The issue is that it is subjective and everyone has different behaviours. I work with people who have significant depression and anxiety and it is heartbreaking to be in their company. You can feel the sadness and this flatness about them.
Then you have others who seem to think they should not have any stress and should be happy all the time when life is not like that.
However, I am not a medical expert and cannot invalidate anyone’s experiences or make a diagnosis.
I always remind myself that people in my personal life I know to have taken their own lives did not present as depressed.
I think there are lots of intersecting issues.at the root of the surge of people presenting with anxiety and depression.