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TRAs deface Millicent Fawcett statue

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Peony1897 · 19/04/2025 17:16

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/04/19/transgender-activists-deface-millicent-fawcett-statue/

How dare they.

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Kucinghitam · 20/04/2025 10:27

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:21

Women have more societal power (mainstream acceptance, legal recognition, infrastructure) than white, heterosexual men (I'm not sure why we are assuming the trans community are all white though?)
They are statistically even more likely than women to be the victims of harassment and /or violent crime.

Well goodness.

Dramatic · 20/04/2025 10:27

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:15

Can you see why that stance is aggrevating.. haha I've got what you want, and you can never have it...
Could you imagine if a man said that to a group of women, or a white person to a group of black people, or an able bodied person to a group of disabled people.
A couple of generations ago you could have a heterosexual couple saying that to a same sex couple.

And yet I still see the argument about the safe places. The nuance here is that women have historically been the disempowered group hence the creation of safe spaces and that creates a new element to this situation in my opinion.

But you're talking about groups with power there, women historically aren't the group with power, men are. It would be more comparable if white people wanted to become black and then aggressively protested when they weren't fully accepted in to the community

Naunet · 20/04/2025 10:28

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:22

I am not judging that viewpoint, just highlighting that the trans community are not anti-woman.

Put it on a placard at their next anti woman protest.

aylis · 20/04/2025 10:28

Saying women as a group have more social power than men - of any identity - as a group is the exact anti-feminist erasure of knowledge of sex as an axis of oppression that we're talking about. The complete inability to centre women in the conversation to any degree at all even within the context of the specific legal protected characteristic which is designed to acknowledge and address that oppression is outrageous.

The multiple crowdfunded tribunals and court cases are a direct manifestation of that lack of power and the decades and decades of fighting to asset our status in law. It's not been power, it's been dogged determination in the face of a society - including women - that wanted and wants to keep us down and disenfranchised.

Brefugee · 20/04/2025 10:30

TheKeatingFive · 20/04/2025 10:16

You see the more extreme placards etc at any protest

That's simply not true. None of the LWS events had anything remotely like this, despite being faced with it. Take some responsibility for the behaviour of the people you are cheerleading here.

to be fair, at LWS events there is usually a big banner that says something like:

Woman (n) - adult human female

and that is literal genocide, you bigots

Waitwhat23 · 20/04/2025 10:31

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:26

I don't feel as though I have ever been silenced on Mumsnet in years gone by.

I do feel these days that you have to 100% agree in every point with the anti trans argument and no nuance can be discussed.

I also think the is a greater pattern of people just insulting each other and not actually talking about the key points of the debate.

It doesn't feel a safe space for women to hold their own views these days, only to agree with the mob.

I don't feel as though I have ever been silenced on Mumsnet in years gone by.

Again, very telling.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 20/04/2025 10:32

Naunet · 20/04/2025 10:28

Put it on a placard at their next anti woman protest.

It would make a nice change from the Death To All TERFs ones.

OctopusFriend · 20/04/2025 10:34

Brefugee · 20/04/2025 10:30

to be fair, at LWS events there is usually a big banner that says something like:

Woman (n) - adult human female

and that is literal genocide, you bigots

Oh my god!! You mean they didn't say "bio"?!
Fascists.

TheOtherRaven · 20/04/2025 10:34

I do feel these days that you have to 100% agree in every point with the anti trans argument and no nuance can be discussed.

...... yet here are you, not agreeing, and people discussing nuance with you.

Naunet · 20/04/2025 10:35

TheOtherRaven · 20/04/2025 10:34

I do feel these days that you have to 100% agree in every point with the anti trans argument and no nuance can be discussed.

...... yet here are you, not agreeing, and people discussing nuance with you.

I think they mean it's getting harder and harder to gaslight women into #BeKind

RedToothBrush · 20/04/2025 10:39

I do feel these days that you have to 100% agree in every point with the anti trans argument and no nuance can be discussed

Biology isn't a nuanced subject. Biology isn't bigoted. Biology isn't something you can debate as a result! Biology isn't anti trans. Nor are women's rights - they aren't anti trans.

borntobequiet · 20/04/2025 10:45

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:26

I don't feel as though I have ever been silenced on Mumsnet in years gone by.

I do feel these days that you have to 100% agree in every point with the anti trans argument and no nuance can be discussed.

I also think the is a greater pattern of people just insulting each other and not actually talking about the key points of the debate.

It doesn't feel a safe space for women to hold their own views these days, only to agree with the mob.

Yet here you are, discussing.

When, specifically, have you been insulted?

What key points have not been discussed?

Why do you term us a “mob”?

SaveMeFromHumanity · 20/04/2025 10:45

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:18

No, I am saying that when you have a group who has more societal power (bio women in this example) than another group (in this example the trans community) that it is aggrevating to situation to gloat about that.

Women had to take it to the highest court in the land to get our sex recognised.

Despite it not being law, organisations, government, businesses and courts have fallen over themselves to appease the trans community over recent years.

This has resulted in women's organisations being closed, lesbians being kicked off lesbian dating apps, women being denied medical treatment because the correctly identified the sex of a male HCP when they had asked for a female one, women losing their jobs etc when the angry men kicked off.

And you think women have had all the power?

Brefugee · 20/04/2025 10:46

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:20

I don't think that can be an overnight solution. In terms of infrastructure etc a couple of generations probably.

I didn't say it would happen overnight. How long do you think it took women to get public toilets?

This is the problem here the TRAs want everything, they want it all now and they don't want to have to make the slightest effort to get it.

(Plus most of them don't want a 3rd space anyway)

Waitwhat23 · 20/04/2025 10:47

At a protest in Dundee yesterday, a man announced to a cheering audience (including a Scottish Green MSP') that he will 'take a shite on JKR'.

This appears to be considered reasonable behaviour by those attending these protests.

SaveMeFromHumanity · 20/04/2025 10:51

Most people, thankfully, recognise this for what it is.

The same old, same old of men getting angry when women say no.

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:53

TheKeatingFive · 20/04/2025 10:25

This is errant nonsense.

Tell the woman in prison that she has more 'societal power' than the hulking 6 foot man they want to lock her up with.

Tell the women in rape counselling who have been told they need to 'reframe their trauma' and accept a man as a counsellor that they more 'societal power' than him.

Tell the sick or disabled woman who can't be guaranteed same sex intimate care that they have more 'societal power' than the man overriding their consent.

Just FRO with the misogyny and the dishonesty and downright malignancy. I am so through with your utter bullshit.

I don't think you understand what societal power is... It has nothing to do with physical power in a 1:1 situation.

I have said umpteen times on this thread that safe spaces need to protected. As does the safety of the trans community who are at even high risk of harassment and assault.

I think that's the danger is dehumanising any group of people (e.g. in the discussion about the trans community immediately talking about a violent criminal in a prison) so they become seen as less than human. This is what we need to be careful of.

Also an inability to see nuance. I have said on about 6 occasions that I agree safe spaces need to be protected but I dislike the vilification of the trans community. This is immediately interpreted as me not caring about safe spaces. It

Waitwhat23 · 20/04/2025 10:55

There's no such thing as 'safe spaces'.

There are single sex exemptions which are detailed in the guidance to the EQA2010.

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:55

Waitwhat23 · 20/04/2025 10:31

I don't feel as though I have ever been silenced on Mumsnet in years gone by.

Again, very telling.

I will tell you what my experience is thank you, you won't tell me what my experience has been ...how patronising

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 20/04/2025 10:55

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 09:07

You lost me at Kemi Badenoch says!

Yes, let's all be very careful never to listen to anyone else's views. That's worked so well when it came to the Brexit referendum, Trump getting elected in the US twice now, Farage and Reform here and many other anti-immigration parties across Europe - all cases where populists and rabble rousers were able to make huge electoral gains by whipping up hate based on what should have been easily disproved lies because mainstream politicians, especially on the left, ignored the valid concerns that were the root of all this and labelled the people expressing those concerns as bigots and racists.

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:56

RedToothBrush · 20/04/2025 10:26

Again, are you on glue?

So much social power that women are far more likely to be caught up in medical scandals and have inadequate medical care?

So much social power that they are economically more vulnerable, hold less decision making jobs and less able to influence policy making?

Get off the Andrew Tateisms.

Could use a more coherent argument than 'are you on glue?'

aylis · 20/04/2025 10:57

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:53

I don't think you understand what societal power is... It has nothing to do with physical power in a 1:1 situation.

I have said umpteen times on this thread that safe spaces need to protected. As does the safety of the trans community who are at even high risk of harassment and assault.

I think that's the danger is dehumanising any group of people (e.g. in the discussion about the trans community immediately talking about a violent criminal in a prison) so they become seen as less than human. This is what we need to be careful of.

Also an inability to see nuance. I have said on about 6 occasions that I agree safe spaces need to be protected but I dislike the vilification of the trans community. This is immediately interpreted as me not caring about safe spaces. It

Kind of like when women are demonised as bigots. We're already objects, so much easier to shit on us when people can convince themselves we're not even nice objects.

Lark1ane · 20/04/2025 10:57

Nuance is the new nebulous dogwhistle

My bingo card is full.

CleverButScatty · 20/04/2025 10:57

RedToothBrush · 20/04/2025 10:39

I do feel these days that you have to 100% agree in every point with the anti trans argument and no nuance can be discussed

Biology isn't a nuanced subject. Biology isn't bigoted. Biology isn't something you can debate as a result! Biology isn't anti trans. Nor are women's rights - they aren't anti trans.

People used to use the same argument against homosexuality... It's biology.

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