Boyfriend has just blocked me

[Namechange2609]

Oh god help please..

my boyfriend of 7 months has just blocked me and ended our relationship based on the fact that this morning he whatsapped me to go and shut the kitchen window whilst he was in the shower. The message didn’t pop up on my phone (must of been signal). He came into the room to say did you not get my message? I said no and I went onto WhatsApp and his message popped up.

he has blocked me because he thinks I turned my notifications off because I must be speaking to other men. He also gave me the silent treatment all day and night and I had no idea why until a couple of hours ago.

i do not deserve this and it’s absolutely disgusting but obviously I’m hurt and taken back and need some tough love!

OP, Get rid of him.

No need to lie either pp 😂😂

wtf?!

It’s not a lie FFS.
I’ve been happily single for 6 years now, and that won’t be changing any time soon.
Weird comment!

I was joking RosaMoline !!!!
Chill out !!!! 😂

Proud of you op well done

‘Hilarious’ 🙄

Second weird comment on the thread.

Good grief, he’s a bit over reactive. I think you’re better without him, than having to jump to his every whim and fancy for the rest of your life. He doesn’t trust you, so he’s probably been playing away.

Actually you speak too maturely to be a teenager. In which case: come on this is embarrassing.

i do agree with you, it’s incredibly embarrassing!

Aww. Well at least you seem to be having your eyes open. Even the smartest of us can make bad choices when it comes to love.

Men who accuse you of doing something are always doing it themselves. 100% I was seeing someone who kept saying I was dating other men. He would block me if I didn't reply at midnight on a Thursday because I was obviously shagging someone else.. nope but he was taking another woman out

You have got this x

Well done - now stay strong and don’t allow this nasty, selfish, complete waste of space back into your life. Block and move on, take back control of your life and don’t communicate with him at all.

For anyone who is interested - I submitted for info under Clare’s law and the disclosure was frightening

🤯

@Namechange2609

Oooh, can you tell us what was disclosed?

I don’t think that’s wise. If the disclosure was frightening, I’d hate for OP to do anything even remotely outing.
I’m so glad you got the disclosure request through, and I’m sure - all things considered - it’s probably saved your life.
Please make sure you’re in a place of safety and you share this information with people you can trust to protect you.

You have had a lucky escape what an immature child he is!

That sounds sinister 😮

A good reminder for anyone who has suspicions on a new partner to take a look at Clare’s Law. OP is there anyway you can add your dealings with him there for future partners.

Any more info?

Thank heavens you submitted a request. Under Claire's law, the result will have affected you and maybe speaking to someone about the revelation may be helpful. I did the freedom programme (several times) even though I was out of the bad relationship and it helped me understand how it happened and things that I'd not realized was part of a pattern of behaviour, and to understand some of the tactics of abusive men which will help me if ever I decide to have another relationship