@gillefc82 · Today 12:02
I don’t think you have any idea about my standards. We’re strangers on a forum and you’re making an assumption based on an isolated post. I find that a massive stretch and I find it sad that you need feel the need to question the value of my marriage as a result.
@Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot
I am making a judgement based on the information you have given me, which is that your husband comments negatively on the way women look. I am very glad my husband doesn’t do that because men who do that are very small and very sad. I am glad the men around me are better than that.
Your husband may be (allegedly) utterly perfect and wonderful with not a single flaw, 🙄 but you are coming across as really smug and judgemental @Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot .
And I find it hilarious that you think all the men around you are soooooo perfect!
😂
Every man I have ever known says the odd shitty, rude, sarcy, or negative thing now and again, that gets under his woman's skin/pisses her off. And most women do the same!
You have ZERO idea what your husband (and all the other men you know who are sooooo perfect!) are like when you're not there, or what things they say to their mates/colleagues/peers, or how they speak about women. The way you are painting your husband as this oh-so-perfect, shit-don't-stink, kind of 100% perfect man who never puts a foot wrong, (and never criticises women!) is just cringeworthy! 😬
Also, as a pp said, it doesn't sound like your marriage is as perfect as you're painting it, (or your husband) with how you seem to fantasise about Bruce Springsteen, and say he is 'the most attractive man in the world' to you. You didn't say you USED to think so, you said he IS the most attractive man in the world. (To you!)
@Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot 9.52am
I am so so so so glad I have never heard my husband express a negative opinion of another woman’s looks. I think my vagina would clamp shut for ever and never reopen.
My DH is a better man than your husband @gillefc82 for this reason. I hope your husband looks like a young Bruce Springsteen (the most attractive man in the world to me!)
As a pp said, does your husband know you fantasise about another man? Not really adding up, and gelling with your claim that your man is sooooooo perfect is it really? 
And your vicious personal attack (at 12.55 just before my post here) on a poster who you were attacking (who has called you out,) is showing that she has hit a raw nerve!