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British or English

279 replies

Dellspoem · 06/03/2025 16:32

Currently having a conversation/ debate with a friend. Are you British or English? Do you consider one a nationality and one an ethnicity?

My Asian family members describe themselves as British Asian. Saying 'I'm English' is synonymous with something else, mainly because of the connotations with the English flag and nationalism.

They are both geographic locations, so technically this shouldnt be that different. And you don't get the same with Scottish or Welsh.

What are your thoughts?

OP posts:
ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 06/03/2025 17:35

British. Born and live in England. My dad was Welsh.

Sarah2891 · 06/03/2025 17:37

English. But British too.

Baileysandcream · 06/03/2025 17:39

Welsh ! I very rarely call myself British unless abroad or it's a question on a form.

CarrieOnComplaining · 06/03/2025 17:39

British.

But if I was talking to someone from another UK country or talking to a foreign visitor about travelling round, or other similar contexts where the specific uk nationality is relevant I would say English.

Jackiepumpkinhead · 06/03/2025 17:42

English, even though I have Irish parents. Proud to be a bit of both.

CallMeDaphne · 06/03/2025 17:45

It’s a really interesting question. I think that a lot of people call themselves British as a way of not calling themselves English.

Englishness is (rightly or wrongly) associated with being white and quite conservative, whereas Britishness is somehow more neutral.

Ironically, the concept of Britain is much more imperialistic than the concept of England. Basically, Britishness was invented by the English as a way of colonising the Scots, Welsh and Irish.

Groosh · 06/03/2025 17:46

JassyRadlett · 06/03/2025 17:13

The trouble with the "it's an ethnicity" types is that they're conflating race, culture and heritage in a way that ultimately undermines their cause.

I can trace my English and Scottish roots back centuries, well before the civil war for some branches of the family. But I'm neither, because those same ancestors buggered off to Australia in the mid-19th century and I'm very much Australian.

If they'd stayed here, I'm sure those racists would love to claim me as English. But do they claim me as English now - if it's an ethnicity and all, and lineage is the only thing that matters? Or am I one of the despised immigration statistics for them, and Englishness being more complex than skin colour?

They can't have it both ways talking about shared English culture and values but simultaneously saying that the definition of Englishness is English forebears far enough back.

You’re not seeing that there is nuance in it. From my pov an Australian with English heritage is not English. Because they are clearly not culturally English. I would also say that a person born in this country to two foreign parents is not English either. But their children or grandchildren might be. Culture and heritage matter, not just what your passport says or where you live.

Vaxtable · 06/03/2025 17:49

English. It really jacks me off when I have to put county of birth as UK as there is nothing else

CallMeDaphne · 06/03/2025 17:51

Vaxtable · 06/03/2025 17:49

English. It really jacks me off when I have to put county of birth as UK as there is nothing else

Genuine question, why does it annoy you? Our country is the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland.

PontiacFirebird · 06/03/2025 18:19

I would also say that a person born in this country to two foreign parents is not English either. But their children or grandchildren might be.
I find that quite offensive. Does the same apply to Scottish? So if I’m born in Scotland to a Ukranian mother and a Syrian father I’m not Scottish? What am I then? Im not Ukrainian or Syrian as I haven’t lived there and wasn’t born there. I may not even speak either language.
In my life I’ve never actually thought English was considered to mean “ white and conservative” I just saw it as a neutral fact! My mother was not born in England, I was, therefore I am English and I’m happy to be so.

SpottedDonkey · 06/03/2025 18:22

British & Irish.

I was born & grew up in England to Irish born parents. I support both England and Ireland sports teams.

Maddy70 · 06/03/2025 18:22

I'm Welsh, British and European

Purplebunnie · 06/03/2025 18:29

English

NetballHoop · 06/03/2025 18:40

Tomatotater · 06/03/2025 16:42

Would you say you were English as well as British?
I was born in England, but am ethnically Asian. Neither of my parents were born in England. My DH would say he was Welsh as he was born in Wales, even though both his parents are English.

Well when I speak, I sound English so I suppose I am English more than any of the other UK nations though my surname and a large part of my heritage is Scottish and I was brought up in the Middle East so who knows?

Zanatdy · 06/03/2025 18:41

I am Welsh

Puzzlebox751 · 06/03/2025 18:42

I'm English with British citizenship

AnyClue · 06/03/2025 18:45

I was made in England out of Cadillac muscle….

British though, realistically

StrawberryWater · 06/03/2025 18:46

British and English.

EveryOtherNameTaken · 06/03/2025 18:48

English then British.

MaryBeardy · 06/03/2025 18:50

Hemlocked · 06/03/2025 17:09

I'm mixed race and British. I say I'm half English half Asian. I was born in England and lived all my life here but would never say I'm English. I've always seen English as an ethnicity (white English) but after the debate lately I wonder if I'm playing into a racist trope and I should start saying I'm English afterall. It just feels weird to say I'm English when I'm not white, like it's erasing or white washing a huge part of my heritage. I'm comfortable with British though as that's my nationality. I would never judge someone from another ethnicity that's want to call themselves English though. I think that's up to them to decide.

Edited

I wish more poc would claim Englishness.

FeelingSoOverwhelmed · 06/03/2025 18:53

Neither 😜
I mean I am really as I am a British citizen. But I'm half Scottish/half Spanish and certainly don't feel British. Never lived in England and have no English family.

RaininSummer · 06/03/2025 18:55

English usually as I am not Welsh, Scottish or Irish.

arcticpandas · 06/03/2025 18:55

I have always been lazy.. you guys are all English to me, sorry:)

cocoloco23 · 06/03/2025 19:00

I was born in England but would never call myself English, always British.

My great grandparents were all Irish, my mum is Scottish and I’ve lived in Scotland and Northern Ireland. Probably because of my mum, I’ve never felt English.

My partner was born in Wales and would describe himself as Welsh. Never British.

IhadaStripeyDeckchair · 06/03/2025 19:03

I'm British.
Born & brought up in England
I have a lot of family in Wales & have lived in Wales. Also have more distant family in Scotland.

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