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So, who is going to employ all these disabled people the government wants to wean of welfare

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Jimisnotmyname · 18/03/2025 16:14

Really wondering. Not saying it is necessarily a bad thing to encourage those who can work, to work but as a carer for 2 disabled family members, I am hugely struggling to find another job as nobody is willing to give me any flexibility (which I need as a carer) and there are always candidates who do not need the same accomodations I do. I would imagine that many of those currently not in work because of disability or a health condition, will often need a similar level of flexibility. I just wonder who on the the government think will offer jobs galore on these circumstances??

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NapT1me · 18/03/2025 18:37

kateluvscats · 18/03/2025 18:34

The antidote to anxiety is action. Sitting at home with no routine away from people makes depression and anxiety worse.

Bullshit. People make my dd anxious. Being in the world as a whole does. She is managing huge difficulties. When the anxiety ramps up she succumbs to dangerous coping strategies and if it’s too much she becomes suicidal and has made several attempts on her life .

1sttimeforeverything2 · 18/03/2025 18:37

Maitri108 · 18/03/2025 18:07

I obviously misunderstood. I thought you said that people were encouraged to claim disability benefits because JSA didn't pay enough. I explained that in order to claim disability benefits you need medical evidence and are regularly assessed.

I don't understand how someone with no disability is going to get medical evidence of a faux disability.

However you're saying that that's not what you mean. People on JSA are not claiming DB in order to claim more money?

I'm saying that job seekers allowance is often not enough so people naturally might feel 'forced' to claim disability benefit for e.g. MH (as many have described on this thread already, it's not that difficult to get medical evidence from GP as it's self reported) as they will get more benefits that way.

Once on these benefits, yes you will be reassessed but it's not that difficult to 'fake it' for MH and for your GP, e.g. but unlike job seekers allowance there are no conditions attached regarding having to look for work, as I understand it?

Iwishicouldflyhigh · 18/03/2025 18:37

Maitri108 · 18/03/2025 16:19

Not everyone, it seems to be predominantly Daily Heil readers who know hundreds of people claiming benefits because they're sad.

I own a micro company. Last year we had a girl off repeatedly with period pains, then she was signed off sick with anxiety as her parents were divorcing (she was 22).
this year we’ve just gone through disciplinary with a guy who was off fir 3 days in his second week as he had to support his girlfriend whose uncle died and then he was off due to exhaustion and subsequent stress due to long drive to the funeral , he revealed he had autism which gave him anxiety when driving (although he’d applied for a job which involves driving fir 6 hours a day), and then just didn’t bother coming back.

and we are micro employer. The booming industry has to be HR!!

Maitri108 · 18/03/2025 18:37

NapT1me · 18/03/2025 18:34

It doesn’t happen in the NHS and it doesn’t happen in the world of work. This is well known. I wonder if things will need to be tightened up.

Then why aren't people going to their union and taking them to court for breaking the law?

Throwntothewolves · 18/03/2025 18:38

thankyounextplease · 18/03/2025 16:34

I happily hire mums who need school hours in my company, so I'm flexible on that. I'd be more than happy to do the same for disabled people if the government covered the cost of sick days (over a certain reasonable number) in full. As it would be too risky to have to cover out of my own pocket, it's hard enough as it is to cover sick.

Just mums? Sorry for being facetious but DH who struggles with his mental health has tried for years to get just such hours. I work shifts so he can’t work PT in the evenings, overnight or at weekends, but he has found it impossible to get a PT day time job. Employers don’t understand why he wants such hours as it’s always mums who have these jobs.

Cloudhopping · 18/03/2025 18:38

My experience is that the higher socioeconomic class you are the more you are likely to have a role which can accommodate reasonable adjustments-you are likely to have the skills/education to do a no-manual role in an environment where you may mostly be sitting behind a desk, have a degree of control over your workload and be able to work flexibly for example.Again cutting benefits will not affect this section of society as much but the less well off. If you’re not qualified to do anything other than manual work, the opportunities for suitable employment and reasonable adjustments are so much smaller. The less well off get hit again.

Bepo77 · 18/03/2025 18:38

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NapT1me · 18/03/2025 18:39

Maitri108 · 18/03/2025 18:37

Then why aren't people going to their union and taking them to court for breaking the law?

There is no NHS union for patients and taking people to court is exhausting and expensive. Oh add on education too. I started the process with that and it was impossible to continue.

Sinkintotheswamp · 18/03/2025 18:39

I wonder this. The HR departments will be overwhelmed with people hitting Bradford Score thresholds.

ElbowsUpRising · 18/03/2025 18:39

I’m guessing there will need to be more PIP assessors if there are to be more regular checks so maybe they could get jobs doing that 😆

that is a joke btw!

Maitri108 · 18/03/2025 18:40

Iwishicouldflyhigh · 18/03/2025 18:37

I own a micro company. Last year we had a girl off repeatedly with period pains, then she was signed off sick with anxiety as her parents were divorcing (she was 22).
this year we’ve just gone through disciplinary with a guy who was off fir 3 days in his second week as he had to support his girlfriend whose uncle died and then he was off due to exhaustion and subsequent stress due to long drive to the funeral , he revealed he had autism which gave him anxiety when driving (although he’d applied for a job which involves driving fir 6 hours a day), and then just didn’t bother coming back.

and we are micro employer. The booming industry has to be HR!!

Did the woman have endometriosis? That can be debilitating and it takes on average 10 years to get a diagnosis. The bloke had autism and obviously couldn't do the job. Neither were on benefits for being sad.

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:40

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I explained clearly that i experienced burnout then was sectioned . I have CPTSD and ASD. I developed other conditions which I was asked about and listed. It’s a combination of all but the ones that affect me most are autism, FND and CPTSD. I was giving an example about someone like me as the thread is about employers and I was trying to post within context ?

CassandraWebb · 18/03/2025 18:41

Liguria · 18/03/2025 17:31

I had a letter from the local authority I worked for when I had 7 months off for cancer treatment. Several scans, 2 x surgeries, 6 rounds of chemotherapy, 5 weeks of radiotherapy, twice hospitalised with sepsis and I received a letter outlining the impact of my absence on the rest of the team. Protocol.

I saw a team member with a terminal brain tumour strongly encouraged to leave so the local authority would not be responsible for the death in service payment.

Another colleague received a letter to her home when she was in hospital following a stroke offering voluntary redundancy.

I was involved in recruitment for local authorities and schools for a long time. HR would say we’d have to interview people who met the essential criteria and ticked the disability box, but they’d find a reason not to employ them.

Not nonsense, unfortunately.

Everyone's experience will be different but I have climbed the career ladder, moved LA , been very supported and lots of accomodations made. Lots of my colleagues are disabled too.

Breakitdownplease · 18/03/2025 18:41

There is a whole generation of us who went undiagnosed until later adulthood who have always worked. I'm one of them
I have ADHD and autism. I also have physical health issues that cause me pain every day. I'm also a single parent. It has honestly never occurred to me not to work or claim benefits.
I have struggled hugely at times, had a couple of breakdowns over the years and I am currently struggling to the point I am leaving my profession after 30 years.
What I did was think about what type of work would work for me now, went to my boss with a proposal to do all the business admin from home (current job is mainly clinical), and homeworking is unheard of in my industry. They went for it and I start very soon. This means I can focus without constant distractions and I can work flexibly meaning if I'm having a particularly bad day I can take some painkillers and go to bed for a couple of hours.
I know there is various levels of severity when it comes to disabilities, I have family and friends with children with what I would say is severe autism so I'm not saying everyone can help theirselves but I do believe many can and choose not to. I think there is a general lack of work ethic in the younger generations, I see it in my younger colleagues all the time.

Lucelady · 18/03/2025 18:41

When I was a teenager the big employers did YTS. Some money and training. If you didn't go, you received no money.
My university student daughter has been looking for a job for over a year. They go to people with ten years experience even at just over minimum wage. She paints so makes a bit of cash that way but it doesn't give the social element.

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:41

I even said twice I think how hashimotos doesn’t really cause me any inconvenience whatsoever except daily medication and blood tests 3 monthly. I gave full details
as was asked .

Maitri108 · 18/03/2025 18:42

NapT1me · 18/03/2025 18:39

There is no NHS union for patients and taking people to court is exhausting and expensive. Oh add on education too. I started the process with that and it was impossible to continue.

I wasn't talking about patients, I was talking about staff.

Mightymoog · 18/03/2025 18:42

Arcticrival · 18/03/2025 18:36

Totally agree. I've suffered with anxiety and depression all my life. But I know work helps me. The routine, the structure, the reason to get out of bed has always helped. Don't get me wrong of course there are days when it's juts too much-then I call in sick or take a holiday.

The benefits system is too easy for some people to choose not to work.

I was offered medication of some sort when I was newly bereaved and I just knew it would be a bad idea.
I'm certain that the horrific time I had would have settled into merely horrendous a lot later if I hadn't got back into routine.

It's hard getting up and working when you want to just hide in bed all day. Really hard but staying in is not the best thing for the majority of people and medication for things like grief I think are overused.

taxguru · 18/03/2025 18:42

Another point is that Rachel has screwed the part time jobs market with her stupid reduction of the NIC threshold, so employers will be less willing to offer part time contracts, which would have been ideal for long term unemployed/sick to ease themselves into the workplace for just a few hours per day as the reduction in threshold and hike in NIC rate makes it a lot more expensive for employers. Nice one Rachel! Complete lack of joined up thinking between government depts (as usual!).

lavenderlou · 18/03/2025 18:42

I was already worried about the prospects of my teen DD but now so more than ever. She is autistic, diagnosed with social anxiety and selective mutism. She has never been able to speak to people she doesn't know and barely manages to exchange a word with people she has known for years. She attends school on a very reduced timetable but is academically capable so should get some GCSEs.

I can't think who would ever employ her. We have had some involvement from the post-16 team at the Local Authority but they often keep repeating "Employment doesn't have to look like 9-5, 37 hours a week." I just think, who's going to pay the bills then? I've spent thousands on therapy to try to help her and never claimed a penny in benefits but I do worry that she will never be able to support herself and I don't know if she'll have any access to financial support. She would be willing to work but her mental health issues are currently so debilitating I don't know what sort of job she could hold down or who would be willing to employ someone who doesn't speak.

WingsofRain · 18/03/2025 18:43

Hwi · 18/03/2025 17:21

Loads of non-verbal jobs - your spelling is wonderful, your sentences are properly constructed. A part-time librarian in a local library?

Librarians have to have a degree and specific professional qualifications.

Library assistants are spectacularly low paid and have to deal with members of the public all day - it’s a stressful, physical job which needs high levels of customer service experience and resilience. In addition to all this libraries are laying off staff because of local government cuts, they are definitely not recruiting disabled people to fill vacancies!

NapT1me · 18/03/2025 18:43

Breakitdownplease · 18/03/2025 18:41

There is a whole generation of us who went undiagnosed until later adulthood who have always worked. I'm one of them
I have ADHD and autism. I also have physical health issues that cause me pain every day. I'm also a single parent. It has honestly never occurred to me not to work or claim benefits.
I have struggled hugely at times, had a couple of breakdowns over the years and I am currently struggling to the point I am leaving my profession after 30 years.
What I did was think about what type of work would work for me now, went to my boss with a proposal to do all the business admin from home (current job is mainly clinical), and homeworking is unheard of in my industry. They went for it and I start very soon. This means I can focus without constant distractions and I can work flexibly meaning if I'm having a particularly bad day I can take some painkillers and go to bed for a couple of hours.
I know there is various levels of severity when it comes to disabilities, I have family and friends with children with what I would say is severe autism so I'm not saying everyone can help theirselves but I do believe many can and choose not to. I think there is a general lack of work ethic in the younger generations, I see it in my younger colleagues all the time.

Well I am the same however my dd isn’t. Her autism presents very differently.

NonComm · 18/03/2025 18:43

Overtheatlantic · 18/03/2025 16:20

Care homes, local authorities and education institutions will offer more flexibility than regular corporate jobs.

Agreed - NHS and many charities also have flexible working.

Cloudhopping · 18/03/2025 18:44

The cutting of benefits has to be looked at alongside training, upskilling, building of confidence and ensuring employers make reasonable adjustments where appropriate. We all know that work is generally good for mental and physical health but it has to be the right type of work.

NapT1me · 18/03/2025 18:44

Maitri108 · 18/03/2025 18:42

I wasn't talking about patients, I was talking about staff.

Not everybody is suited to work in the NHS.

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