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Woman 19 dies in dog attack

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Matrixremooted · 27/02/2025 14:10

Woman 19 dies in dog attack in Bristol

Apologies if there’s already a thread on this, but how many more lives have to be taken in these horrific attacks before the Government admit that the current measures are failing. It surely has come to the point now that all XL Bullies should be euthanised.

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JoyousEagle · 27/02/2025 19:06

JANEY205 · 27/02/2025 18:17

"I do feel so sad for the dog owner," she said.
"She did mention the dog wasn't great with men, fine with women and children.
"I feel for her so, so much. It wasn't her fault."
She added: "I genuinely feel that this was one of those freak accidents and wasn't her fault - that's how I feel."

Disgusting creatures. Of course it’s the owners fault for owning such a vile animal they obviously could not control. Wolves aren’t allowed in residential homes are they. What is the actual point of these horrendous dogs? There isn’t one.

How can anyone think it's a "freak accident" as opposed to an entirely unsurprising and predictable outcome?

RunningJo · 27/02/2025 19:18

Ban XL bully’s (which I agree with) and the next wannabe roadman will find a different breed. These dogs were absolutely not bred for pets and I would go so far as to say that the majority of these dogs are bred by people who have no interest in anything other than the money, will sell them to anyone, probably not socialised properly, and as long as someone has the £ then the dog is theirs.
People buy them for ‘status’ and don’t train them and they end up with a dog that weighs more than them that drags them along the street, but ya know ‘they look cool’

I’m sorry for the very small minority who have trained and socialised their XL Bully, but honestly I will never understand why anyone thinks this is the breed for them & their family home. They aren’t misunderstood lovable rouges who just need the right owner and good training.

Licenses and muzzles etc are all well and good but what about the attacks that have happened in the home 🤷🏼‍♀️. These dogs shouldn’t exist - and this is from a dog lover who always used to believe ‘deed not breed’.

Something needs to change, new laws & new regulations for both breeding dogs, and owning one.
It’s deemed dangerous to get in a car alone without lessons and passing a test, and yet anyone can own a powerful dog like this.

Thindog · 27/02/2025 19:21

If this breed is got rid of the people that had them will replace them with another aggressive breed. Since the XL ban there's been a rise in Cane Corso dogs round where I live, and they are also scary.

Mytholmroyd · 27/02/2025 19:23

@JANEY205 Wolf or XL Bully?

I'd take the wolf because they haven't had the pack instincts and ability to think and be a good pack member bred out of them - which is necessary for their survival in the wild - I doubt very much they would attack and kill a member of their pack in the way an XL Bully does. Plus, they haven't had those horrendously powerful jaws bred into them.

Humans didn't have to teach wolves to become part of a human pack - it is a wolf/dog's natural instincts - that's why they were able to be domesticated. No 'normal' dog attacks and kills their owner - or even worse - their owners children.

I know dogs do bite owners and am not excusing or ignoring that - but it's the unstoppable mindless attacking and killing for no reason that is absolutely scary and they need to be gone.

YeOldeGreyhound · 27/02/2025 19:24

Thindog · 27/02/2025 19:21

If this breed is got rid of the people that had them will replace them with another aggressive breed. Since the XL ban there's been a rise in Cane Corso dogs round where I live, and they are also scary.

Cane Corso look scary, but are they inherently aggressive, like XLs are? Do they come from a line of dogs that were bred to kill?
Big dog does not mean aggressive.

Anonimouze · 27/02/2025 19:25

ERthree · 27/02/2025 18:22

Do you report the owners to the Police every time you see them with an unmuzzled dog ?

I see them all the time but how do you report them? By the time you get through to the police they are long gone!

EdithStourton · 27/02/2025 19:27

Sistine · 27/02/2025 18:27

Im a dog lover, I have one of my own and I work with dogs 7 days a week.

XL bullies are not pets and the time has come to euthanise them all. It absolutely is the breed. They are dead behind the eyes, awful animals that have one purpose which is to kill.

Problem is, with all the XL bullies gone, idiots will look for the next breed of choice and this is slowly seeming like the Cane Corso. If we ban them - they will look for the next one.

what we need now is tough laws regarding dog ownership with a “restricted breeds” list. This should include every big dog with guarding history such as Rottweilers, German Shepherds, Dobermanns, ALL bully breeds over a certain weight, mastiffs … these breeds would not be banned but strictly regulated requiring a license and registration. And not everyone will be eligible for this license. We don’t want idiots in possession of potentially dangerous dogs.

And I say all this as a dobermann owner (who was guarding the house growling at the back gate from the age of 4 months). He was never trained to guard, but he’s a dobermann. It absolutely IS the breed.

As time has gone on I have come to think that this might be the solution. Breeds have very different traits, and need different styles of ownership. Some breeds need more capable and experienced owners than do others. The breed I own is very prey-driven and needs both physical exercise and mental stimulation to be really happy. If anybody ever admires them and asks what they're like to own, I say that they are delightful, but very full-on and need a lot of ongoing input to get them where I have got mine and to keep them there.

Some big canine organisations seem to be keen to obscure the fact that all breed are NOT the same. Dogs Trust's rehoming website currently has about a dozen cane corsos or crosses - but no mention is made in the jolly write-ups of 'lovable', 'affectionate', 'shy' and 'squishy' dogs who are 'gentle giants' of what the breed was bred to do.

If you follow the link Dogs Trust provides to find out more about the breed, there are anodyne statements such as, 'Just like you, every dog is an individual with their own unique personality and prior experiences. So, every Cane Corso temperament is different....Each dog’s personality is shaped by their experiences of the world...' They say the same thing for every breed: there is NO mention made of breed traits, of what the dogs were originally bred for, of what you might expect. In fact, on the basis that they're all 'active' they lost half a dozen other breeds: labs (gun dogs, bred to retrieve), Irish setters (bred to search for and point game on open ground), Weimaraners (developed to hunt wide, point game and retrieve it, huskies (used to pull sleds), Belgian Malinois (developed as a shepherd dog in the guardian sense, and bred for the last 50 years at least for protection work), and Dobermanns (which are at least a guarding breed).

IMHO, all of this is both disingenuous and dishonest. Yes, the ingrained breed traits will be flattened out by the show ring, but pet-bred labradors still retrieve, pet-bred dachshunds still bark and pet-bred corgis still snap at heels. I wouldn't expect a modern show-line poodle to work (very few modern poodles do), but it will not be the same as a collie or a border terrier. Genetics are genetics, and they influence behaviour as well as looks.

Drives me nuts. It lulls people into a false sense of security, and they end up with a dog that they are just not equipped to handle.

CurlewKate · 27/02/2025 19:30

@greyeyedwonder "He's a much loved, well behaved family pet and very affectionate dog who tends to drool on you a lot."

Yeah-they always are.

Thindog · 27/02/2025 19:31

YeOldeGreyhound · 27/02/2025 19:24

Cane Corso look scary, but are they inherently aggressive, like XLs are? Do they come from a line of dogs that were bred to kill?
Big dog does not mean aggressive.

They were used for hunting, and sadly have attacked and killed people in other countries.

LetsGoFlyAKiteee · 27/02/2025 19:34

OonaStubbs · 27/02/2025 18:30

The governnment don't have the balls to do what is needed, which is to order the police to shoot all dangerous dogs on sight. There is no other option.

There has been cases..and then you have the vigils and justice pages and whatever else! One a while ago think the dogs escaped attacked and were shot..so the owner posted all this stuff and so much support for her so you can't change people's mindsets!

Plus it's both the owner and the dog! Dog for being around and the owner for being awww they're fine and making excuses on excuses.

OliveTree75 · 27/02/2025 19:35

My ds friends family have an XL bully and I won’t let him go over. They’re always posting photos of it with their baby with captions like “who says bully’s are scary?” I really fear for that baby

WorkHardPlay · 27/02/2025 19:35

Firstly, I don’t think XL bullies have an innate desire to kill or be violent. I actually think there are other breeds that are far more inclined to bite (I’m a cocker spaniel owner and trainer - just google cocker rage syndrome for example) - and that is of course why there are some XL bullies who live well with families.

HOWEVER, the difference with XL bullies is that they’ve been bred to be literal mutant monsters. Their jaw strength, muscle strength etc means that when they do bite/attack, its a completely different ball game to an attack from other breeds.

It’s like saying ‘all fish can bite’ - sure! But do you want a goldfish or a shark bite? 🦈

Hanban1987 · 27/02/2025 19:36

I was at a duck pound in a park with my little kids and a guy had one on a lead but no muzzle, I was furious!

Moonlightdust · 27/02/2025 19:39

The naivety of people on a local page to me is mind blowing. A lady posted who has recently had a baby and owns 2 XL bullies. The dogs apparently attacked each other, were injured but managed to be separated and the owner is asking for advice. It is shocking how the general consensus is to find a dog Trainer 🤦‍♀️

LetsGoFlyAKiteee · 27/02/2025 19:39

And already there's excuses being made and people defending the breed which is bizzare! Not the first case and sadly won't be the last but you have the wah wah poor dog..sorry poor victim!

Pussycat22 · 27/02/2025 19:46

Hoppinggreen · 27/02/2025 14:58

Well we don't even need to click to see it wasn't a Golden Retriever in Harrogate do we?
It might be the same type of dogs but more often its the same type of owner.
Whatever happened though its no way to die, the poor woman must have been terrified and my thoughts are with her family

True , euthanise the owners as well !!!

Justgorgeous · 27/02/2025 19:56

littlemissalwaystired · 27/02/2025 17:16

I'm a midwife and was made to attend a home birth with an XL bully in the house. I was genuinely so fearful.

Sorry you had to deal with this situation. Poor you and that poor baby.

SnoopyPajamas · 27/02/2025 19:58

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 27/02/2025 15:04

I used to be an 'it's not the dog, it's the owner and with sufficient socialisation and training there's no such thing as a bad dog.' Until I actuallly MET an XL Bully and looked it in the eye. I have no question, that dog could have killed me without thinking about it. Usually when you look at a dog it will react, either confrontationally or submissively. This bully did not react at all, almost as though it didn't recognise me as a living thing.

I'm really sorry for all those who own them and adore them, but they can switch from cuddly to killer without any cause or warning.

I've only met one in the flesh, but I also felt a strong, strange urge to get away from the animal, even though it seemed placid. And I remember thinking there was something off about the eyes. Not malevolent - the dog was calm at the time - but something . . . missing. The lights were on but no-one was home. I really don't know how else to describe it. I think you just put it into words here though. That blankness. There was no reaction, and from any other dog, there would be.

JustSawJohnny · 27/02/2025 19:59

Maray1967 · 27/02/2025 14:16

I agree. And I know a vet who agrees - having seen quite a few of these animals for neutering and having disagreed with the idea of a cull beforehand.

What this vet tells me about how vets have to handle them and how other dog owners are clearly petrified of them is frightening. I’m told that other dog owners will leave the surgery waiting room and ask to be messaged when it’s their turn rather than stay in the room with an XL bully eyeing up their dog.

I was in a Pets at Home a couple of months back (in the cat waiting area) when one came out. I had my back to it but saw another owner's face look shocked, him mutter 'Christ' under his breath and turn his cage around so I turned to look and, well, they really are bloody scary looking things in real life, huh?!!

It's the jaws and muscle on them. They just scream 'I could very easily kill you', which is clearly why so many fuckwits want to walk around with them in public. They think it 'looks hard'.

I get that it's not their fault that they were so hideously bred and that they are living creatures but it's a risk I would never take for myself, never mind allow my kid to be around them.

JustSawJohnny · 27/02/2025 20:00

Justgorgeous · 27/02/2025 19:56

Sorry you had to deal with this situation. Poor you and that poor baby.

That's disgusting.

SS really should step in, there.

Blubbles · 27/02/2025 20:03

greyeyedwonder · 27/02/2025 14:31

My friend is a XL bully owner, her DH is a police dog trainer. In the right hands these dogs are no different to any other large breed. Yeah I know not all are owned by people with his experience and capabilities. He's a much loved, well behaved family pet and very affectionate dog who tends to drool on you a lot.

Any dog can snap/get spooked/have instincts.

The difference in these dogs is they can easily kill you when something goes wrong.

wastingtimeonhere · 27/02/2025 20:04

I know of 2 xls, both walked by men in their early 30s.
1 I know is an ex con who has done time for violence numerous times. I'm not sure what will happen to the dog when he inevitably gets banged up again. The other I don't know personally, but is rather 'stereotypical' of the owners.
I love dogs and have a mixed breed mongrel dog of 'difficult' breeds, but I wouldn't want a bully breed, let alone a dog like that.
Yes, the 'breed'( it's not a actual breed as such, but a collection of characteristics) needs to go, but we as a society need to deal with the halfwit thugs and criminals who have these dogs and inevitably have strings of kids with halfwitted women, perpetuating the cycle.

SnoopyPajamas · 27/02/2025 20:06

One of the things that disturbs me most about XLs is that when you do hear these cases of a beloved family pet "snapping" and turning on the family, it always seems to be a woman or a child they've attacked. I mean, overwhelmingly. I struggle to think of a case where it was the man of the house an XL went for.

Most dogs are the other way around - protective of women and children and suspicious of men. It suggests the animal's instincts have gone awry somehow, and that makes me nervous of the whole breed

DZXX · 27/02/2025 20:11

Anonimouze · 27/02/2025 19:25

I see them all the time but how do you report them? By the time you get through to the police they are long gone!

I see quite a few unmuzzled in my small town but it’s also hard to pinpoint if it definitely is one. It very much resembles an XL bully anyway

OonaStubbs · 27/02/2025 20:12

They need to shoot the dogs before they escape or attack. Afterwards is too late.

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