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TRAs deface Millicent Fawcett statue

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Peony1897 · 19/04/2025 17:16

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/04/19/transgender-activists-deface-millicent-fawcett-statue/

How dare they.

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miraxxx · 20/04/2025 11:22

Waitwhat23 · 20/04/2025 10:39

FWS have been receiving death threats

Justine discusses MN being blacklisted for giving women a platform to speak

Signs at rallies across the country calling for violence against women

https://www.thetimes.com/article/da67367a-8aba-4545-9c64-ecf26fad0f49?shareToken=0e121192e3aa3b42da903c8630da6af0

Tell me again how trans activists don't hate women?

None of the concrete evidence counts for the handmaidens. They will ignore it or wave it away.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/04/2025 11:24

And then froth about the language being used, which is so much more important than men going about the streets of London with signs saying they want to murder women they disagree with.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 20/04/2025 11:26

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:18

No, I am saying that when you have a group who has more societal power (bio women in this example) than another group (in this example the trans community) that it is aggrevating to situation to gloat about that.

Goodness me, you genuinely think that women have more societal power than trans-identified males? How in that case was it necessary for FWS to have to fundraise to take this case all the way to the Supreme Court before it was clarified in law that the law says what gender critical activists have said it did for a decade and more? Why didn't the politicians, teachers, social workers, medics, academics and all the others say 'Oops, women have spoken, better not change all our policies and practices to what the trans-identified men want'? This is the direct opposite of what happened. Women who attempted to point out the law found themselves facing disciplinary action at work, getting sacked, contracts not renewed, offers of work rescinded, ostracised, chucked out of their unions and clubs, coldshouldered by friends and family. Stonewall law was accepted without question even though it was quite obviously wrong.

DrPrunesqualer · 20/04/2025 11:27

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 11:20

If you can't be bothered just don't post anything?

The trans community have all the same rights as everyone else as part of the Equalities Act.
Its not about comparisons, it’s not about having more or less than, it’s about equality.
No one has taken their rights away as part of the SC ruling.

Totallymessed · 20/04/2025 11:32

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:21

Women have more societal power (mainstream acceptance, legal recognition, infrastructure) than white, heterosexual men (I'm not sure why we are assuming the trans community are all white though?)
They are statistically even more likely than women to be the victims of harassment and /or violent crime.

Sometimes one of our diligent TRAs lets the mask slip completely. This is basically an Andrew Tate, incel level talking point.

The TRA movement is motivated by misogyny. Important to remember. They will use any tactic they find convenient to force their will on women.

DrPrunesqualer · 20/04/2025 11:32

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 20/04/2025 11:26

Goodness me, you genuinely think that women have more societal power than trans-identified males? How in that case was it necessary for FWS to have to fundraise to take this case all the way to the Supreme Court before it was clarified in law that the law says what gender critical activists have said it did for a decade and more? Why didn't the politicians, teachers, social workers, medics, academics and all the others say 'Oops, women have spoken, better not change all our policies and practices to what the trans-identified men want'? This is the direct opposite of what happened. Women who attempted to point out the law found themselves facing disciplinary action at work, getting sacked, contracts not renewed, offers of work rescinded, ostracised, chucked out of their unions and clubs, coldshouldered by friends and family. Stonewall law was accepted without question even though it was quite obviously wrong.

Blimey @CleverButScatty
Whilst I completely disagree with you on the farcical idea women have more power I think you need to check out those dusty history books of yours

Women have never had more power or say than men.
Women have always been set aside and marginalised
They still are in many countries.

Women have fought for their own rights. You creat a different movement…a Trans Movement…then you start your own campaigning for your own rights. Not at the expense of others.

The obsession with woman’s rights from the Trans Movement is just that Obsessive.

Trans people can be themselves they have nothing to do with women.

EasternStandard · 20/04/2025 11:33

Waitwhat23 · 20/04/2025 10:39

FWS have been receiving death threats

Justine discusses MN being blacklisted for giving women a platform to speak

Signs at rallies across the country calling for violence against women

https://www.thetimes.com/article/da67367a-8aba-4545-9c64-ecf26fad0f49?shareToken=0e121192e3aa3b42da903c8630da6af0

Tell me again how trans activists don't hate women?

@CleverButScattyhave you noticed this?

Are you aware of the violence directed at women?

RedToothBrush · 20/04/2025 11:35

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 11:20

If you can't be bothered just don't post anything?

Oh I've been posting for years on this subject.

I have learnt when posters start saying things like 'women have more social power', 'its just like being homosexual' and hit a certain number of these comments, that there's a question mark over good faith. Especially when they start asking for me to do all the leg work.

Go search my username and 'definition of homophobia' if you are that bothered.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 20/04/2025 11:36

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:26

I don't feel as though I have ever been silenced on Mumsnet in years gone by.

I do feel these days that you have to 100% agree in every point with the anti trans argument and no nuance can be discussed.

I also think the is a greater pattern of people just insulting each other and not actually talking about the key points of the debate.

It doesn't feel a safe space for women to hold their own views these days, only to agree with the mob.

It doesn't feel a safe space for women to hold their own views these days, only to agree with the mob.

It makes you feel unsafe to have someone disagree with you? Why on earth would that be? We are all arguing over the internet. There is no prospect of violence coming from those who disagree with you. Angry words are just that, words. We're all anonymous here.

There is a very real chance of aggression and violence at every single event organised to discuss women's rights. Many women have actually been assaulted. The very sight of an Adult Human Female sticker has been treated as literal violence by some activists and the police have treated it as a possible hate crime.

When J. K. Rowling had lunch with a few like-minded women in a London restaurant a few years ago a vandal subsequently smashed the restaurant window.

aylis · 20/04/2025 11:38

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/04/2025 11:05

Excellent point.

We don't need to look any further than the current case of a working class nurse being bullied by a middle class white doctor.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/04/2025 11:38

RedToothBrush · 20/04/2025 11:35

Oh I've been posting for years on this subject.

I have learnt when posters start saying things like 'women have more social power', 'its just like being homosexual' and hit a certain number of these comments, that there's a question mark over good faith. Especially when they start asking for me to do all the leg work.

Go search my username and 'definition of homophobia' if you are that bothered.

Well said.

Unitarily · 20/04/2025 11:39

@CleverButScatty

But your here? What’s unsafe? You haven’t been deleted, banned, doxxed or threatened.

Your either new to this and don’t understand what women have had to go through in the past decade, or your just being facetious.

Only you know which one it is.

RedToothBrush · 20/04/2025 11:45

Unitarily · 20/04/2025 11:39

@CleverButScatty

But your here? What’s unsafe? You haven’t been deleted, banned, doxxed or threatened.

Your either new to this and don’t understand what women have had to go through in the past decade, or your just being facetious.

Only you know which one it is.

This.

Ive been on here a long long time. I have disagreed with lots of people on various subjects. Sometimes I'm shocked horror, perhaps not right. But I'm also not going to suddenly go 'oh well I'm not going to hold an opinion, if other people disagree with me'.

If your argument is worth shit, it'd hold.

Peony1897 · 20/04/2025 11:49

Why do trans people need protection? Are they vulnerable? Probably not, as they’re far more likely to be a perpetrator of crime than even a ‘cis’ man. Are they disproportionately targeted? Given the fact such a small group have managed to capture massive organisations and change the law, probably not. Are they subject to harassment? They seem to do an awful lot of harassing.

I just don’t care about them in any way, I’m afraid. All out of fucks to give, and those I have will be going to better causes than men who are sad we won’t let them oppress us.

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aylis · 20/04/2025 11:50

DrPrunesqualer · 20/04/2025 11:21

A third and even fourth space is exactly what Stonewall should have been campaigning for……All This Time!

A space for them. All of their own as part of the Equalities Act.

Instead all Stonewall has done is intimidate everybody from rape crisis centres, Marks and Spencer’s to the nhs and every business in the land to think Trans people can use everyone else’s spaces …….‘ in a space they feel most comfortable’….

So Womens Spaces . Womens sports. Womens rights. Womens freedom of speech
Taken away at the alter of Stonewall and the Trans Movement.

How is that Be Kind

Stonewall have had long enough to campaign for their own rights like the brave women of the past have done. Like the Brave Women of today are still trying to do !

They have NO spaces if their own because they didn’t want their own spaces they wanted ours !

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Glad to see this criticism of Stonewall. There has been no solid research carried out by these orgs into exactly what trans peoples needs are, and in what circumstances. Just a list of demands. When equal marriage was going through parliament, Stonewall held a consultation on whether to even support it because they recognised there was a wide variety of views on the concept of marriage within the gay community. They've basically stopped bothering consulting the people they represent on anything and are trying to rule by decree. They've ostracised trans people who don't agree with all their top-down dictats, so they've got no real perspective. So many straight people are muscling in and nodding along.

Naunet · 20/04/2025 11:50

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:57

People used to use the same argument against homosexuality... It's biology.

Homosexuality is proven in biology. Don be stupid.

Naunet · 20/04/2025 11:52

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 20/04/2025 11:26

Goodness me, you genuinely think that women have more societal power than trans-identified males? How in that case was it necessary for FWS to have to fundraise to take this case all the way to the Supreme Court before it was clarified in law that the law says what gender critical activists have said it did for a decade and more? Why didn't the politicians, teachers, social workers, medics, academics and all the others say 'Oops, women have spoken, better not change all our policies and practices to what the trans-identified men want'? This is the direct opposite of what happened. Women who attempted to point out the law found themselves facing disciplinary action at work, getting sacked, contracts not renewed, offers of work rescinded, ostracised, chucked out of their unions and clubs, coldshouldered by friends and family. Stonewall law was accepted without question even though it was quite obviously wrong.

And societal power has nothing do with your government fighting your corner for you apparently.

SaveMeFromHumanity · 20/04/2025 11:54

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g

Just putting my hand up to say not all teachers went along with it.

I made sure my school is aware of the actual legalities every step of the way.

We recognise biological sex.

If a boy wants to be seen as a girl, we allow them to wear the girl's uniform (effectively a skirt and tights rather than trousers) but that is as far as it goes and the single sex provisions are upheld.

There are many of us who have been vigilant.

RedToothBrush · 20/04/2025 11:57

"why won't you listen to my argument"
"I have, I don't agree. It's shit for this reason" Gives lengthy explanation
"But you aren't listening because you haven't changed your mind"
"No I haven't changed my mind, because your argument has more holes than a sieve and is completely incoherent nonsense"
"But it's just like..."
"Erm no it isn't." Gives lengthy explanation
"Waahhh you are all hateful and don't debate"

ad nauseam

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/04/2025 11:58

RedToothBrush · 20/04/2025 11:57

"why won't you listen to my argument"
"I have, I don't agree. It's shit for this reason" Gives lengthy explanation
"But you aren't listening because you haven't changed your mind"
"No I haven't changed my mind, because your argument has more holes than a sieve and is completely incoherent nonsense"
"But it's just like..."
"Erm no it isn't." Gives lengthy explanation
"Waahhh you are all hateful and don't debate"

ad nauseam

Across multiple threads here right now, and all across the internet.

RedToothBrush · 20/04/2025 12:09

I think the comparison of homosexuals particularly pisses me off at this point, given that the supreme court highlights the homophobia of the GRA and the fact that lesbians have particular reason to need biological sex as protected characteristic and the law fails completely in terms of it intent if equality is the goal, if biological sex ceases to matter.

At best it's ignorant to still be saying that, at worst it's disengenious.

If you want to argue the toss, then up your game and do your basic homework over the subject.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 20/04/2025 12:20

SaveMeFromHumanity · 20/04/2025 11:54

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g

Just putting my hand up to say not all teachers went along with it.

I made sure my school is aware of the actual legalities every step of the way.

We recognise biological sex.

If a boy wants to be seen as a girl, we allow them to wear the girl's uniform (effectively a skirt and tights rather than trousers) but that is as far as it goes and the single sex provisions are upheld.

There are many of us who have been vigilant.

Well done and many, many thanks. I'm sure it hasn't been easy.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 20/04/2025 12:21

RedToothBrush · 20/04/2025 11:57

"why won't you listen to my argument"
"I have, I don't agree. It's shit for this reason" Gives lengthy explanation
"But you aren't listening because you haven't changed your mind"
"No I haven't changed my mind, because your argument has more holes than a sieve and is completely incoherent nonsense"
"But it's just like..."
"Erm no it isn't." Gives lengthy explanation
"Waahhh you are all hateful and don't debate"

ad nauseam

We could do with this as a pinned post! So true.

Merrymouse · 20/04/2025 12:27

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:15

Can you see why that stance is aggrevating.. haha I've got what you want, and you can never have it...
Could you imagine if a man said that to a group of women, or a white person to a group of black people, or an able bodied person to a group of disabled people.
A couple of generations ago you could have a heterosexual couple saying that to a same sex couple.

And yet I still see the argument about the safe places. The nuance here is that women have historically been the disempowered group hence the creation of safe spaces and that creates a new element to this situation in my opinion.

Maybe you are late to this whole issue, but until very recently organisations like Stonewall have argued that there should be 'no debate' on this issue.

Sometimes women couldn't book meeting spaces, and if they could men tried to prevent them from entering the building.

The over arching point is that you can't talk about women's rights at all if you can't define them. We can argue about when 'safe spaces' are necessary, but only if we can explain who needs them and why.

I can't believe this even needs to be said on a website that that has so much content related to pregnancy and childbirth, but women need rights that men don't - but B*y Ocado withdrew advertising because discussion of women's rights is apparently transphobic!!

But you think women shouldn't be happy and relieved that their rights have finally been clarified? That they should keep quiet because it might offend some men?

PastIsAnotherCountry · 20/04/2025 12:32

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 20/04/2025 12:21

We could do with this as a pinned post! So true.

Succinct version of the Bunbury preamble?

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