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AIBU to be utterly horrified that the US has cut off military aid to Ukraine?

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Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/03/2025 11:20

I was hoping that it was mostly just bluster from Trump. But we've woken up to the news that he has actually done it. He's literally swapped sides in the war and is now standing with the aggressor, Russia, and abandoning the victim, Ukraine.

At least some Americans are speaking out against the decision:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A09fa0e7f-6f1e-4770-9096-c5228d00635f#post

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A8510a9e0-ea40-4895-835d-bb747d6b0339#post

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A43d2db68-32ae-47f3-a550-8a5bd491beb9#post

Ukraine war latest: US pauses military aid to Ukraine as EU chief says Europe is 'ready to step up'

Meanwhile, Russia says Donald Trump's move is "the best contribution to the cause of peace".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c981p3dxnent?post=asset%3A09fa0e7f-6f1e-4770-9096-c5228d00635f#post

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BigSilly · 04/03/2025 13:23

It doesn't matter whether they are clean or corrupt really. A sovereign nation has been invaded, and a sovereign nation which is important in terms of resources it holds.

duc748 · 04/03/2025 13:23

I'd say two things: firstly, Trump is a POS, and so is Vance. But secondly, the will in the West to continue to support Ukraine is/was waning fast, and not just in the US. The sad truth is that the West were always going to dump on Zelenskyy eventually, and even if the Democrats had won the US election, the tone might have been different, but the long-term results the same. We can complain abut how awful Putin is all we like, but I suspect British enthusiasm for our 'boots on the ground' (and the corpses that go with them) won't be much greater than American voters have shown.

nuned · 04/03/2025 13:24

Do you guys want full war with Russia then ?

AnonymousBleep · 04/03/2025 13:25

thepariscrimefiles · 04/03/2025 11:44

Vance is a bigger cunt than Trump. The UK only sent troops to Iraq and Afghanistan to help and support the USA after 9/11. That was the 'Coalition of the Willing'. Where was the gratitude from Trump and Vance for that?

And our reparations. We know Trump and Vance would have demanded payback if the boot was on the other foot.

AnonymousBleep · 04/03/2025 13:26

nuned · 04/03/2025 13:24

Do you guys want full war with Russia then ?

We don't, no, but Trump is doing his best to ensure we get it.

RubyTuesday48 · 04/03/2025 13:27

Semiramide · 04/03/2025 12:59

All of this.

It is sad - and scary - to see that the vast majority of Americans don't seem to care. No mass demonstrations against Trump essentially proposing to capitulate to Putin and leave the frontline of the free world in deep shit.

That's because many Americans can't see beyond their own borders. When I lived there the big surprise was finding out how few own passports. We may think we see lots of American tourists here but in fact they don't all travel that much, even within their own country.

AnonymousBleep · 04/03/2025 13:27

duc748 · 04/03/2025 13:23

I'd say two things: firstly, Trump is a POS, and so is Vance. But secondly, the will in the West to continue to support Ukraine is/was waning fast, and not just in the US. The sad truth is that the West were always going to dump on Zelenskyy eventually, and even if the Democrats had won the US election, the tone might have been different, but the long-term results the same. We can complain abut how awful Putin is all we like, but I suspect British enthusiasm for our 'boots on the ground' (and the corpses that go with them) won't be much greater than American voters have shown.

Only Americans seem to be completely oblivious to the fact that people in the UK know that Putin is a threat to US. We'd rather the frontier for defending ourselves from him was a few thousand kilometres away in Ukraine than right on our doorstep.

nuned · 04/03/2025 13:28

We don't, no, but Trump is doing his best to ensure we get it.

How so ?

Iwantmyoldnameback · 04/03/2025 13:28

Well if Trump doesn't rein in Vance it settles the issue of the state visit, why would anyone want to visit a random King?

Semiramide · 04/03/2025 13:29

FavouriteFilms · 04/03/2025 13:17

They don’t care, as it’s miles from them. Why would they.. .?

They have problems of their own, unrest, homelessness , no good medical care, vast swathes of their society locked up for being different

As Sarah Palin pointed out years ago, from Alaskaa you can actually see Russia.

If Europe cannot save us from Putin, the US will end up regretting their sucking up to and capitulating appeasement of Putin. Subjected to the hegemony of first Russia and subsequently China.... where would it leave them?

duc748 · 04/03/2025 13:29

I find it also interesting that the Unherd/Spiked axis view on this seems to be very much, yeah, we're cool with this, saw it coming, the EU is rubbish, dontcha know....

AnonymousBleep · 04/03/2025 13:30

FavouriteFilms · 04/03/2025 13:15

Who on earth would want this ?

Russia? It's currently their only plan for economic growth.

AlexandrinaH · 04/03/2025 13:30

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 04/03/2025 11:40

I can understand why the invitation was issued as although I'm sure Starmer privately hates Trump, trying to maintain diplomacy to (a) encourage the US to act with integrity regarding Ukraine and (b) maintain UK and US relations for a future period when Trump's era is over, is important.

But I do wonder whether it should be rescinded now.

No, why start tensions with a major world power? Maybe that’s how you would deal with a child bully, but come on, you have to have some common sense here. Realistically, we need the US. We cannot defend ourselves, even if the whole of Europe stood together.

Do you honestly want a war/tensions with the US?

Inter-country relations are complicated and can be challenging to handle and maintain. You can’t just go all in with what’s morally right. You have to step back and look objectively and what the effects of an impulsive decision could be.

Taking back his invitation would be a very bad sign to the US. It won’t be taken well.

IhadaStripeyDeckchair · 04/03/2025 13:30

I don't know why anyone is surprised, Trump is Putins puppet.
As its just been said on the radio - Putin & Trump are as bad as each other.

Trump will never admit he's wrong - too much loss of face.
Time to turn our backs on the USA & let them self destruction.

The EU needs to step up &.support Ukraine otherwise Putin will invade another part of Europe, the another, then another.
This rings a bell - does anyone remember a dictator walking over Europe in the past?

PerkingFaintly · 04/03/2025 13:31

Bleekers · 04/03/2025 13:20

It is a good that Europe/UK are stepping up.
Realising that Europe/UK Expect USA to handle security.

Don’t think it was a deliberate strategy, but do see that US is expected to step in, yet get criticized endlessly for stepping in

Makes me think of like how your kids expect you to pay for everything, even after you’ve supported them for 20+ years.

Makes me think of like how your kids expect you to pay for everything, even after you’ve supported them for 20+ years.

Mm. I see it more like the husband who claims all the money in the marriage is his, because he can see he gets paid a salary.

While his wife who enables him to do that by unpaid labour of the entire whole domestic load is completely invisible to him.

It's not just childcare that's are invisible to him; he can't see laundry, putting food on the table or any of the other myriad things he'll miss when she chucks him out, either. And when she brings in money from her own paid work, that's half his as well.

Sparklfairy · 04/03/2025 13:32

itsjustbiology · 04/03/2025 12:15

I am sorry but I have never in my 50 pus years on this earth read so much crap and seen so many hysterical posts as on this thread. its bloody ridiculous.where on earth are you getting your bizarre ideas from?
President Trump is posturing and making a very valid point to the world,us included,cannot you see that?He is taking a stand and a valid one at that that America is not the saviour of the world especially financially.Why do you all expect that country to finance everything? America owes no country anything, and why should the President and citizens of America be subject to such disrespect? Aid has temporarily been suspended. This is to force the hand of the little man running round the world with his hands out in his action man clothes demanding every other country finance his every whim whilst billions of pounds has gone "missing". Nobody,not one single country,us,France,anyone can go into this with alleged peacekeepers or boots on the ground without America no one, you should remember that.No American backing No dice and no one can move and no peace. Whilst our Pm is rallying leaders of nations no one has the money.weapons or troops to move an inch without America. Trump is forcing the hand of Zalensky to negociate. As for being a russian plant well ffs grow up.This war will be stopped round a table not on the battlefield as zalensky would like glorified by dead soldiers on the ground. I would step back,calm down and have a chill about which scenario would play out the best for everyone.

Actually the Budapest Memorandum obligates the US (and others) to protect Ukraine, and that is why they willingly gave up their nuclear weapons.

It's not a case of running to mummy because of a bully in the playground as you seem to suggest.

Bleekers · 04/03/2025 13:33

AnonymousBleep · 04/03/2025 13:26

We don't, no, but Trump is doing his best to ensure we get it.

What I saw was Trump & Co pursuing a negotiated solution. Both sides feeling like the got something and ending a costly war.
Looked like press conference was supposed to signal this.

Mr Z … didn’t want a negotiable and let that be known.

So, now it’s all about war - weapons spending, troops, death and in the end - boarders similar to whatever Trump negotiation would have yielded with added cost of a military boarder zone costing billions a year to defend.

thanks Zelensky….

The more I think about it - he is a little fool in heels, dancing EU & UK into a costly war.

AnonymousBleep · 04/03/2025 13:33

nuned · 04/03/2025 13:28

We don't, no, but Trump is doing his best to ensure we get it.

How so ?

Because Russia WANTS a war with Europe and Trump's making it nice and easy for him. Putin isn't going to stop at a bit of Ukraine. His plan is to bring the whole of the USSR into the fold, and then he'll be a much more dangerous threat to the West than he currently is. Obviously he'll be happier if he just gets given those countries without having to fight for them - are you suggesting the rest of the world should just capitulate to Putin? Because that's what Trump is doing.

Barney16 · 04/03/2025 13:34

Last week I understood why Starmer was trying to be softly softly diplomatic. Now I want someone to actually say, what I'm sure they are thinking, which is President Trump you are a venal, wicked man. Both he and JD Vance are scum. Of course everyone wants peace in Ukraine but this is shameful. It's so distressing.

AnonymousBleep · 04/03/2025 13:36

Bleekers · 04/03/2025 13:33

What I saw was Trump & Co pursuing a negotiated solution. Both sides feeling like the got something and ending a costly war.
Looked like press conference was supposed to signal this.

Mr Z … didn’t want a negotiable and let that be known.

So, now it’s all about war - weapons spending, troops, death and in the end - boarders similar to whatever Trump negotiation would have yielded with added cost of a military boarder zone costing billions a year to defend.

thanks Zelensky….

The more I think about it - he is a little fool in heels, dancing EU & UK into a costly war.

Bollocks. Trump had capitulated to Putin before negotiations even started. Thinks he's this great deal-maker, when he'd thrown the deal right from the very start. It would be laughable if it wasn't tragic - and it's made Europe a much more dangerous place. I'm guessing you're not European though so don't care.

Putin isn't going to be placated with a bit of Ukraine. The idea that that's a solution is risible. He doesn't care about losing men in war and never has. He wants the old USSR back.

sidebirds · 04/03/2025 13:37

itsjustbiology · 04/03/2025 12:15

I am sorry but I have never in my 50 pus years on this earth read so much crap and seen so many hysterical posts as on this thread. its bloody ridiculous.where on earth are you getting your bizarre ideas from?
President Trump is posturing and making a very valid point to the world,us included,cannot you see that?He is taking a stand and a valid one at that that America is not the saviour of the world especially financially.Why do you all expect that country to finance everything? America owes no country anything, and why should the President and citizens of America be subject to such disrespect? Aid has temporarily been suspended. This is to force the hand of the little man running round the world with his hands out in his action man clothes demanding every other country finance his every whim whilst billions of pounds has gone "missing". Nobody,not one single country,us,France,anyone can go into this with alleged peacekeepers or boots on the ground without America no one, you should remember that.No American backing No dice and no one can move and no peace. Whilst our Pm is rallying leaders of nations no one has the money.weapons or troops to move an inch without America. Trump is forcing the hand of Zalensky to negociate. As for being a russian plant well ffs grow up.This war will be stopped round a table not on the battlefield as zalensky would like glorified by dead soldiers on the ground. I would step back,calm down and have a chill about which scenario would play out the best for everyone.

Thankyou 👍🏾 Excellently put.

Trump is forcing the hand of the corrupt cokehead

🕊️☮️🙏

PebbleJus · 04/03/2025 13:37

itsjustbiology
He is taking a stand and a valid one at that that America is not the saviour of the world especially financially.Why do you all expect that country to finance everything? America owes no country anything

Isn't that a role it has taken on? Isn’t that one of the reasons the USA has over 750 military bases in 80 countries around the world? If they want to withdraw from this guardian role, fine but there is a right and wrong way of going about it. Not sudden actions like this.

Tabitha005 · 04/03/2025 13:37

BunfightBetty · 04/03/2025 11:49

It’s been obvious that all Trump’s moves have been to further the interests of Russia for years.

The baffler is why the American electorate didn’t see it.

Edited

... because a large enough proportion of the US electorate hated Biden and the Democrats enough to mobilise themselves into voting for Trump (again). It baffles me that so many US citizens refuse to acknowledge that Trump is a Russian asset - I mean, you can see a train when it's coming.

EasternStandard · 04/03/2025 13:38

duc748 · 04/03/2025 13:23

I'd say two things: firstly, Trump is a POS, and so is Vance. But secondly, the will in the West to continue to support Ukraine is/was waning fast, and not just in the US. The sad truth is that the West were always going to dump on Zelenskyy eventually, and even if the Democrats had won the US election, the tone might have been different, but the long-term results the same. We can complain abut how awful Putin is all we like, but I suspect British enthusiasm for our 'boots on the ground' (and the corpses that go with them) won't be much greater than American voters have shown.

We've only offered peacekeepers and asking for US security, ie someone else steps in. Understandably voters there are a no. Who wants to step in if combat starts

AnonymousBleep · 04/03/2025 13:38

sidebirds · 04/03/2025 13:37

Thankyou 👍🏾 Excellently put.

Trump is forcing the hand of the corrupt cokehead

🕊️☮️🙏

There's the small matter of the USA breaking the deal it made with Ukraine in promising its security in return for handing over its nuclear arsenal in 1994. But Trump isn't a man of his word, or anyone's word for that matter, is he?