She ordered a Curry and hasn’t paid me

[OnePeachA]

Friend came to my house

I was going to cook but she asked if I fancied a curry. I said that would be really nice actually

Her JustEat app wasn’t working so I said have a look on mine for places that are open. She picked Indian.

I put everything I wanted in and she added hers. Total came to £52ish. Over 65% of that cost was hers.

I said I could just check out and sort it later. I have messaged to ask if she had the money today as a gentle reminder, and she said she thought it was my treat?

I said oh, we must have got crossed wires then. She said ‘I did cover the shop’

She went to the corner shop for wine and snacks. I got a Grape Fanta!

Where do I go from here? Leave it? Was it reasonable for her to assume it was in fact my treat?

No one gives a shit what you eat so why not start your own thread rather than continue to post irrelevant judgemental bollocks that have absolutely nothing to to do the subject beinv discussed

The last sentence of your thread is spot on!

I run a successful weightloss programme. One of the initial stages is getting participants to realise that the majority of people around them are obese or overweight - if they take society's version of normal they will never reach and maintain a healthy weight.

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@IlooklikeNigella do you know how to start a thread?

Go away and do one headed, is this too much food for two people?

Then we can avoid it.

That is unfortunate, must have been quite nasty.

For fried rice it’s recommended to cook the rice then let it go cold before frying it.

Oh god…….

Leave the thread please!

You are derailing a thread with your unwanted advice. Is that something that you do in real life too? It doesn't matter what you think about other people's sizes. Unless they ask for your advice it is absolutely none of your business.

I'm sorry to say but your posts are very boring. Probably because they're not relevant to this thread? What you do with that information is up to you but someone cognisant and as successful as you say you are would go and make their own thread or join one of the myriad threads on the weightloss board.

So succinct! Yes, this.

Well that’s there and this is here. You are making too many assumptions about people you’ve never met or seen.

Fuck me it’s actual Marjorie Dawes without the self awareness.

To be honest, OP, if you were going to feed her spaghetti with a tyre, I can understand why she wanted to order out…

Yikes, so cheeky of her.

Dust eat dust!

I read this then went and read another thread but I still want to know more about this. Please explain what you mean!

@Bitofanchange hello fatties!

Yes this is what I thought as well, surely everyone has a cashpoint near then within walking distance

Er, no. We don't all live in towns.

Sorry, off-topic but what is a CF? I see this a lot but can't work out what it is 🙄

I haven't made any assumptions about posters.

I'm saying it's not normal oor appropriate to order multiple sides. Even if the guest assumed she was being treated she should not have done this. Similarly to how I wouldnt order the most expensive whiskey or steak on the menu if I was being taken out.

But then people started arguing that saying that's a lot of food indicated a teeny tiny eater, food issues, competitive under eating and loads of other bollocks. That is totally normal so long as it's not all the time.

Its utterly bananas to not realise that's a weird order of food, like getting a spare desert or pizza with your three course meal.

It's a 'cheeky fucker'.

I need to know more about 'spaghetti and tyre'... I could definitely add that to my repetoire.

But why did you even feel the need to tell people anything like that? No one asked you?

what isn’t normal, is you being the food police on the internet.

You’re the issue here.

I don't care what anyone eats.

I find it ridiculous that pointing out (and it wasn't me as I already stated it was irrelevant to this thread) that it's a weird and massive order meant the person had food issues, was a teeny tiny eater or whatever. That is bollocks.

Definitely a CF and should pay half.
I am also thinking, she had to go and get her own wine/the drinks!?(I would have had wine/soft drinks and nuts/crisps out) even if I was not drinking.
Nothing seems to have been prepared.

Was she irritated maybe?
Thought, ok lets just get a curry. She said "x lives near you" had she gone out of her way to see you?
Who kept leftovers?

It depends on what happened. It sounds a bit unprepared tbh.
But I voted YANBU.

Honestly, I can’t believe you are still saying I don’t care what anyone eats whilst still saying it’s not normal, it’s ridiculous, it’s a massive amount, blah blah!

MYOB!