Me and OH have 2 kids ranging from a 16 month old and a 3 month old.
The family dynamics in OH side is very unusual to say the least.
OH says himself "it's a cold family" as in they don't really see each other or do family events etc.
Anyway he is close to 1 of his siblings and this sibling has multiple children with various people.
I find the sibling very strange in the fact that they have not attempted to make any kind of effort with me in the decade that I have been with OH.
I have maybe met them a handful of times.
Anyway the sibling has young children who are 2 and 4 and has now asked OH to ask me to babysit.
I find this quite rude and cheeky seeing as I have never even met these kids before (OH had met them a handful of times).
I am very fortunate that I work from home and hours that suit me and I can be at home with the kids, we have recently moved to a larger property so obviously this sibling expects us me to baby sit frequently and do sleeps overs so that they can go out clubbing.
I have told OH I'm not doing that as it's like using someone.
Baring in mind this sibling has only seen out kids two times, doesn't really make the effort.
OH has gone out of his way to see his nephews but isn't reciprocated by the sibling.
Of course I want my kids to have a relationship with their cousins but I think this sibling needs to make more of an effort.
I has told OH if he wants to babysit he can but not to expect me to get involved.
AIBU?