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So, who is going to employ all these disabled people the government wants to wean of welfare

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Jimisnotmyname · 18/03/2025 16:14

Really wondering. Not saying it is necessarily a bad thing to encourage those who can work, to work but as a carer for 2 disabled family members, I am hugely struggling to find another job as nobody is willing to give me any flexibility (which I need as a carer) and there are always candidates who do not need the same accomodations I do. I would imagine that many of those currently not in work because of disability or a health condition, will often need a similar level of flexibility. I just wonder who on the the government think will offer jobs galore on these circumstances??

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Maitri108 · 18/03/2025 18:09

Littlebutloud · 18/03/2025 18:07

Do you know people doing this then?

Of course! They've got a next door neighbour who was moved to a mansion in Mayfair paid for by the State. He says he's got fibromyalgia but she often sees him doing the cha cha around his barn of a house. Him and hundreds of others.

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:10

WeylandYutani · 18/03/2025 18:07

I had years and years of therapy. Years of being in and out of hospitals and given various labels.. Turns out I am autistic.

I was given my diagnosis as an inpatient

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 18/03/2025 18:10

Has there been any thought to whose head is going to be on chopping block if someone forced to work when it’s not suitable runs amok around the work place seriously injuring people or worse and please don’t insult my intelligence by telling me “that would never happen”

SporadicMincePieMuncher · 18/03/2025 18:10

Bepo77 · 18/03/2025 17:56

Why do these autoimmune conditions mean you can’t work?

  1. Gluten-free diet
  2. Steroids as/when needed
  3. Levothyroxine, tapering for tsh changes
  4. Insulin

Or are you going to say it’s the endo? In which case painkillers and synthetic (or bioidentical) hormone treatment.

Or is it the adenomyosis? In which case same as above.

Oh, and none of these treatments require your own money except gluten-free groceries.

Pain like you could compare to bad childbirth, rushing to the loo at short notice, potentially with poo accidents to clean up, fatigue bad enough to stop you from being safe enough to drive to work and make you too brain fogged to be able to think a single sentence clearly when you get there, potential for collapse in diabetic coma, muscle heaviness and weakness, pain for different and unpredictable reasons bad enough to need morphine, rushing to the loo to deal with flooding bleeding. But yeah sure reduce somebody’s lived experience to “just eat a gluten free diet” (newsflash even seasoned coeliacs get glutened by accident), pop steroids, a thyroid pill and an insulin injection, that’s an accurate portrayal.

(I'm not even saying this lot would prevent somebody from working but ffs they are a human with multiple and compounding health conditions, could you please not reduce it to "just eat a gluten free diet, what's your problem".)

Bepo77 · 18/03/2025 18:10

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:08

Personally I can’t work but as the thread is about employers I was explaining how it would cause resentment if a person similar to me tried to work. I know I can’t and that’s down to my individual circumstances but there are probably lots of others with some or similar conditions to me

I’m autistic too. My boss is autistic and established our entire company’s neurodiversity guidance. From the clarity of your responses, you seem more than capable of doing the work my team does, albeit remotely and with breaks if an office environment/meeting culture is too much for you.

Fnd doesn’t have a conclusive diagnostic test.

Catterpillarsflipflops · 18/03/2025 18:10

WeylandYutani · 18/03/2025 18:07

I had years and years of therapy. Years of being in and out of hospitals and given various labels.. Turns out I am autistic.

As am I. Autistic people can work through anxiety if they aren't taught its an excuse to opt out.

Also employers make accommodation at interviews to accommodate diagnoses.

Overtheatlantic · 18/03/2025 18:11

caffelattetogo · 18/03/2025 16:42

That’s not been my experience.

Ok, well it’s been mine. I work in HE and we are required by law to adhere to protected characteristics and to make reasonable allowances for employees.

WeylandYutani · 18/03/2025 18:11

Catterpillarsflipflops · 18/03/2025 18:09

Hooray to this. You cannot say you are too anxious for a job interview and never 29rk again :-0

If this is about me. I am in my 40s.

Instinct1 · 18/03/2025 18:11

DimplesToadfoot · 18/03/2025 17:38

I'm not leaving myself in a worse position though. I actually see light at the end of the tunnel and for once it's not the bleeding train :-)

And you can be happy that I'm no longer claiming benefits :-) oooh just think it will free up a council house too, neighbours suck but beggars can't be choosers right lol

But isn't prison paid for, ultimately, by tax? So how is that helpful to those you claim are lambasting you for taking money from society for benefits?

Cesarina · 18/03/2025 18:11

I have only read the first and last pages of this thread, so I apologise if someone has already made this point.
What I noticed straight away in the justifications and reasonings given for the need to cut the benefits bill, was the language and terminology used by Starmer, Kendall, and other government ministers/MPs.
They say the benefits bill is "unsustainable" and "immoral", and it is a tragedy that so many people have been declared unfit for work. Like the country has thrown them on the scrap heap and deprived them of the opportunity to have a job. And we owe it to these people to reduce the benefits bill which will help them find work.
Can you see how astute these guys are being with the words they are using?
Instead of being honest and saying too many people are claiming benefits they don't deserve, and we are targeting them as an easy way to save money the country can't afford, the Government is going to charge in like heroes on white horses and rescue these poor souls, and paint themselves as the "good guys". They are being totally but cleverly disingenuous.
Of course there are people who are gaming the system, but ableism and ageism are also both very much alive and well, and I wonder if Starmer et al realise this, or are choosing not to?

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:11

Bepo77 · 18/03/2025 18:10

I’m autistic too. My boss is autistic and established our entire company’s neurodiversity guidance. From the clarity of your responses, you seem more than capable of doing the work my team does, albeit remotely and with breaks if an office environment/meeting culture is too much for you.

Fnd doesn’t have a conclusive diagnostic test.

No you’re correct it was a diagnosis of exclusion

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 18/03/2025 18:11

MewithME · 18/03/2025 17:43

Still totally ignorant. Your information is completely wrong.

People with chronic illness get depressed. Because it's really depressing being in pain and managing symptoms. It is not a mental illness. That's fact. Your opinion is irrelevant.

Mecfs is a physical condition and that has long since been accepted. Sadly there are those still peddling the myths. George Monbiot has written well about the history of MEcfs and what patients have suffered. https://www.monbiot.com/2024/03/27/first-do-no-harm/

We will have to agree to disagree. I stand by my original post

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 18/03/2025 18:12

They’re getting rid of 30,000 positions. Where are these jobs going to come from the magic job tree.

thenightsky · 18/03/2025 18:12

WeylandYutani · 18/03/2025 16:26

I am scared of this too. I have not worked for over 10 years and have no qualifications since I was 19 which is a really old GNVQ.
When I used to go to the job centre, I had to have someone go with me. They can't go with me to interviews and work.
When I get overwhelmed, I can't talk and I shut down. How will I get a job if I can't even pass an interviews?
All the talk of the changes to benefits has made me feel like I don't want to be here anymore.

This is like my DS. He only does yes and no answers. Any elaborating is beyond him. His life is black and white.

SporadicMincePieMuncher · 18/03/2025 18:12

Catterpillarsflipflops · 18/03/2025 18:10

As am I. Autistic people can work through anxiety if they aren't taught its an excuse to opt out.

Also employers make accommodation at interviews to accommodate diagnoses.

As an autistic person you must also know that no two autistic people present the same. What one person can cope with, another may well not be able to, and not for some BS excuse.

Pumpkincozynights · 18/03/2025 18:12

I also worry about who will employ 67 year olds when they can employ fit, spritly 27 year olds, but that is the reality.

PatchouliOilandRoses · 18/03/2025 18:12

Maitri108 · 18/03/2025 18:07

I obviously misunderstood. I thought you said that people were encouraged to claim disability benefits because JSA didn't pay enough. I explained that in order to claim disability benefits you need medical evidence and are regularly assessed.

I don't understand how someone with no disability is going to get medical evidence of a faux disability.

However you're saying that that's not what you mean. People on JSA are not claiming DB in order to claim more money?

Medical evidence of a faux disability is ridiculously easy to aquire, a few trips to the doctors saying you feel lethargic, down, unable to sleep properly and bingo! You are diagnosed with depression. All of the symptoms are freely available on Google. Same for anxiety.
In fact it is harder proving someone doesn't have depression/anxiety than it is to get diagnosed.

ccquad · 18/03/2025 18:13

Swiftie1878 · 18/03/2025 16:39

Just reading Mumsnet, it’s ASTONISHING how many people (and the proportion of them) have disabilities/debilitating health issues, or have children who are disabled or debilitated by SEN symptoms.
Was this country always so poorly and we just didn’t know about it? Or has our health deteriorated really badly over the last while, and if so, why?

There is barely a poster on here who doesn’t have disabilities to deal with in some guise other. ☹️

Speaking for myself, I was a full time teacher till 5 years ago with no time to use somewhere like Mumsnet.
Thanks to Covid, I now have more time - but am unable to work due to becoming a quadruple amputee (Covid - pneumonia - sepsis).
Not blaming it all on Covid as I think modern pressures including the internet and the rise of mobile phones have a lot to do with it, but in my case Covid is definitely responsible for not being able to work and hence being on mumsnet.

WeylandYutani · 18/03/2025 18:13

Catterpillarsflipflops · 18/03/2025 18:10

As am I. Autistic people can work through anxiety if they aren't taught its an excuse to opt out.

Also employers make accommodation at interviews to accommodate diagnoses.

I don't get interviews as I don't get invited to them.

Overtheatlantic · 18/03/2025 18:13

PhilippaGeorgiou · 18/03/2025 16:34

Really? They don't need employees who turn up reliably, work to a set standard, and don't have lots of time off ill / for medical appointments. And I am not saying that that is true of all people with disabilities at all - but not one of those "institutions" is significantly more flexible than any other employment. If employers were willing to facilitate disabled people being in work there would be fewer of them out of work.

You’re quite wrong. I work in HR in higher education.

RareMaker · 18/03/2025 18:13

I was declined from Tesco applicants when I ticked the disabled box

lazyarse123 · 18/03/2025 18:15

PaintDecisions · 18/03/2025 16:19

Yup.

My mate is bipolar and on lithium. You're lucky to see him outside his flat once a month. Who could employ him? He's unable to do anything consistently - struggles with sleep, struggles with staying awake, terrified of his own shadow, can't speak on the phone to someone he doesn't know (I'm his appointee with the council, DWP and police for example).

If you met him on a good day you'd think there was nothing wrong with him - he's intelligent, funny, tries to help people where he can, but even I have never seen him on a bad day (the voices) as he obviously doesn't leave his flat on a bad day and won't speak to us or anyone else when he's battling his brain.

He's a young man, very unfit through lack of exercise but generally good health otherwise, and would be a prime target for this. I'm hoping he's going to be OK through this process!!

My ds is like this but not bipolar he has depression and anxiety with ptsd because of something that happened when he was a child. He has worked but now rarely leaves his flat. I am also his appointee I am dreading what will happen to him when I am no longer here. It's just shit.

Mielikki · 18/03/2025 18:16

Thoughtsonstuff · 18/03/2025 18:00

They need them in call centres. Anyone who has to deal with those outfits on a regular basis knows this. This is not an area where cuts can be made.

Not going to happen.

Thoughtsonstuff · 18/03/2025 18:16

Cesarina · 18/03/2025 18:11

I have only read the first and last pages of this thread, so I apologise if someone has already made this point.
What I noticed straight away in the justifications and reasonings given for the need to cut the benefits bill, was the language and terminology used by Starmer, Kendall, and other government ministers/MPs.
They say the benefits bill is "unsustainable" and "immoral", and it is a tragedy that so many people have been declared unfit for work. Like the country has thrown them on the scrap heap and deprived them of the opportunity to have a job. And we owe it to these people to reduce the benefits bill which will help them find work.
Can you see how astute these guys are being with the words they are using?
Instead of being honest and saying too many people are claiming benefits they don't deserve, and we are targeting them as an easy way to save money the country can't afford, the Government is going to charge in like heroes on white horses and rescue these poor souls, and paint themselves as the "good guys". They are being totally but cleverly disingenuous.
Of course there are people who are gaming the system, but ableism and ageism are also both very much alive and well, and I wonder if Starmer et al realise this, or are choosing not to?

Working is a good in itself and must be encouraged and support given to those who can work in some form. Sitting at home all day every day is a tragedy particularly for young people. Plus the country cannot afford its benefits Bill and it should never be more lucrative to be on benefits than be in work.

What the solution(s) are to the above I just don't know..but it's no good currently.

DimplesToadfoot · 18/03/2025 18:16

Instinct1 · 18/03/2025 18:11

But isn't prison paid for, ultimately, by tax? So how is that helpful to those you claim are lambasting you for taking money from society for benefits?

You have a problem with criminals bring sent to prison? Where do you suggest they go?

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