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So, who is going to employ all these disabled people the government wants to wean of welfare

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Jimisnotmyname · 18/03/2025 16:14

Really wondering. Not saying it is necessarily a bad thing to encourage those who can work, to work but as a carer for 2 disabled family members, I am hugely struggling to find another job as nobody is willing to give me any flexibility (which I need as a carer) and there are always candidates who do not need the same accomodations I do. I would imagine that many of those currently not in work because of disability or a health condition, will often need a similar level of flexibility. I just wonder who on the the government think will offer jobs galore on these circumstances??

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Nadiaelgato · 18/03/2025 18:01

Swiftie1878 · 18/03/2025 16:47

There are lots of fora, but in AIBU alone, the numbers are startling. I had no idea that disability was quite as prevalent as it actually appears to be.

I didn't know there were so many unempathetic people but there you go!

poppy10101 · 18/03/2025 18:01

WasThatACorner · 18/03/2025 17:09

Are you sure it's our there?

There is a woman at our GP surgery whose job is to connect people with these things. I begged for this help. She was lovely but the help isn't there.

There was absolutely nothing that she could offer me. All she could do was ensure I was claiming the benefits that I am entitled to and signpost me to places that I could pay for these services.

It is 100% out there in a lot of areas across the country.
I recently started a new job and was quite shocked by the amount of support provided ‘free’ by charities and other organisations.
I currently run a project supporting people with poor mental health or who are neurodivergent into work. They get free training and one to one mental health support on top of lots of other things.
We also work with employers to make their jobs accessible. This includes accompanying people to job interviews, getting the questions before the interview, payment for interview clothes and in person support when they start the role.
I am actually shocked at the amount of support there is once you start looking.
I do realise it may differ from region to region.

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:02

Bepo77 · 18/03/2025 17:56

Why do these autoimmune conditions mean you can’t work?

  1. Gluten-free diet
  2. Steroids as/when needed
  3. Levothyroxine, tapering for tsh changes
  4. Insulin

Or are you going to say it’s the endo? In which case painkillers and synthetic (or bioidentical) hormone treatment.

Or is it the adenomyosis? In which case same as above.

Oh, and none of these treatments require your own money except gluten-free groceries.

I don’t claim anything we just have dh wages as he earns above the couples AET

Differentstarts · 18/03/2025 18:02

I'm on pip and work part time but the reality is I'm a pretty shit employee i have regular hospital appointments, admissions and surgeries. I also have days i just can't go in. I don't think iv ever worked a full month without taking time off. I try my hardest and use all my holidays on appointments but it isn't enough to cover them. Luckily I work for a very understanding and large employee but the reality is most jobs wouldn't be able to be this flexible and it isn't fair on the other staff. But this is the actual reality of getting disabled people back to work. A lot of people want disabled people to work but I don't think they realise the reality of that. Covering extra shifts often at last minute. Having to pick up more of the work load. Being around someone who could be in a mh crisis/episode in psychosis struggling with homicidal and suicidal thoughts. People with anger issues. Having colleagues who need longer breaks, who may take longer to learn things if at all. But hey their in work so what's it matter if your work doubles and you gain a new stalker best friend.

Tempnamesitu · 18/03/2025 18:02

I think employers are going to have to be more flexible, COVID taught us that it's possible to work flexibly and from home in a lot of jobs (obviously there are exceptions, some people physically have to be at their place of work to do their job) but it does seem that employers have become more rigid now, wanting people back into he office between 9-5 Monday to Friday, when for a good few years, it worked fine without this, this would help lots of people into work.

It's possible to help people back into the workplace, but an arbitrary cut to benefits isn't it, that will just force people into poverty and further poor health!

Bepo77 · 18/03/2025 18:03

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:02

I don’t claim anything we just have dh wages as he earns above the couples AET

Not saying you claim anything, but what would you suggest someone in your shoes does who doesn’t have parents or a husband to pay for them?

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:03

Holidayfix · 18/03/2025 17:54

What would you have done without DH?

Kindly, if you'd had to, might you have found the support you need and/or found ways to help yourself?

I probably would have had to claim in my own right ? I was and am extremely lucky to have him im very aware of that

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:03

Bepo77 · 18/03/2025 18:03

Not saying you claim anything, but what would you suggest someone in your shoes does who doesn’t have parents or a husband to pay for them?

Claim PIP and benefits in their own right . I know I’m lucky that I have a dh who earns above the threshold for me to have no work requirements

Bepo77 · 18/03/2025 18:04

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:03

I probably would have had to claim in my own right ? I was and am extremely lucky to have him im very aware of that

You think type 1 diabetics, hypothyroid women and gluten-intolerant women claim benefits?

Sidebeforeself · 18/03/2025 18:04

Maitri108 · 18/03/2025 17:40

I'm talking about those with disabilities being forced, not employers.

Yes but you’d have to make the employer take the person on too

Catterpillarsflipflops · 18/03/2025 18:05

WeylandYutani · 18/03/2025 16:26

I am scared of this too. I have not worked for over 10 years and have no qualifications since I was 19 which is a really old GNVQ.
When I used to go to the job centre, I had to have someone go with me. They can't go with me to interviews and work.
When I get overwhelmed, I can't talk and I shut down. How will I get a job if I can't even pass an interviews?
All the talk of the changes to benefits has made me feel like I don't want to be here anymore.

You need the therapy to manage the symptoms

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:05

If I worked I’d be so resented by colleagues as I’d be off for appointments so often plus needing extra breaks etc . What employer will really put up with that. I can see how it’s going to be very difficult for a lot of people trying to get back into work with medical conditions and disability

placemats · 18/03/2025 18:05

Overtheatlantic · 18/03/2025 16:20

Care homes, local authorities and education institutions will offer more flexibility than regular corporate jobs.

So can you explain what education institutions are? Are you really suggesting schools?

Local authorities are mostly bereft of highly qualified people who are not going to risk going into failing authorities, and as for care homes, I did work with several who were clearly unsuitable for the job and the risk to vulnerable residents was exponential and put added stress on other workers who then left.

Ihad2Strokes · 18/03/2025 18:05

ZigZagJigsaw · 18/03/2025 17:41

What a disgusting comment.

So it's okay for her to continually post the bile she's posting to those of us that have been made disabled overnight (as as obvious from my username from a Stroke well two Strokes actually) but it's not okay for me to say I wouldn't be upset if she suffered the same and had to go through the abuse she dishing out

ok

Thoughtsonstuff · 18/03/2025 18:06

Catterpillarsflipflops · 18/03/2025 18:05

You need the therapy to manage the symptoms

CBT is a potential option for people with these issues.

Bepo77 · 18/03/2025 18:06

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:05

If I worked I’d be so resented by colleagues as I’d be off for appointments so often plus needing extra breaks etc . What employer will really put up with that. I can see how it’s going to be very difficult for a lot of people trying to get back into work with medical conditions and disability

So now it’s not that you can’t work, it’s that you’d potentially annoy colleagues if you did?

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:06

Bepo77 · 18/03/2025 18:04

You think type 1 diabetics, hypothyroid women and gluten-intolerant women claim benefits?

No but as I’ve stated I also have autism and FND and those are the conditions that would probably get an award given the symptoms . I just listed all my autoimmune conditions as someone asked what they were.

Differentstarts · 18/03/2025 18:06

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:05

If I worked I’d be so resented by colleagues as I’d be off for appointments so often plus needing extra breaks etc . What employer will really put up with that. I can see how it’s going to be very difficult for a lot of people trying to get back into work with medical conditions and disability

This, give it a year and mumsnet will be full of threads saying my co worker is taking the piss and I'm having to cover her shifts

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 18/03/2025 18:07

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 17:49

Within the space of 4.5 years (age 23 onwards) I developed coeliac disease and then crohns, hashimotos thyroiditis and type 1 diabetes
edited to add I also have endometriosis and adenomyosis but I don’t know if they are classed as autoimmune

Edited

I can imagine that chrons and type 1 diabetes needs reasonable adjustments at work, and endometriosis.

Thyroid dysfunction I wouldn't think prevents you working, it can be medicated successfully.

Maitri108 · 18/03/2025 18:07

1sttimeforeverything2 · 18/03/2025 17:53

Still not what I meant.

They have found that the disability applications have increased due to the lack of sufficient job seekers allowance.

There are then no conditions in terms of looking for work, is there? Yes, you may be reassessed/assessed but that is in relation to the 'disability' e.g. mental health.

I'm saying that job seekers allowance should be paid at a higher rate to stop this from happening. I'm referring to people who are capable of work but have used the MH disability application and benefits as a way to get more money due to job seekers allowance being too low.

I obviously misunderstood. I thought you said that people were encouraged to claim disability benefits because JSA didn't pay enough. I explained that in order to claim disability benefits you need medical evidence and are regularly assessed.

I don't understand how someone with no disability is going to get medical evidence of a faux disability.

However you're saying that that's not what you mean. People on JSA are not claiming DB in order to claim more money?

WeylandYutani · 18/03/2025 18:07

Catterpillarsflipflops · 18/03/2025 18:05

You need the therapy to manage the symptoms

I had years and years of therapy. Years of being in and out of hospitals and given various labels.. Turns out I am autistic.

Littlebutloud · 18/03/2025 18:07

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Do you know people doing this then?

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:08

Bepo77 · 18/03/2025 18:06

So now it’s not that you can’t work, it’s that you’d potentially annoy colleagues if you did?

Personally I can’t work but as the thread is about employers I was explaining how it would cause resentment if a person similar to me tried to work. I know I can’t and that’s down to my individual circumstances but there are probably lots of others with some or similar conditions to me

Catterpillarsflipflops · 18/03/2025 18:09

PatchouliOilandRoses · 18/03/2025 17:45

So you are 29 and haven't worked since 2015?
You are exactly the kind of person this country needs to get into work!
I am much older than you and if I decided at 19 that I was 'to overwhelmed' to get a job I would have been on the streets, benefits were not generous enough to give me a bean when I was 19. The expectation was that you would suck it up and get on with it...and we did!
After 10 years languishing as an unemployed person not pushing past any anxiety you have you will now be in a viscous circle, we need to avoid this cycle for as many young people as possible. If cutting benefits means more young people push themselves to work then I'm all for it.
Edited to say my phone is on the blink and lost my quote.

Edited

Hooray to this. You cannot say you are too anxious for a job interview and never 29rk again :-0

Autisticunemployable · 18/03/2025 18:09

BrandonFlowersEyesWithEyeliner · 18/03/2025 18:07

I can imagine that chrons and type 1 diabetes needs reasonable adjustments at work, and endometriosis.

Thyroid dysfunction I wouldn't think prevents you working, it can be medicated successfully.

Absolutely I was just listing as someone asked for full details of all my autoimmune conditions. Thyroid problems just requires a tablet it’s just one of things I have

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