@Peridoteage we’ve chosen to keep our DC at independent schools. We’ve managed this by pre-paying 7 years worth of fees upfront before the VAT came into effect. The schools scheme has been looked at in detail and given how it was set up, looks unlikely that VAT can be retrospectively clawed back.
Clearly we were fortunate to be able to do that, thanks to an inheritance. It’s not the wealthy paying VAT on fees, who will have done similar. It’s the people just about managing to pay fees who are either having to find several hundred of pounds a month more, or have had to make the upsetting decision to move their children.