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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To wonder what happened to these old Mumsnetters?

430 replies

Kallabra · 02/04/2025 20:40

There was Kewcumber who adopted from abroad as a single lady, there was a mum who always talked about her son Wilf, and there was a very direct, blunt and often right woman who I think wrote with no punctuation, who seemed to be on every thread and gave me lots of harsh truths! Going back a good decade now…

Anyone know what happened to them? Anyone else you wonder about?

OP posts:
Mydadsbirthday · 02/04/2025 23:20

Windowsofmymind · 02/04/2025 22:43

I always thought Worra was just plain mean. Always seemed to be having a go at OP's.

There! I said it!

So did I. Found her really unpleasant actually.

I've skimmed through the thread and surprised at how many old names I recognised! Was quite nice really! I'm happy being more anonymous though personally.

Is Xenia still around? She's from my local area I think judging by the schools she always talks about. I wonder if I've met her IRL

Bigfatsunandclouds · 02/04/2025 23:20

Windowsofmymind · 02/04/2025 22:43

I always thought Worra was just plain mean. Always seemed to be having a go at OP's.

There! I said it!

I agree, I was on the end of a particularly vicious take down one day. Completely uncalled for as I dared to disagree and as she was a household name I was ganged up on. Mean.

Firesgoneout · 02/04/2025 23:23

Placemarking to see if anyone mentions my name.

EeewDavid · 02/04/2025 23:25

I remember most of these names under my previous guises. Izzyizin game me wonderful support when I found out my partner was leading a double life. She was brilliant ❤️

I made friends with and met up with a fantastic group of women on the recurrent miscarriage boards… At least twenty of us and every one of us went on to have at least one child :)

Weepixie · 02/04/2025 23:26

Is Xenia still around? She's from my local area I think judging by the schools she always talks about. I wonder if I've met her IRL

Yes she’s still here and posting every few days recently.

Bigfatsunandclouds · 02/04/2025 23:26

Does anyone remember @Firesgoneoutshe was fabulous. There you go - sorted it for you!

gingersnappz · 02/04/2025 23:26

OP who mentioned someone posting without grammar - do you mean mrsjay? Sure I saw her here recently?

Was Scottish mummy the same one who said she was Calvin Harris’s sister?

nicenicemaybe · 02/04/2025 23:27

DidYouGetTheMemo · 02/04/2025 23:03

The Meghan haters were disgusting to that poster. I’m not surprised if she left.

That’s a shame. I didn’t necessarily agree with her at times but she came across as a level headed person…unusual on MN !!

Dazzlemered · 02/04/2025 23:28

Iamblossom · 02/04/2025 20:43

Cod

This was my first thought too.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 02/04/2025 23:28

ProustianMadeleine · 02/04/2025 21:10

Ugh. Not another one of these fucking "pick me" threads idolising posters from old.
Get a grip.

Maybe don’t read them?

valentinka31 · 02/04/2025 23:29

Kallabra · 02/04/2025 20:50

That’s it!

yes I remember AnyFucker

toobigformyboobs · 02/04/2025 23:30

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 02/04/2025 21:33

I have been here under various names since 2001 ish. I remember Riven, Willow, Thom Cat, Moon Dog ( so cantankerous), Xenia, Cod Worra and so many more.

More recently Pamela. I think about her, Jacob and Keir often

Yes, I remember Pamela.

Also, I think, bloodywhitecat? I think she was a fosterer and I believe her husband died? I think of her often.

I don’t often look at usernames tbh but Anyfucker and bluntness always stood out.

Sunnyplain · 02/04/2025 23:38

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eggandonion · 02/04/2025 23:42

2shoes was lovely.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 02/04/2025 23:47

Lang Cleg was magnificent on women’s rights. I hope she’s still here under a new name.

MadinMarch · 02/04/2025 23:51

Stripeyanddotty · 02/04/2025 20:48

Wilf’s mother posted the other day - possibly pretending to be him, or else it was Wilf using her account.
Bluntness disappeared.

I hope Bluntness is ok. I always liked her posts and advice.
I hope it's just that she changed her names on here.

SwanRivers · 02/04/2025 23:57

LunaNorth · 02/04/2025 23:10

I’m pretty sure she’s a nurse. I remember her posting about how traumatised she was after her shifts in the thick of Covid Sad

I remember when people were losing loved ones and were unable to see elderly relatives in care homes, she started a very tone deaf thread moaning about not being able to visit her holiday home.

I think sadly it turned a few of her 'loyal followers' against her.

YourLoudLilacGuide · 03/04/2025 00:04

Wasn’t BoF gorgeous?

The painting her talented DH did of her it the most romantic lovely thing I can think of.

SiobhanSharpe · 03/04/2025 00:18

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 02/04/2025 23:47

Lang Cleg was magnificent on women’s rights. I hope she’s still here under a new name.

She was also shit hot on safeguarding.
She apparently upset someone/people at Mumsnet Towers and was permanently banned.
I don't know any more but i think it is unlikely she would be allowed back, even if she wanted to be.

Izzy24 · 03/04/2025 00:21

nicenicemaybe · 02/04/2025 23:00

Yes Pamela will stay in my heart forever. I do think about her son and husband regularly.Such an amazing lady ❤️

Yes me too. Was thinking about her the other day.

justasking111 · 03/04/2025 00:23

There was an author whose book I bought and enjoyed. I've forgotten their name now

BaronessMachiavelli · 03/04/2025 00:25

Fuzziduck · 02/04/2025 20:53

I bet Scottishmummy was also Joinerwife/Alwaysright on Babycentre. There were posts about moving over to Mumsnet. She was a nurse irl.

Oh jesus christ, ALWAYSRIGHT was the single worst human being I've ever come across, I left BC because I could not stand to see her name anymore. Please say she doesn't lurk here.

RobinEllacotStrike · 03/04/2025 00:30

GetOrfMyLand?

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CarGirlStar · 03/04/2025 00:31

Does anyone remember the red toothbrush lady?

I think she was fleeing an abusive situation and had a very specific style of writing

Rhinohides · 03/04/2025 00:37

I remember bluntnes!
For sheer sharpness tempered by humanity it would have to be Bertrand Russell.
She always had an interesting perspective and managed to have an edginess without meanness. I haven’t seen posts from her for years though think I may detect her humour in some