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Absolutely mortified but was I unreasonable?

132 replies

Kinut · 14/03/2025 23:22

I took my just gone five year old bowling earlier. There are also arcade games, dodgems, a soft play etc.

There is a ride which is two big carousel style horses with reins that ‘gallop’ on the spot. There is a sign saying no under fives so DN was excited he was finally old enough to go on. I lifted him onto one horse and I sat on the other. Halfway through, a young man came over and told me to get off because the ride is for kids. I did, although he watched me undo the belt and get off as if I was a criminal.

WIBU to go on?

OP posts:
EnjoyingTheArmoire · 15/03/2025 00:33

You really need to rein this sort of behaviour in

helpme402 · 15/03/2025 00:33

it depends, was it a random man being a d*ck or an employee?

BigHeadBertha · 15/03/2025 00:47

It's embarrassing to get called out like that and it sounds like it should have been done more tactfully. I don't think you were unreasonable. The child is the youngest age allowed on there alone, so I think you did well to err on the side of caution. That's okay if you didn't know the rule that adults can't get on. It's not a crime or any big judgement error. If someone was watching my kid, I'd be grateful for someone who erred on the side of caution!

nocoolnamesleft · 15/03/2025 00:51

Whole thing sounds a total 'mare.

CalleOcho · 15/03/2025 01:00

At least m there were no casualties and you didn’t have to go to the horsepital.

YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 15/03/2025 01:04

He needs to get off his high horse..

oh no wait that's you

RawBloomers · 15/03/2025 01:28

If you know all the rides are meant for kids then YWBU. But I can't bring myself to care. Hope you enjoyed the time you did get on it!

autisticbookworm · 15/03/2025 05:46

Was it an employee? Asking you to get off is a bit much and you shouldn’t have got off while it was moving.

wandawaves · 15/03/2025 05:54

You're mortified? Really? And still so upset you posted on a forum about it?

Are people really this delicate??

BlondiePortz · 15/03/2025 05:59

I would say that an adult would be able to realise the reason for the sign is due to safety/weight reasons and not for fun

PurpleFlower1983 · 15/03/2025 06:06

Kinut · 15/03/2025 00:20

No. It’s all in your head.

This is the best response I’ve seen from an OP on here! Brilliant! 🤣

Theextraordinaryisintheordinary · 15/03/2025 06:07

I hope you said neeeigh!

mamabluestar · 15/03/2025 06:12

Thank you for posting - some of the replies have had me chucking.

Well done you for joining in and having fun together.

AchNo · 15/03/2025 06:14

Sounds like he was being a right nag.

winter8090 · 15/03/2025 06:20

YANBU
if there was a weight restriction or intended for adults only there should be a sign.

CarobyBlobs · 15/03/2025 06:29

Just a bit of harmless horseplay really isn’t it? Should have told him to rein it in

Icyroll · 15/03/2025 06:31

You are unreasonable to start this thread OP, that’s for sure!

BitOutOfPractice · 15/03/2025 06:32

Well you got off when you were told, that’s the mane thing.

Icyroll · 15/03/2025 06:34

BitOutOfPractice · 15/03/2025 06:32

Well you got off when you were told, that’s the mane thing.

Oh that’s good!!

offmynut · 15/03/2025 06:38

I go on lots of kids rides never get told off because im tiny.
However i cant go on other rides because of the height im 4foot.
Op its not the end of the world.

VashtaNerada · 15/03/2025 06:46

I wouldn’t worry. It would have been so much more embarrassing if you didn’t have your nephew with you!

Anxietystrikesagainyay · 15/03/2025 06:47

Kinut · 15/03/2025 00:20

No. It’s all in your head.

This is gold 😂😂😂

This needs to be remembered as one of the top MN replies.

VanillaVein · 15/03/2025 06:55

YWBU. It was a child's ride, the member of staff was just doing his job. Hoove on.

TheCountofMountingCrispBags · 15/03/2025 06:55

knephew · 14/03/2025 23:44

Neigh bother in my opinion

Good. Very good!
Thank you!
😂

marshmallowfinder · 15/03/2025 07:02

mamabluestar · 15/03/2025 06:12

Thank you for posting - some of the replies have had me chucking.

Well done you for joining in and having fun together.

No need to be sick!