”I recently came across Alexis Blake on instagram. I totally recommend watching her instagram and you tube as a very balanced viewpoint from a trans woman.”
Going back to this point about this group of males with a transgender identity that appear to make reasonable points, mainly because they admit they are male and also because they say they see female people’s point of view and may even agree with some points. But all the while, they also admit they are never going to stop using the female toilets.
I saw this on Twitter from Amy Sousa about empathy traps and Brianna Wu, and I feel it applies to Blake and this softer approach to activism as well. However, I also thought about this aspect of Blake too.
Blake is a content producer so Blake will be profiting from appearing to be a moderate. Just like Wu is profiting by being on panels etc. There is a social likely financial gain to them appearing to be moderate.
Plus, by appearing moderate, they also get the collaborations and the support from the male social commentators. Those commentators such as Leor Sapir and Ben Ryan who use these male people’s preferred pronouns. They then determinedly reject those comments from people pointing out that discrepancy in stating that no one can change sex and that gender identities should not be a basis to allow male people access into female dingle sex provision while using female pronouns for a male. Or those commentators double down on ‘true trans’ despite no evidence being available. In other words, both groups of those male people benefit from their ‘moderate’ positions.
Anyway, this is what Amy Sousa said about empathy traps that might help people like @Daisymae23 to understand why others rejected their suggestion about Blake because they recognise the issue. I thought it perhaps could help there.
x.com/knownheretic/status/1893705434156105966?s=46
“🚨WARNING about how to safeguard oneself against the "persuasion-predator" who attempts to persuade the target out of trusting their own instincts.
The persuasion-predator gets a target to cooperate and is thus granted more flexibility when it comes to privacy.
Persuasion requires the participation of the target.
Persuasion is an internal process, not an external one, we persuade ourselves.
While predators may manipulate, persuade, compel, and direct, they only succeed in control when the target allows them to be persuaded out of trusting their own instincts.
I could also speak about Wu in terms of DARVO, empathy traps, and other kinds of narcissistic manipulation tactics, but the important part is to spot the tactics and shine a light on them so as not to allow yourself to become a willing participant with predators who attempt to groom the public out of healthy boundaries.”
She later posted this too:
“I think of narcissists as manipulative in order to achieve their own ends, but it's not always an abusive aim, their aim might be money, power, or other kinds of control. In terms of the persuasion-predator, abuse, boundary violation, or access to the preferred victim is the aim.”
https://x.com/knownheretic/status/1893826007351607662?s=46
The Bewilderness also made a good point
”This is the claim predatory men make to absolve themselves of responsibility for their own actions.
The behavior is inborn & not the result of a series of choices they made.
Very like the claims religious leaders make to shift responsibility for their abusive actions on to God.”