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Would you judge this in someone’s house?

491 replies

Rainbows678 · 28/02/2025 11:01

I’m currently re-decorating parts of my house. I’ve come across a website that sells prints for the walls and I’ve found some I really like;

This house is full of love, laughter, and a little bit of what the fuck.

Pardon the mess, I decided not to give a shit today.

If you’re happy and you know it, it’s your meds!

As you can probably tell, our house is already a little bit eccentric with its decor… but would you judge someone for having prints like that on the wall with children living in the house or am I just overthinking it? 😅

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Namerchangee · 28/02/2025 11:56

Totally cringe and inappropriate around young kids.

Dollydaydream100 · 28/02/2025 11:56

Yes I'm afraid I would judge and think they were crass and naff. However it's your home and you do what you like!

dontforgetme · 28/02/2025 11:56

No I wouldn't judge.

The second is one is shit but the other 2 I like!

Magnastorm · 28/02/2025 11:57

Personally I hate even the non-funny ones and would never have them in my house.

But it's your house, you can have whatever you like on the walls and if visitors judge, who cares, really? I would maybe raise an eyebrow if you've got kids wrt the sweary ones, but otherwise: crack on.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 28/02/2025 11:58

I'm another on the side of 'hating anything written on walls or signs in a house'. They might be cute or amusing when you first put them up, but everyone in the house stops seeing them after the first week and they're just 'there', taking up space which might host better artwork or something more meaningful and personal, like photographs or kids' drawings. I also don't need to be told to 'Laugh' or 'Dance', I'll do that in my own time, thanks, not because eight inch neon green letters have instructed me to.

But my brother and his wife have all this kind of thing all over their house and I adore them and wouldn't dream of criticising, so you do you and if you love it, why not?

Inertia · 28/02/2025 11:58

That’s not really eccentric though- it’s just blindly following a different style of mass consumerism. To be genuinely eccentric , you’d need more than swear words- I’d think of eccentric styling as decor that’s unique to you/your family, perhaps with individual artwork, or inventively repurposed items.

Permanently displayed swearing in a family home seems a bit attention-seeking. And it’s tricky to explain to children why they shouldn’t say swear words that are on show in their kitchen.

orangesandlemonssaythebellsofstclements · 28/02/2025 11:59

I've seen worse though

When we looked round our house, the current occupiers had a 4 foot pink heart above the sofa with "Amy and James AKA Barbie and Ken" written in it (names changed) I nearly puked.

ginasevern · 28/02/2025 11:59

I'd judge you for the crime of naffness and then I'd wonder how you thought that was OK with young children but not if they were teenagers.

Ankhmo · 28/02/2025 11:59

Cringe.

Right up there with..
"I'm mad me..."

Eye roll so hard I can see smells now..
"No you're not mad Brenda, you're the same as every other fucker that thinks they're a bit quirky because they go out of their way to portray eccentricity as a replacement for a personality."

OldChairMan · 28/02/2025 12:00

If you think you are eccentric, or you aim to be eccentric, then you are most definitely not eccentric.

KierEagan · 28/02/2025 12:01

Written word signs are a big no IMO, no matter what they say. The swearing itself wouldn't particularly bother me.

tallhotpinkflamingo · 28/02/2025 12:01

Really tacky.

Shoxfordian · 28/02/2025 12:02

Tacky

Ankhmo · 28/02/2025 12:04

tallhotpinkflamingo · 28/02/2025 12:01

Really tacky.

Reminds me of:

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Iamnotabot · 28/02/2025 12:04

My main through would be they were lame (sorry) but also maybe not the best mottos to instill into kids minds.

Ilovemyshed · 28/02/2025 12:04

Tacky. Sorry.

GlacialLook · 28/02/2025 12:04

On the grounds of having 'fuck' on the wall, or having an untidy house, no, not in the slightest. On the grounds of actually choosing to put something on your wall that seems like a dismal cross between those kerraazy LIVE, LAUGH, LOVE slogans and the grim, workplace YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE MAD TO WORK HERE, BUT IT HELPS!!! ones, definitely.

RuthW · 28/02/2025 12:05

Yes I would judge. If I had children they would not be coming in your house.

TheignT · 28/02/2025 12:05

They wouldn't be my choice but I wouldn't judge you. I'm generally not judgemental about things unless they're hurting someone else.

Derbee · 28/02/2025 12:05

Even worse tackiness than live love laugh shite on your walls. But also inappropriate with children in the house. I’d judge you! Most would, even if they won’t admit it

pikkumyy77 · 28/02/2025 12:06

Acc0untant · 28/02/2025 11:09

I just think they sound tacky and not at all funny which is what I suppose they're going for.

Yes. This isn’t eccentric—it’s preemptive blocking supposed criticism about mess masked as whimsey. It reads as defensive.

CarrieOnComplaining · 28/02/2025 12:07

I would think naff and tacky not eccentric and funny.

LoremIpsumCici · 28/02/2025 12:08

I wouldn’t put those up much less pay money for them.

S18 · 28/02/2025 12:08

I don’t think they are great messages for kids to see. Particularly the meds one…

Normallynumb · 28/02/2025 12:08

Certainly not with DC, and not without in my opinion That's coming from someone who does utter expletives on a daily basis