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To think people eat one heck of a lot!

283 replies

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

OP posts:
Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/04/2025 06:44

I checked out the temp garden centre at Costco and I'm considering planting an olive tree and lavender. I was having a very lovely garden fantasy that had me looking over my olive grove while sipping a glass of wine and arranging fresh lavender in a vase...

BunnyRuddington · 11/04/2025 07:56

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 22:42

It's the planting hardiness zone:
(And a pencil!)😁
https://www.gardenia.net/guide/hardiness-zones-in-the-united-kingdom

Edited

That’s very usual thank you. I think we’re a 7 too. I will look at it in more detail later for the planting ideas Smile

BunnyRuddington · 11/04/2025 08:03

BunnyRuddington · 11/04/2025 07:56

That’s very usual thank you. I think we’re a 7 too. I will look at it in more detail later for the planting ideas Smile

*Useful

MurdoMunro · 11/04/2025 08:19

I’m looking at my sweet peas right now. They were sown direct, outside, about 4 weeks ago, zone 7, quite high (1200 feet). They’ve all
germinated and about 2 inches tall.

ghostyslovesheets · 11/04/2025 08:21

That’s such a useful site - thank you - we are an 8

ghostyslovesheets · 11/04/2025 08:23

Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/04/2025 06:44

I checked out the temp garden centre at Costco and I'm considering planting an olive tree and lavender. I was having a very lovely garden fantasy that had me looking over my olive grove while sipping a glass of wine and arranging fresh lavender in a vase...

I got my mum a little olive tree for her 70th - she’s 80 next year and it’s grown to a beautiful tree- in her tiny back yard in Liverpool!

Sharptonguedwoman · 11/04/2025 08:24

Jellycatspyjamas · 10/04/2025 21:32

Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.

Depending on portion sizes that’s hardly an excessive amount of food, reasonably balanced and nutritious. I’d have the porridge and fruit, soup for lunch possibly with a sandwich and a main meal in the evening.

If anything people competitively undereat on here.

Thank you. I was just thinking that. I might have porridge and fruit for breakfast, soup and a sandwich for lunch and a hot dinner in the evening, at least in the winter. That's spread over about 12 hrs though and I'm not overweight.
7pm meal might be warm quiche and salad in the summer.

BunnyRuddington · 11/04/2025 08:25

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 23:09

Good point re taste

One year we bought some so-called trombone squash seeds thinking it would be fun to gift DD's brass teacher a suitably shaped squash. They do not look like trombones:

You’re right! GrinGrinGrin

BunnyRuddington · 11/04/2025 08:26

MurdoMunro · 11/04/2025 08:19

I’m looking at my sweet peas right now. They were sown direct, outside, about 4 weeks ago, zone 7, quite high (1200 feet). They’ve all
germinated and about 2 inches tall.

I must be braver next year and sew outside Wink

Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/04/2025 08:52

I made pancakes with strawberries and choc chips for a late dinner around 8pm last night. I cut the strawberries into very small pieces and carefully put some into each pancake in the pan after spooning the batter out along with 7 choc chips each. I used the tip of a knife to press them into the batter and submerge them. The pancakes turned out beautifully and we ate them with maple syrup.
I think 7 choc chips is the perfect amount per pancake. I used to put 6 choc chips in each, but took a chance at 7 and am very glad I did. I've tried putting choc chips straight into the mixing bowl, but the result is not good as some pancakes end up with too many choc chips, or clumps of choc chips, and some have too few.
Although a tad tedious, a much better result comes from carefully placing additions into the pancake in the pan.

godmum56 · 11/04/2025 10:54

Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/04/2025 08:52

I made pancakes with strawberries and choc chips for a late dinner around 8pm last night. I cut the strawberries into very small pieces and carefully put some into each pancake in the pan after spooning the batter out along with 7 choc chips each. I used the tip of a knife to press them into the batter and submerge them. The pancakes turned out beautifully and we ate them with maple syrup.
I think 7 choc chips is the perfect amount per pancake. I used to put 6 choc chips in each, but took a chance at 7 and am very glad I did. I've tried putting choc chips straight into the mixing bowl, but the result is not good as some pancakes end up with too many choc chips, or clumps of choc chips, and some have too few.
Although a tad tedious, a much better result comes from carefully placing additions into the pancake in the pan.

life is too short to count choc chips! I do agree though that sprinkling any additions into the raw pancake batter once you have spooned it out is MUCH better than stirring into the batter in the bowl. You can make pictures too.

godmum56 · 11/04/2025 10:56

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:59

I’m a regular name changer but somehow this one doesn’t work for me. Maybe too much hot air involved?

definitely would be if I lived on pulses.

Teateaandmoretea · 11/04/2025 13:22

Sharptonguedwoman · 11/04/2025 08:24

Thank you. I was just thinking that. I might have porridge and fruit for breakfast, soup and a sandwich for lunch and a hot dinner in the evening, at least in the winter. That's spread over about 12 hrs though and I'm not overweight.
7pm meal might be warm quiche and salad in the summer.

Cottage pie is also hardly a heavy meal. In normal portion size anyway. Unless you eat it with chips or something.

Inmydreams88 · 11/04/2025 13:28

Porridge and fruit for breakfast
Jacket potato for lunch
cottage pie for tea

Yes they are 3 hot meals but what’s wrong with that eating that?! Some people don’t like cold food. As long as the Cottage pie was homemade and had some veggies on the side I’d consider that a healthy diet. Abit carb heavy for me but I wouldn’t bat an eyelid if someone ate that.

BlueCleaningCloth · 11/04/2025 13:33

I've definitely heard people claim that if a meal isn't of a certain temperature it doesn't exist haha.

And people call anything salady 'rabbit food' which gives a bit of insight into the state of their arteries I'm sure!

But yes, there is definitely a huge problem with gluttony and overeating in the UK, hence why such a huge proportion of people are overweight and even obese.

Lilyhatesjaz · 11/04/2025 13:48

Talk of rabbit food reminds how I used to share a bag of sprouts with my rabbit at Christmas, no one else would touch them.

MurdoMunro · 11/04/2025 14:50

I’m really thinking about this image @Lilyhatesjaz. Did you sit side by side with a bag of sprouts between you sharing nicely? Maybe with a Christmas special on the telly and granny half pissed ‘resting her eyes’ at the other end of the sofa?

Lilyhatesjaz · 11/04/2025 15:02

Of course 🤣

Mumtobabyhavoc · 13/04/2025 06:07

My neighbour has offered to split some top soil. 🤗

fgswhywouldIdothat · 13/04/2025 07:44

Just now, at 607am? Wild!

Pickingmyselfup · 13/04/2025 08:07

I would happily eat that on a daily basis.

My average workday looks like this
Poached egg on sourdough
Banana
Homemade vegetable soup
Spaghetti bolognese made with lean mince pulled out with lentils and extra vegetables

Approx 1500 calories based on my portion sizes and ingredients but could be made less or more by tweaking the quantities, swapping the banana for an apple etc.

I should be eating approx 1500-2000 calories depending how much of a deficit I want. I am not overweight and can lose the weight on the scales but not really the inner fat. That has nothing to do with me having 3 meals that are hot though, it's all to do with what exercise I do and how much wine I drink sometimes..

Bjorkdidit · 13/04/2025 08:18

Teateaandmoretea · 10/04/2025 22:06

Is that you mil? One day you will understand that food being hot doesn’t mean it has more calories. Or maybe not.

This. I never understand the people who think that eating more than one hot meal a day is 'too much' or why people are overweight.

The temperature food is served at is nothing to do with how nutritious, calorific or 'big' a meal is. Hot food could be an omelette or soup with lots of vegetables and pulses. Cold food could be processed cereal, sandwiches, crisps etc. Anything could be in small or large portions.

BunnyRuddington · 13/04/2025 09:56

Lilyhatesjaz · 11/04/2025 13:48

Talk of rabbit food reminds how I used to share a bag of sprouts with my rabbit at Christmas, no one else would touch them.

That is so cute! 🥰

Teateaandmoretea · 15/04/2025 08:41

Bjorkdidit · 13/04/2025 08:18

This. I never understand the people who think that eating more than one hot meal a day is 'too much' or why people are overweight.

The temperature food is served at is nothing to do with how nutritious, calorific or 'big' a meal is. Hot food could be an omelette or soup with lots of vegetables and pulses. Cold food could be processed cereal, sandwiches, crisps etc. Anything could be in small or large portions.

Plus the opposite is actually true in reality. You can’t mindlessly eat a hot meal, you have to consciously cook it. Grabbing a slice of cake otoh requires no extra thought.

I suspect if most people only ate hot food they would actually be slimmer.

BunnyRuddington · 16/04/2025 17:48

Still not planted out my Sweetpeas. Will someone tell me to do it please.