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Person with MH problems should not be better off no working

581 replies

YourTidyScroller · 13/04/2025 16:54

Just that really. Someone working a minimum wage job full-time should not be worse off than someone not working due to mental health problems and claiming benefits.
I know several people in this situation claiming UC for housing benefit, council tax, ESA, disability top up and PIP. They all have no work record and few qualifications so would probably only get a minimum wage job. But their income would reduce. So they have a financial incentive not to recover.

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Mumble12 · 13/04/2025 21:29

YourTidyScroller · 13/04/2025 21:24

How many times do I need to say I know that. But normally when peoples mental health improves enough so they can work full time, then they are no longer eligible for PIP.

you said “working people would have the same costs associated”, if they did they could claim pip.

someone's mental health may never be cured, but pip may help support them back into the workplace.

Ive not heard of many people being cured of mental ill health, rather more likely to be correctly treated and managed.

WeylandYutani · 13/04/2025 21:30

YourTidyScroller · 13/04/2025 21:28

Unemployed people already just exist. If you are a single person you get hardly anything.

Someone who is unemployed and fit to work is different to someone who is not fit to work, hence why they get different amounts of UC.

Mumble12 · 13/04/2025 21:30

Hastentoadd · 13/04/2025 21:05

I disagree, as how can they be sure, no one is going to admit to faking it

Well if you go by that logic, no benefit would have a fraud rate surely? UC is estimated to be at around 10.9%

Thats not from 10.9% of claimants saying “yep, I’m defrauding the system here guys”

YourTidyScroller · 13/04/2025 21:31

@Mumble12 I did not say that. I said working people had costs associated with working.

Mental ill health can get better. My grandmother spent lots of time in her early life in a mental asylum, but in later life had good mental health.
Some mental ill health is life long and can only be managed.

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YourTidyScroller · 13/04/2025 21:32

WeylandYutani · 13/04/2025 21:30

Someone who is unemployed and fit to work is different to someone who is not fit to work, hence why they get different amounts of UC.

I was replying to a comment. I did not bring up unemployed people.

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Mumble12 · 13/04/2025 21:33

Happilyobtuse · 13/04/2025 21:23

Yes, bcoz that is grossly unfair to the tax payer. No one should get more than basic minimum to exist on benefits. If you want extras you have to work for it.

Edited

So someone living with a life limiting condition has to live in poverty or “go out and work for it”?

Excellent

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 13/04/2025 21:35

@YourTidyScroller - surely the real problem is greedy employers who don’t pay decent wages. Why is it OK for you to attack people suffering with mental health conditions, rather than the employers who aren’t paying enough?

How much, exactly, do you want people who are mentally ill to suffer - bearing in mind they are probably already suffering due to their mental health issues?

Happilyobtuse · 13/04/2025 21:36

WeylandYutani · 13/04/2025 21:25

The person with MH illness might get £1k more but they also have an illness. The other person does not.

Sorry, you don’t get extra money just bcoz you are ill. It is ok if you were given carers which were paid for or CBT which was paid for but not just money for the sake of it.

Mumble12 · 13/04/2025 21:36

YourTidyScroller · 13/04/2025 21:31

@Mumble12 I did not say that. I said working people had costs associated with working.

Mental ill health can get better. My grandmother spent lots of time in her early life in a mental asylum, but in later life had good mental health.
Some mental ill health is life long and can only be managed.

Mental ill health which is severe enough to ensure you need PIP, does not cure itself without treatment.

You should write a book, you know more categories of people than I could dream
of. A grandparent in an asylum whose ill health cured itself, a parent faking mental illness to get ESA, three friends with poor mental health? All claiming PIP they are eligible for, but don’t need, as well as friends with physical disabilities who do deserve their PIP becuase they use it to pay for carers!

WeylandYutani · 13/04/2025 21:36

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 13/04/2025 21:35

@YourTidyScroller - surely the real problem is greedy employers who don’t pay decent wages. Why is it OK for you to attack people suffering with mental health conditions, rather than the employers who aren’t paying enough?

How much, exactly, do you want people who are mentally ill to suffer - bearing in mind they are probably already suffering due to their mental health issues?

Is telling they specified people with MH conditions. Why not physical ones?

Hastentoadd · 13/04/2025 21:36

Mumble12 · 13/04/2025 21:30

Well if you go by that logic, no benefit would have a fraud rate surely? UC is estimated to be at around 10.9%

Thats not from 10.9% of claimants saying “yep, I’m defrauding the system here guys”

I’m honestly not as familiar as you with the benefits system to comment on that but I can tell you that it is a well known fact ( some commenters on here even admitted that they know people who do it) that there are people out there faking MH issues to get benefits

TheBuffetInspector · 13/04/2025 21:37

Coffeeishot · 13/04/2025 21:26

You want disabled Ill people and unemployed to just exist Because that's the all they deserve ?

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Don't rise to it @Happilyobtuse

It's an online forum, attacking people and forcing people to shared their disabilies.

I give no fucks. Hence @YourTidyScroller doesn't reply to me. Especially about the Daddy race! Hers was an arsehole. As was mine. Two different genres of arsehole.
But.. Op must have her reasons.
Surely?

Nobody post their most heartfelt troubles or reasons of claiming because they've been goaded in to it.

I give no fucks, my children are adults. Nobody can make me feel bad about my MH.

Don't feed...

Love you all

Mumble12 · 13/04/2025 21:37

Hastentoadd · 13/04/2025 21:36

I’m honestly not as familiar as you with the benefits system to comment on that but I can tell you that it is a well known fact ( some commenters on here even admitted that they know people who do it) that there are people out there faking MH issues to get benefits

If we take anecdotes as “well known facts” we could prove anything we like.

Maitri108 · 13/04/2025 21:37

YourTidyScroller · 13/04/2025 21:24

How many times do I need to say I know that. But normally when peoples mental health improves enough so they can work full time, then they are no longer eligible for PIP.

You missed my last post. Can you break down how much each of your friends gets in benefits please?

WeylandYutani · 13/04/2025 21:38

Happilyobtuse · 13/04/2025 21:36

Sorry, you don’t get extra money just bcoz you are ill. It is ok if you were given carers which were paid for or CBT which was paid for but not just money for the sake of it.

You do get extra money for being ill.
If you have no experience with the benefits system then ssshhhhh.

Crazydoglady1980 · 13/04/2025 21:38

spicemaiden · 13/04/2025 20:02

Why isn’t he receiving a personal budget from adult social care?

Even if you get a personal budget from social care, you have to pay towards this from your PIP and other benefits

pointythings · 13/04/2025 21:38

Mumble12 · 13/04/2025 21:33

So someone living with a life limiting condition has to live in poverty or “go out and work for it”?

Excellent

Yep. So you're already ill, whether physically or mentally or both, through no fault of your own, you should never have any treats, anything frivolous, anything that brings you a bit of happiness. This is the meanness of spirit I was talking about. And people who think that way ought to be ashamed of themselves.

Full disclosure: I am a full time working tax payer who claims no benefits whatsoever.

SquashedSquid · 13/04/2025 21:38

Coffeeishot · 13/04/2025 21:26

You want disabled Ill people and unemployed to just exist Because that's the all they deserve ?

Edited

Sadly, they don't even want us to exist. They begrudge us the tiniest amount of money.

YourTidyScroller · 13/04/2025 21:39

Mumble12 · 13/04/2025 21:36

Mental ill health which is severe enough to ensure you need PIP, does not cure itself without treatment.

You should write a book, you know more categories of people than I could dream
of. A grandparent in an asylum whose ill health cured itself, a parent faking mental illness to get ESA, three friends with poor mental health? All claiming PIP they are eligible for, but don’t need, as well as friends with physical disabilities who do deserve their PIP becuase they use it to pay for carers!

I have repeatedly said my friends are not faking it. Please stop making things up. They are too ill to work.
I have said many times I have had psychosis that is managed by medication. Mental illness tends to run in families, and people with mental illness liek myself who have used support groups, tend to know more people with serious mental illness. My dad was just an arsehole though.
You have made it clear you think I am a liar. I am not. I am just someone who lives outside of your middle class bubble.

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TheBuffetInspector · 13/04/2025 21:39

TheBuffetInspector · 13/04/2025 21:37

Don't rise to it @Happilyobtuse

It's an online forum, attacking people and forcing people to shared their disabilies.

I give no fucks. Hence @YourTidyScroller doesn't reply to me. Especially about the Daddy race! Hers was an arsehole. As was mine. Two different genres of arsehole.
But.. Op must have her reasons.
Surely?

Nobody post their most heartfelt troubles or reasons of claiming because they've been goaded in to it.

I give no fucks, my children are adults. Nobody can make me feel bad about my MH.

Don't feed...

Love you all

Fuck me I quoted the wrong person there. @Coffeeishot

SquashedSquid · 13/04/2025 21:40

Happilyobtuse · 13/04/2025 21:36

Sorry, you don’t get extra money just bcoz you are ill. It is ok if you were given carers which were paid for or CBT which was paid for but not just money for the sake of it.

Ah, here are the illiterate Easter Holiday children.

TheBuffetInspector · 13/04/2025 21:41

Either way. I'm calling the thread a load of benefit bashing wank.

Punzel · 13/04/2025 21:42

I just think from basic fairness and common sense you should never be better off on benefits than you are working. Someone’s total benefit package should always be capped at just below the rate of working FT at minimum wage.

Two thirds of responders to your poll agree, but the majority of posters are doing the usual aggressive, belittling, spiteful posts disagreeing and calling everyone who questions benefits a murdering fascist etc. Without the poll everyone would think that was the majority opinion. But it isn’t. People who want more and more benefits for more and more people in more and more circumstances are in the minority. Most people agree with a safety net for those who need it but that essentially people should be working as much as they can and that the staggering increase in people claiming benefits for MH problems especially is not supportable and many of those people can work (and in the past did work) and actually need to work because it will improve their MH if anything.

Honestly, if you are all over the Internet telling everyone they are arseholes for questioning benefits and in an echo chamber where everyone agrees with you and patting yourselves on the back for saying “but what about the MILLIONAIRES” you need to wake up.

Serencwtch · 13/04/2025 21:43

YourTidyScroller · 13/04/2025 21:02

No.
And someone working has costs associated with that.

So the most sick, disabled & vulnerable in society should have the lowest standard of living!?

YourTidyScroller · 13/04/2025 21:43

TheBuffetInspector · 13/04/2025 21:41

Either way. I'm calling the thread a load of benefit bashing wank.

You can say you think that is my attitude. But the facts I have posted are true.

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