It is supposed to be aspirational, yes.
What is this obsession with wanting her to film in her house, why are people not allowed to use a set to film a TV show? Since when not using a fictional set to film a show has became so controversial? Do people apply this fake outrage to all TV hosts that choose an actual set to film or is it only reserved for MM?
Do people really think in this way or are they spouting these same 5 -6 points that the media rags are pushing to make money from this fake, forced outrage?
I think some interactions with some of her friends may come off as a bit awkward ( not with all of them) maybe because they are not particularly confident with cooking especially with cameras on their face.
Not liking the personality of a host is a subjective matter( some don't like her style as host while others adore it and find it relaxing).
The host is a California former actress who married a prince and leaves in leafy, dreamy Montecito - yes it is supposed to be aspirational.
Did you watch the show expecting Meghan to be pushing a trolley at Asda? I don't get how you are supposed to find her completely relatable.
What I would say is that there are recipes and hosting hacks that can be easily replicated and implemented in the day -to-day life if you are into these kind of things - many people are.