My daughter's best friend has ADHD and she gets PIP.
She worked pt until her PIP award was announced then she stopped and said she wasn't going to work again because the PIP award alone was the same as/more than she was getting in her PT job. She has declared she won't work again and now lives solely on benefits and lives in an HMO. She's 20 now.
My daughter started at university this year and has a pt job that she uses to help fund it.
This friend has mocked her for having a job saying that she gets more on PIP than my daughter gets through work and she's an idiot for working and even more of an idiot for taking on student loans (the career she is training for requires a specific degree and cant be done otherwise). My daughter is Deaf (aided) and also has ADHD and her friend advised her not to go to university, because she'll also be able to just get PIP instead (she wouldn't and she doesn't need it).
The problem is that this young woman is 20 and all she can see at the moment is that she has enough money to eat noodles (so she's not hungry) and party. She can't project into the futture and see she might not want to live that way in her 30s, 40s or beyond. Her big plan for the next 12 months is to have a baby further trapping herself into this lifestyle.
Yes, she gets more in benefits (Inc PIP) than my daughter does currently but that's a short term situation and my daughter has career aspirations that will (hopefully!) give her choices in the future. Her friend isn't thinking about the longer term and is just happy she doesn't have to get a job like the other 'idiots' who work.
Their friendship is still holding strong at the moment but my daughter has already said that most of the people she hangs around with now live similarly and their lives revolve around getting angry at 'the social', the ones who have already had babies have SS involvement and the difference between them both is more obvious. She knows there is a time limit of this friendship now because their lives are moving in such different ways.
This woman has been to our house, stayed over, eaten with us. She's had these conversations with me. This isn't a "I overheard a conversation in the pub..." or "There's a bloke who lives on my street..." scenario. I've heard this straight from the horses mouth.
This is exactly the sort of situation that I think the reforms are intended to address. Unfortunately, there wil be many other people who are caught in the crossfire. Or at least have uncertainty over whether they will.