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Katy Perry going into orbit

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ssd · 14/04/2025 22:04

Money talks eh. What a load of bollocks. Bunch of millionaires in tight suits going on a ten minute mission with rhe girlfriend of a dodgy billionaire. Girl power my arse.

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Sameoldsameoldsame · 16/04/2025 06:45

SpidersAreShitheads · 16/04/2025 03:14

You’re spectacularly missing the point.

Wealthy, famous women did not get on that flight by merit, are not aspirational, and they’re not a positive role model for girls.

Men get to go into space in comfortable spacesuits. Women have to go wearing slinky little catsuits.

The many, many women who are irritated by this aren’t jealous or “tearing down other women”. The reverse is true. We’re upset by the rampant misogyny, unequal standards, and sexist reporting.

The women who are actually aspirational are real life astronauts like Suni Williams. By the way, did you notice how Suni’s appearance got ripped to pieces on her return to earth but barely a word about how her male counterpart But h Wilmore looked?!

This is why it matters that we don’t reduce women’s value to how pretty they can be. We are worth so much more.

Women in STEM can be beautiful and glamorous. I have a sister-in-law who is. However, Katy Perry has nothing to do with STEM. Nor does Gayle King. Or Lauren Sanchez.

Other than the environmental impact, I don’t really care if they want to go up to space. But dear fucking god, the attention this flight got is just ridiculous - and has nothing to do with STEM. It’s just a PR gig for Bezos - a bloke puts women in sexy clothes so he can benefit…. plus ca change. Misogyny #101.

And as a PP pointed out, they were neither crew nor were they the first all-female space flight.

This.

Well said. Some posters have spectacularly missed the point.

miraxxx · 16/04/2025 07:06

Mumtobabyhavoc · 16/04/2025 05:01

Oh, jeezus, spare me with the pseudo feminism. Another thread of people hiding their bitterness at life under the feminism banner. Build women up and applaud their endeavors. Don't shit all over them because you don't like their jumpsuits.

Pseudo feminism and bitter scolds. Listen to yourself.

MananaPenelope · 16/04/2025 08:36

@SpidersAreShitheads has said it all really. This was an extravagant, self-promotional act that did little to benefit anyone beyond those involved on a PR mission. It had nothing to do with STEM at all.

No skills required other than signing a big fat cheque.

The flight was entirely automated, good job really given the skill set of the passengers on board, bar one.

ssd · 16/04/2025 08:44

Well at least we can look forward to Katy Perry's new song about her experience.
Every cloud eh 🤦‍♀️

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Ffgeefg · 16/04/2025 08:53

Why is everyone so upset with her? I don't understand.

HarshHimalayanWinter · 16/04/2025 08:59

I agree with previous posters, this stunt does nothing at all to advance feminism or STEM, quite the opposite. Just imagine getting a similarly situated group of men to do this - a pop star, a chat show host, an influencer and then a token activist/scientist. Dress them in superhero style fitted outfits, And all the fanfare, look at these brave boys going into space! It would look ridiculous. Why don’t we see this as ridiculous because they are female.

It is a toxic (largely republican American) interpretation of feminism. Look, girls being brave and looking sexy. But actually doing nothing at all but sit in pod and squeal and then talk about how exciting and life changing it all was. Think of men doing this and how ridiculous it would look.

This is not equality.

MananaPenelope · 16/04/2025 09:10

@Ffgeefg, in broad terms, because it is a tone deaf publicity stunt, environmentally irresponsible and entirely disconnected from reality.

Add in the fact that she thinks it’s about women in STEM and that she’s somehow championing it. I graduated in STEM 35 years ago and it was a very tough space to be in.

Add in that these celebrities with fat cheque books are being labelled as role models, they are not role models I’d want my kids or the young people I work with to aspire to.

KP actually stated that her motivation included ‘setting an example for her daughter and showing that such extraordinary achievements are possible, highlighting the collective energy and importance of making space for women in exploration’.

Absolute rot, KP was on the flight because she has rich friends and a big bank balance.

Leafy74 · 16/04/2025 09:11

Ffgeefg · 16/04/2025 08:53

Why is everyone so upset with her? I don't understand.

It's the false claims they are making around the words crew, astronauts and mission.
They have awarded themselves a status - a quite a significant hard to achieve status - they have no entitlement to.
They have then garnished these lies with sexiness and several layers of nauseating 'hey guys look at me".
To top it off they have claimed to be role models for young girls.

Bring back Helen Sharman!

Ffgeefg · 16/04/2025 09:14

Leafy74 · 16/04/2025 09:11

It's the false claims they are making around the words crew, astronauts and mission.
They have awarded themselves a status - a quite a significant hard to achieve status - they have no entitlement to.
They have then garnished these lies with sexiness and several layers of nauseating 'hey guys look at me".
To top it off they have claimed to be role models for young girls.

Bring back Helen Sharman!

Oh what no. They just paid for it.

Leafy74 · 16/04/2025 09:15

Sorry not sure what you mean.

miraxxx · 16/04/2025 09:24

Leafy74 · 16/04/2025 09:11

It's the false claims they are making around the words crew, astronauts and mission.
They have awarded themselves a status - a quite a significant hard to achieve status - they have no entitlement to.
They have then garnished these lies with sexiness and several layers of nauseating 'hey guys look at me".
To top it off they have claimed to be role models for young girls.

Bring back Helen Sharman!

Exactly.

Ffgeefg · 16/04/2025 09:30

Leafy74 · 16/04/2025 09:15

Sorry not sure what you mean.

They didn't do anything great. They just paid for the flight.

SueSuddio · 16/04/2025 10:20

I wonder how much we've moved on from the 1970s if all the 'kick-ass trailblazer females' look like Charlie's Angels.

DraigCymraeg · 16/04/2025 10:29

Ffgeefg · 16/04/2025 08:53

Why is everyone so upset with her? I don't understand.

I agree. What about the others?

annoyedandbored · 16/04/2025 12:29

justlonelystars · 15/04/2025 06:35

I think everyone’s missing the point a bit. Yes, to us mature adults, skin tight space suits and lip gloss seem a bit silly. But for young girls, who DO like to look glam at all times, it shows them that they can do science and still be cool. If they all went up looking frumpy and frazzled, most teen girls wouldn’t engage or be interested, they wouldn’t even glance at the news story. This is a way to get them interested in STEM.

Look up Kellie gerardi, her whole mission is making girls realize they can have both

TokyoKyoto · 16/04/2025 13:08

When Katy Perry released Woman's World and everyone attacked the video, I thought, oh that's a shame, 8 or 10 years ago we'd have eaten it up, she's just not judged the moment. But it turns out she really is that person. Crass.

The worrying thing for me is that this is a rewriting of what feminism should be. It's absolutely debasing feminism and turning it into some sort of sexy glam time. Well if you teach young women that's all they need to be feminists - and let's face it it's been like this for years on social media - then they are not equipped to properly deal with patriarchy unless they go out of their way to do so. They'll just say 'I'm a feminist, I can look like this and..." and what? There's nothing more to it for a lot of young women. I think it's insidious and ultimately a move by the billionaire sect to sell a type of womanhood that utterly hobbles women

SueSuddio · 16/04/2025 13:25

I'm just sick of the sex and the city, ultra glam femme-inists.

Couldn't we have had a few frumps?

I mean as a woman I get more inspired by Tim Peake, a short, wiry ginger nerd with a bad haircut. He's completely normal and look what he has achieved.

I bet he doesn't rake out hundreds a month on blow drys and Botox.

Uricon2 · 16/04/2025 13:25

The irony is that the quickest Google will show plenty of women astronauts going back decades, posing proudly in their spacesuits for their official photos, with "done" hair and makeup. Proper astronauts (the ones who actually go into space) with multiple STEM degrees, test pilot experience, etc., who went through gruelling selection to get there at all. Noone has any issue with it.

I'd love to know their opinion of "putting the ass into astronaut" courtesy of Katy Perry and the rest of the infantilising performance this week.

Lifeofthepartay · 16/04/2025 13:29

Meanwhile we are paying extortionate prices for energy because of whatever zero net goals the UK has, and washing slime and blood of food packaging to recycle, this dystopia is getting boring 🙈

MananaPenelope · 16/04/2025 15:39

@TokyoKyoto spot on.

I still remember a conversation with my eldest DC when they first became aware of celebs with ‘enhanced appearances’. It must have been 2015/6 as we always watch competitive athletics, we talked about Jessica Ennis and how women like her, strong, healthy, naturally talented, disciplined, committed (and seems like a great person) was the sort of role model to aspire to.

@Uricon2 there hasn’t been a single comment from an astronaut has there. I remember Sarah Brightman calling off her trip, I’m sure she signed up for something like 6 months of training but that was actually a trip to the ISS.

LillyPJ · 16/04/2025 15:42

I agree. Marina Hyde has an excellent column about it in The Guardian. Trying to dress it up as an all female 'crew' going into 'space' was just a publicity stunt. If anything, I see it as destructive to feminism rather than promoting it, seeing as they seemed more concerned about costumes, make-up and hair than about science, humanity or the environment.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 16/04/2025 17:35

@Uricon2 "I'd love to know their opinion of "putting the ass into astronaut" courtesy of Katy Perry and the rest of the infantilising performance this week. "

Well if it's anything less than gushing whooping praise then they'll just be accused of being jealous 🙄.

Glokkey · 16/04/2025 17:38

The fact they all have poor Indian women’s hair glued onto their heads and they want to talk about how much of an advancement the “flight” was just disgusts me. Focus on the Earth that you exploit.

PerkingFaintly · 16/04/2025 17:40

ssd · 16/04/2025 08:44

Well at least we can look forward to Katy Perry's new song about her experience.
Every cloud eh 🤦‍♀️

🎶"We went to space in a penis.
Except we didn't quite..." 🎶

Uricon2 · 16/04/2025 17:42

PerkingFaintly · 16/04/2025 17:40

🎶"We went to space in a penis.
Except we didn't quite..." 🎶

"We went up 4 miles past the Karman line

And that was the extent of our flight"