understand why your DH is pissed off
Maybe save it fir the divorce?

Gen Xers are currently 45 to 60 years old.

You can change your vote! Just click on the other option.

I'm so glad he changed his mind and will do the 'look at us!!' Easter post.
Because, when he gets fucked off with all the performing and posing (then stropping) and leaves you, you'll have the post to look back on to remind you of how you should've appreciated the moment for YOU, not for showing off on SM.

I'm embarrassed for you

Are you a child?

Because I genuinely cannot for the life of me think of any actual adult who would even think about this