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To think people eat one heck of a lot!

283 replies

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

OP posts:
fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:41

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:39

So I’m gathering that I can plant out my sweet peas, leave the sunflowers and tomatoes (aka triffids) on the windowsill and sow some sugar snaps or French beans this weekend?

Yes but don't eat anything

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:41

SiobhanSharpe · 10/04/2025 22:37

Don't think DH has sown his yet so you should be ok.
Most things catch up.
We are in Cambridge

Thank you, I’m a little north of you so things are usually a bit slower to get started although I did see Hawthorn in flower yesterday which was a bit surprising.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:42

MurdoMunro · 10/04/2025 22:40

I think it’s a pencil?

It's the planting hardiness zone:
(And a pencil!)😁
https://www.gardenia.net/guide/hardiness-zones-in-the-united-kingdom

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:42

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:41

Yes but don't eat anything

Don’t worry, anymore of this sunshine and I think the tomato plants will be consuming me first…Grin

SiobhanSharpe · 10/04/2025 22:43

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:39

So I’m gathering that I can plant out my sweet peas, leave the sunflowers and tomatoes (aka triffids) on the windowsill and sow some sugar snaps or French beans this weekend?

Where we are there is still a threat of night frosts until early May, so maybe harden the sweet peas off gradually by putting them still in their pots outside during the day?

MurdoMunro · 10/04/2025 22:43

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:41

Yes but don't eat anything

Maybe just one or two of the sunflower seeds. Not three though.

Braygirlnow · 10/04/2025 22:44

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

Would you like a medal? 🏅

PandoraSox · 10/04/2025 22:48

I love that a thread which had the potential to turn into a competitive undereating thread has turned into a gardening thread with the emphasis on peas.

It has quite restored my faith in MN.

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:48

God no, that would be madness.

Back to sweet peas. You lot need to give your shandy-drinking soft Southern snowflake sweet pea seedlings some tough love. I just looked at the hardiness map which someone kindly provided upthread, and it turns out I am in 7, which is one zone away from the Cairngorms. Speaking as a hardened Zone 7er, mine have been in the ground for weeks and I tell you they are fine. Almost ready to make their own packed lunches and iron their school shirts.

Enigma53 · 10/04/2025 22:49

Goodness I feel hungry now!! 🤣

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:50

Braygirlnow · 10/04/2025 22:44

Would you like a medal? 🏅

The baked potato meal seems to be a British obsession, tbf.

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:52

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:50

The baked potato meal seems to be a British obsession, tbf.

Speaking of potatoes, I am nervous about when to plant out my nicely chitted Red Dukes as the weather is turning a lot colder next week.

Mansionscoldandgrey · 10/04/2025 22:52

Thank you Mumtobabyhavoc, you've reminded me to add rosemary to my Waitrose order!

Comtesse · 10/04/2025 22:53

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:41

carry on eating ladies!

I don’t eat ladies, I prefer a massive salad. Thanks.

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 22:53

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:52

Speaking of potatoes, I am nervous about when to plant out my nicely chitted Red Dukes as the weather is turning a lot colder next week.

I planted mine 2 weeks ago but then I do live in the south west.

MurdoMunro · 10/04/2025 22:54

I’m zone 7 too @fgswhywouldIdothat also quite high up and sweet peas are likewise, doing well.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:54

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:52

Speaking of potatoes, I am nervous about when to plant out my nicely chitted Red Dukes as the weather is turning a lot colder next week.

Oh, jeezus, don't get me started on planting potatoes. 🤦‍♀️
They completely took over my garden and I spent ages digging them out to get rid last year. They're the devil along with the predatory tomato plants I had.

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 22:57

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:54

Oh, jeezus, don't get me started on planting potatoes. 🤦‍♀️
They completely took over my garden and I spent ages digging them out to get rid last year. They're the devil along with the predatory tomato plants I had.

I have mine contained in a black bin, no spreading at all.

Potatoes that is.

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:57

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:54

Oh, jeezus, don't get me started on planting potatoes. 🤦‍♀️
They completely took over my garden and I spent ages digging them out to get rid last year. They're the devil along with the predatory tomato plants I had.

I have this issue with garlic. Planted it for the first time about 5 years ago. Didn't harvest every last clove (wet clay soil). It regrew. Every year.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:59

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 22:57

I have mine contained in a black bin, no spreading at all.

Potatoes that is.

Edited

I may have to try your isolation technique. 🤔

MurdoMunro · 10/04/2025 22:59

Oo you’ve made me think - I haven’t had a proper 90s era style plate of garlic bread in bloody ages. Going to have that this weekend.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 23:00

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:57

I have this issue with garlic. Planted it for the first time about 5 years ago. Didn't harvest every last clove (wet clay soil). It regrew. Every year.

On the bright side, I bet you don't have vampires?

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 23:01

Think I will be dreaming about veg tonight 😂

ghostyslovesheets · 10/04/2025 23:02

Growlybear83 · 10/04/2025 22:10

But people on Mumsnet make a chicken last for at least two weeks!

Shameful given the cost of living crisis - in my day it would last a month

Lilyhatesjaz · 10/04/2025 23:03

I was planning to plant some onions tomorrow, they are one of my favourite things to grow, I like the way they kind of climb out of the ground by themselves.

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