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Are Europeans 'pathetic European free loaders'?

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ImmediateReaction · 25/03/2025 09:59

WhatsApp chat released today from the US calling Europeans 'pathetic European free-loaders'.

One of our closest allies! What about support from European countries after September 11th?

AIBU to expect more professional language?

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WearyAuldWumman · 25/03/2025 16:43

Hardtotalkt · 25/03/2025 10:15

Where does he think the white people of the US come from? Him and his wife included.

I sometimes visit various Slavic FB groups. One time the conversation centred on Melania: "Typical Slovene! Found herself a rich tourist!"

[Not All Slovenes, etc.]

MikeRafone · 25/03/2025 16:43

I think yabu

what do you expect from the tanks? Seriously after the last 2 months? Trump is in it up to his neck with Russian money, the corruption is beyond anything believable.

the facts is Europe has put more money in than the US is list on these people, they believe their own propaganda

RobinStrike · 25/03/2025 16:52

NATO was established with US bases all over Europe and with Europe buying and relying on US weaponry. The US designed it like that, to be central to and essential to European safety. Even now we are reliant on buying US military tech. After 70 years you can’t turn round and say it’s our fault. Yes, we should have paid more, but claiming the US are doing all of this for our benefit rather than theirs and that we need to repay them for attacking the Houthi's flies in the face of the last 80 years of international diplomacy and military cooperation.
similarly the Budapest Memorandum of 1994 between the US, UK, Ukraine and Russia guaranteed that if Ukraine gave up its nuclear power the US and UK would protect its sovereignty. It fell short of saying it would guarantee military support. For the US to now agree to carve up Ukraine and hand chunks to Russia, for their negotiators to accept the Russian line that they are not really a country, and for the US to demand their minerals is the worst act of a so called friendly nation. It also leaves the UK stuck. We are a signatory but without the US we are hopelessly weak. We can’t support Ukraine against Russia. Trump is forcing Zelenskyy out of office because Putin wants to run a rigged election while most of Ukraine is either on the front line, under Russian occupation or in exile overseas.
Whatever these government ministers in Trumps government think, they should respect Europe, UK and Ukraine. Personal animosities shouldn’t create geopolitical crises.

PhilippaGeorgiou · 25/03/2025 16:52

Jabtastic · 25/03/2025 10:13

Many Americans are sadly very poorly informed about anywhere outside their state, let alone their country.

You think the average UK citizen is any better informed? Whilst I despise Trump and his cronies, I think people in the UK need to be a bit less cocksure about US voters. This is, after all, the small ex-colonising territory that decided to go it alone in the 21st century, and the campaign material many fell for was in no way short of "make Great Britain great again", and is still going strong. People in glass houses...

Trump didn't get half of the voting electorate - Brexit did.

CandlePrick · 25/03/2025 16:54

Mirabai · 25/03/2025 16:40

Oh yes referendums - the easily manipulate mob vote beloved of dictators to convince the gullible of a thin veneer of democracy.

There’s a reason why they were banned in Germany post WWII.

And this naivety/ignorance is precisely how we ended up with Boris and the US ended up with Trump.

I still can’t get over the fact we did end up with Trump and Boris. I was devastated when Boris got in and I don’t think the political apathy that seeped in has left me. I want to fight, but it’s so exhausting when you hear people’s reasons for repeatedly choosing dangerous, racist, sexist and classist men and it’s only getting worse. Are they naive? Or are they just as bad? I feel a great fear for the future.

LauderSyme · 25/03/2025 16:55

Mareleine · 25/03/2025 10:21

I am a lot more concerned that they're discussing classified military manoeuvres in a group chat with randos added with no checks as to who's in there and who isn't before shooting their mouths off about which Houthi targets they're bombing next. That's what we should all be very bothered about. The shitty comments are just icing on the cake but I hope that doesn't distract people from the very real and concerning international security issue here.

I agree to an extent BUT the underlying presumption in this comment is that America is still one of the good guys and is risking international security by giving the bad guys a chink in their armour with their reckless incompetence.

America is one of the bad guys now and is itself a real and concerning security issue.

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 17:00

Trump didn't get half of the voting electorate - Brexit did.

No it didn't The electorate most decidedly did not vote for Brexit. In the same way the electorate did not vote for the Tories in 2019.

PhilippaGeorgiou · 25/03/2025 17:03

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 17:00

Trump didn't get half of the voting electorate - Brexit did.

No it didn't The electorate most decidedly did not vote for Brexit. In the same way the electorate did not vote for the Tories in 2019.

How do you work that out. 51.9% of the voting electorate voted for Brexit and 48.1% of the voting elctorate voted remain. I am fairly sure that is evidence that they DID vote for Brexit.

LauderSyme · 25/03/2025 17:06

PhilippaGeorgiou · 25/03/2025 17:03

How do you work that out. 51.9% of the voting electorate voted for Brexit and 48.1% of the voting elctorate voted remain. I am fairly sure that is evidence that they DID vote for Brexit.

Ah, but which Brexit? Nobody knew. The Brexit we ending up getting, courtesy of Boris, was never on the ballot paper.

EasternStandard · 25/03/2025 17:07

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 17:00

Trump didn't get half of the voting electorate - Brexit did.

No it didn't The electorate most decidedly did not vote for Brexit. In the same way the electorate did not vote for the Tories in 2019.

And Labour 2024?

Annajones101 · 25/03/2025 17:09

If you take billions of other people’s money and spend it on yourself, and then kick up a fuss when the other party refuses to fund you, then yeah, that makes you a pathetic freeloader.

FrozenFeathers · 25/03/2025 17:10

ImmediateReaction · 25/03/2025 10:04

I'm surprised at the scathing tone used to describe 'allies' or 'close friends '

The US is not the US we knew. It's gone and may never return. Trump and his cronies destroyed it.

So I am not sure we can count on them as "allies" anymore.

Mirabai · 25/03/2025 17:11

PhilippaGeorgiou · 25/03/2025 16:52

You think the average UK citizen is any better informed? Whilst I despise Trump and his cronies, I think people in the UK need to be a bit less cocksure about US voters. This is, after all, the small ex-colonising territory that decided to go it alone in the 21st century, and the campaign material many fell for was in no way short of "make Great Britain great again", and is still going strong. People in glass houses...

Trump didn't get half of the voting electorate - Brexit did.

Yes it’s a bit rich to laugh at Trump for his trade/immigration/foreign policies when our own dear government has done something every bit as stupid and damaging.

US and U.K. are both currently headed for big humiliation.

DdraigGoch · 25/03/2025 17:13

PenneyFouryourthoughts · 25/03/2025 13:38

In a small quarter of American politics (and their voters) that Europeans have been sucking America dry since the first world war, and that "if it wasn't for us y'all be speaking German now".* It's like they haven't moved on in 100 years.

*I heard a Yank say this to a Belgian on a train in Belgium once, loudly & very proud.

I'd have responded "if it wasn't for the French, you lot would still be speaking English now"

ErrolTheDragon · 25/03/2025 17:14

DdraigGoch · 25/03/2025 17:13

I'd have responded "if it wasn't for the French, you lot would still be speaking English now"

That would probably have gone over their head completely.Grin

LauderSyme · 25/03/2025 17:18

Annajones101 · 25/03/2025 17:09

If you take billions of other people’s money and spend it on yourself, and then kick up a fuss when the other party refuses to fund you, then yeah, that makes you a pathetic freeloader.

You are totally ignoring the fact that for decades America perceived it to be in it's own interests to protect Europe from encroachment by Communist ideologue regimes.

America was on one side and the USSR was on the other side and US administrations poured money into military assets accordingly.

In addition, the Marshall Plan which rebuilt Europe after WW2 created a strong and prosperous Europe which was able to avidly consume American goods and services. Their investment in Europe yielded handsome returns for themselves.

I do agree that Europe became complacent and has under-invested in it's own security. However, if Trump wants the world to pay him back for NATO, then he owes the world half a trillion dollars for Iraq and Afghanistan.

kentgardens · 25/03/2025 17:21

I’ve been trying to avoid American companies- I don’t drive a Tesla but that company is suffering the effects of a boycott driven by Europeans. So I’m trying to do my bit- but avoiding the tech companies is hard. Any advice on a non American search engine? This exchange reinforces my view- these idiots want our money but have no respect for anyone who isn’t in their gang.

Mirabai · 25/03/2025 17:21

DdraigGoch · 25/03/2025 17:13

I'd have responded "if it wasn't for the French, you lot would still be speaking English now"

Or: it was really the Russians that won the war. 80% of the Wehrmacht died on the Eastern front.

ohdelay · 25/03/2025 17:26

GasPanic · 25/03/2025 15:59

Well it is rosy.

Apart from the much touted nuclear power stations being knackered from decades of service, and it being horribly expensive to replace them.

Along with the fact welfare reform seems next to impossible because people riot everytime the government tries to make changes to the system. Which will probably lead to systemic collapse within the next 10-20 years.

And the fact that there seems to be some sort of major riot in the streets once a year or so with the police charging barricades and hurling tear gas.

Apart from that France is absolutely fine.

We have all those financial and societal cons, plus energy dependence, food dependence and defence dependence. How's our welfare reform going as we're trying to grab back billions from welfare and education? I'd take France's knackered power stations and truly independent nuclear deterrent over our sweet fuck all any day.

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 17:26

PhilippaGeorgiou · 25/03/2025 17:03

How do you work that out. 51.9% of the voting electorate voted for Brexit and 48.1% of the voting elctorate voted remain. I am fairly sure that is evidence that they DID vote for Brexit.

Leave = 17,410,742/46,500,001 = 37%

So just over one in 3 Britons actually voted for Brexit. And those absent voters did matter when Brexiteers wondered why they were unable to get what they wanted.

Crikeyalmighty · 25/03/2025 17:27

@LauderSyme absolutely my view too . It’s been a mutually beneficial arrangement for decades that Trump has decided is now one sided- and it’s just easier for him to suck up to Putin as it won’t cost them zillions of dollars. I am flabbergasted at some perfectly intelligent women on here who decide that because he’s ’right Wing’. Everything is fine and dandy and anything he says is correct and ok - presumably they think it’s fine and dandy that he’s going around making threatening overtures towards Canada and Greenland too - perfectly democratic country’s that have made no indication of wishing to be taken over by the USA. Would they have thought everything was all fair game if Biden had been out there making such overtures - of course not - but that’s different because he’s a ‘liberal’ -

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 17:28

EasternStandard · 25/03/2025 17:07

And Labour 2024?

Same rules, same outcome.

The legitimacy of this government is exactly the same as the legitimacy of the previous one.

When we switch to PR, that statement may not be true.

SerendipityJane · 25/03/2025 17:29

LauderSyme · 25/03/2025 17:18

You are totally ignoring the fact that for decades America perceived it to be in it's own interests to protect Europe from encroachment by Communist ideologue regimes.

America was on one side and the USSR was on the other side and US administrations poured money into military assets accordingly.

In addition, the Marshall Plan which rebuilt Europe after WW2 created a strong and prosperous Europe which was able to avidly consume American goods and services. Their investment in Europe yielded handsome returns for themselves.

I do agree that Europe became complacent and has under-invested in it's own security. However, if Trump wants the world to pay him back for NATO, then he owes the world half a trillion dollars for Iraq and Afghanistan.

The US was the only country to make a profit out of WW2.

User37482 · 25/03/2025 17:32

I think in terms of defence spending tbh yes.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 25/03/2025 17:40

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 25/03/2025 16:25

Virtually every single ‘leader’ in Europe took great delight in insulting and ridiculing the Now POTUS. Are you really surprised that he doesn’t actually like them/ us much?

It shouldn't really be about whether he "likes" us, but you're not wrong - which is why I've often commented on those who expected to carry on holding one hand out for ££££, making V signs with the other and complaining about other people's diplomatic skills

We don't have to like the man (fortunately!!) but he was elected and somehow we have to get on with dealing with it ... not unlike the Brexit result, which many also didn't expect (and as a PP just mentioned they didn't bother to make a plan for that either)

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