ETA this was written in response to @Brefugee on the previous page, she asked what my point was in posting here. the quotation hasn't copied over. Just to give context. My answer is in good faith.
Many years ago I learned about IC thinking. This is integrative complexity thinking. Research shows that when any group becomes polarised and sees only it's own viewpoint, this increases the risk of violence and conflict (physical and verbal). Low IC thinking is the best predictor of whether a conflict will become violent or resolve peacefully.
I happen to believe that understanding shades of grey and the viewpoint of the other group - even if one disagrees with it - is important in conflict resolution. And I guess I have skin in the game for the peaceful resolution of this conflict. I recognise that third spaces are the most possible way ahead.
I just find the contempt and vilification of both sides very difficult. And yes the TRA side has more violent imagery and threats, but just reading this thread shows that a lot of women have become very contemptuous and no longer see the humanity in ordinary trans people who are not activists.
Anyway I am hanging up my own moderate activist boots. Shall leave you guys to it and avoid the hostility.
https://www.icthinking.psychol.cam.ac.uk/about-ic-thinking