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To think this photo is not appropriate to advertise a dress?

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TheGoodEnoughWife · 21/03/2025 18:49

Is it just my raging feminist thoughts with this photo that is being used as one of the pictures of a dress offered for sale on a high street store website. Is this appropriate? I don't think it is but one might say that that is my weird view and actually it is a perfectly okay pic? (!)
I think it looks like a 'come fuck me' picture and that is not okay?!

To think this photo is not appropriate to advertise a dress?
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BabyDoge · 21/03/2025 19:34

TheHerboriste · 21/03/2025 18:50

Confused I think it looks like someone on a toilet.

I definitely thought toilet at first look.

user1473878824 · 21/03/2025 19:35

Chellybelle · 21/03/2025 18:54

It doesn't look sexual in the slightest to me. A woman sitting with her legs slightly open doesn't mean they want sex, you know. I actually find you anti feminist to assume that.

This in absolute buckets. You’re a raging feminist but a woman just sitting down looks like she’s begging for a shag?

And it’s a totally normal photo with an annoying standard slouchy model pose. Get a life.

Eviebeans · 21/03/2025 19:35

Looks as if it is advertising the shoes

Tandora · 21/03/2025 19:36

It’s just a woman sitting down. Nothing sexual about it.

GymWanker · 21/03/2025 19:38

I love this outfit and am going to attempt to recreate with my leopard pumps and millions of denim dresses.

TheGoodEnoughWife · 21/03/2025 19:39

Women don't tend to sit with their legs open. To have a picture of a woman sitting with her legs open is provocative because of that. That is why I feel it off. As much as folk say it isn't sexual women don't sit around like that. They really don't. Why have a woman sitting with her legs open to advertise a dress? Why?

This is my opinion! Which I am allowed lol for all those up in arms that women can sit however they like thank you very much.

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Tortielady · 21/03/2025 19:39

I don't find it offensive, but would be surprised if M&S don't pull it. The model's pose makes her look uncomfortable and doesn't show the dress off well and the eye is drawn to her out of proportion legs and shoes.

LBFseBrom · 21/03/2025 19:39

TheHerboriste · 21/03/2025 18:50

Confused I think it looks like someone on a toilet.

Yes it does :-).

Op, it is very unattractive but I think what you suggested it looks like is out of the question!

Leafy74 · 21/03/2025 19:41

It must be very draining to go through life permanently looking to be offended.

MemorableTrenchcoat · 21/03/2025 19:41

TheGoodEnoughWife · 21/03/2025 19:39

Women don't tend to sit with their legs open. To have a picture of a woman sitting with her legs open is provocative because of that. That is why I feel it off. As much as folk say it isn't sexual women don't sit around like that. They really don't. Why have a woman sitting with her legs open to advertise a dress? Why?

This is my opinion! Which I am allowed lol for all those up in arms that women can sit however they like thank you very much.

So any time a woman does sit with her legs open, she’s inviting sexual intercourse? Absolute nonsense.

Pinkelephant66 · 21/03/2025 19:42

I don’t think she’s getting laid in that outfit

TheWombatleague · 21/03/2025 19:42

Gives me Patti Smith vibes.

Tandora · 21/03/2025 19:43

TheGoodEnoughWife · 21/03/2025 19:39

Women don't tend to sit with their legs open. To have a picture of a woman sitting with her legs open is provocative because of that. That is why I feel it off. As much as folk say it isn't sexual women don't sit around like that. They really don't. Why have a woman sitting with her legs open to advertise a dress? Why?

This is my opinion! Which I am allowed lol for all those up in arms that women can sit however they like thank you very much.

Is this the 50s?? Yes women do sit like that, why the fuck shouldn’t they? And no it’s not provocative.

lifeonmars100 · 21/03/2025 19:45

she looks miserable and the pose is clumsy, how this can be construed as sexual is a bit odd

user1473878824 · 21/03/2025 19:45

TheGoodEnoughWife · 21/03/2025 19:39

Women don't tend to sit with their legs open. To have a picture of a woman sitting with her legs open is provocative because of that. That is why I feel it off. As much as folk say it isn't sexual women don't sit around like that. They really don't. Why have a woman sitting with her legs open to advertise a dress? Why?

This is my opinion! Which I am allowed lol for all those up in arms that women can sit however they like thank you very much.

I guess there’s that raging feminism again.

“Am I being unreasonable?”
”yes”
”I AM ALLOWED AN OPINION”.

TheGoodEnoughWife · 21/03/2025 19:46

Okay. I am not saying that women sitting like that is inviting sexual contact but I don't think women do sit like that and using that pose as an advert is off because of that. Clearly I am alone in that and that is fine. Interesting to hear other views though.

(And no I don't walk around looking to be offended. But I do think there is a lot of crap stuff out there and it does piss me off)

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EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 21/03/2025 19:46

Well no I don’t think it looks like a seductive, flirty photo but I do think it makes her feet look enormous.

Tandora · 21/03/2025 19:47

TheGoodEnoughWife · 21/03/2025 19:46

Okay. I am not saying that women sitting like that is inviting sexual contact but I don't think women do sit like that and using that pose as an advert is off because of that. Clearly I am alone in that and that is fine. Interesting to hear other views though.

(And no I don't walk around looking to be offended. But I do think there is a lot of crap stuff out there and it does piss me off)

Do you think all women sit the same way? So odd.

SiobhanSharpe · 21/03/2025 19:47

This woman is a model so presumably at least averagely attractive but that foreshortened photo makes her look weirdly awkward and gangly, all bony knees and fucking enormous feet!
Bet a man took it.

Azureshores · 21/03/2025 19:47

There seems to be a trend atm for photographing models like this - making their legs and feet look huge, odd angles etc.

Really weird. I don't think it looks sexual at all, it looks freaky.

Itwasacceptableinthe80zz · 21/03/2025 19:47

MissMoneyFairy · 21/03/2025 18:51

Her enormous feet are the first thing I noticed

This tickled me as it’s straight where my eyes went. Now worried that either me or the OP are foot fetishists lured in by the clodhopping feet and grumpy expression

MrsPositivity1 · 21/03/2025 19:47

Those legs look fake

SnivellingEd · 21/03/2025 19:47

It’s a man. The feet are hilarious. It’s not remotely seductive.

Iwantmyoldnameback · 21/03/2025 19:48

BurgundyZero · 21/03/2025 18:52

+1

Drunk and on the toilet.

TheGoodEnoughWife · 21/03/2025 19:49

Further to a previous post just because other people disagree doesn't mean I will change my view. I appreciate other views though as I expected other views which disagree with mine otherwise I wouldn't have posted.

I will try to look at it as just an awkward pose though. I do like the comparison to her being on the toilet.

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