For what it is worth. Within our family there is a child, X, who expresses themself as trans. I've never posted their story on here as it is not mine to tell. Nor do I refer to them, but I feel it's important that you know there are quite a few women posting here who have children or adult family members who are trans.
In our case, X, and siblings, are now together with people who love and care for them, following a sexually, mentally, and physically abusive childhood, including drug and alcohol abuse. I'm not saying that all children who say they are trans have been through this.
Like all children, they need the most tremendous support, a lot of love, and honesty, particularly in answering their questions in an age appropriate way. Sadly we can't undo their past, but try to make their future a better one.
I see many people in the so called trans movement who claim to be "on their side" but are there to exploit, make money, serve their own interests, or grift. They've been to the forefront this past week.
Men with hateful placards, the likes of Heather Herbert, Upton, Darlington "Rose", and certain mediocre lawyers using " trans" as their usp are not the role models I want for X. The list is long. What does a man shouting that he wants to take a shite on JKR's head do for X? Nothing but instill fear of a woman who has done X no harm.
This is what concerns me when I see the abuse directed at women on these rallies. I'm not the enemy here. I agree that society needs to change to accommodate us all. Taking away existing rights from one group and demonising them, whilst not campaigning for your own, is not the way.
Your last paragraph I completely agree with. I wish you well, it's a hard road for these children.