meh - as they say in the courtroom dramas "they opened the door to that"
I haven't seen personal attacks, although i have seen some posts have been deleted so, who knows.
As pp said there is a strong whiff of both NAMALT and "not my Nigel" on this thread. And I for one can't be doing with that constantly. I want us to be able to talk about things with constantly being told those two things. FFS we KNOW that already.
So, in summary: if you don't want people talking about your child, don't bring your child into the thread. And if someone does bring their child into the thread, know it may be discussed. But also: if someone brings their child into a thread don't make personal attacks on that child.