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Women singers singing in their knickers.

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Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 17:31

I admit I'm older generation.
I'm a great admirer of singers such as Nina Simone, Linda Ronstadt, Suzi Quatro, Christine Perfect, Joan Baez, Tracy Chapman etc, etc.
They all not only have great voices but also real musical talent.
And they also don't stand and sing in their knickers
So what is it with people like Beyonce and Rhianna? If they really are talented why do they need to sing in their knickers? Why do they need to use sex to sell their songs? They are powerful enough not to bend to the industry pressure on them. Why not stand or fall on their talents rather than on selling their sexuality.?

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Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 21:45

Pudmyboy · 19/02/2025 21:44

Vast cleavage?? Petite little Suzi? Are you mixing her up with Chaka Khan?

Yes I was wondering about that too!

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PinkArt · 19/02/2025 21:45

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 20:36

I don't actually hold much respect for the music industry and I think the way it treats women is well known.
If the industry lauds her then fair enough.
I don't know her music to comment on it. I can only judge her by her presentation in the media and I certainly haven't seen anything on the way the media presents her to admire her.

You don't know much about her. Just enough to start a thread judging her though.
200 million record sales, 35 Grammys, nearly a 30 year career - it could easily be argued that you choosing to focus on what she wears says far more about you than it does about her.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 19/02/2025 21:46

GretchenWienersHair · 19/02/2025 20:58

Exactly this. It’s so boring. I once got pulled up at work for my (below the knee) skirt being too “revealing”. I had to point out that a skinny white woman was wearing the exact same skirt as me, she just didn’t have the curves to fill it like I did. Cue my manager going bright pink and mumbling something about not having noticed. I wonder why!

I don't know genuinely if this is a race thing or body shape thing. I'm white but curvy, big boobs and bum. Outfits that look good on straight figured women look slutty on me. If I went out in a tank top / sleeveless top like some women wear as a sporty look, I'd look like I was on onlyfans.

Brinkley22 · 19/02/2025 21:46

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 21:39

Why is she bashing cars with a bat?
Is she an environmentalist?

Watch the video… it’s interesting and I think could be interpreted in a multitude of ways… I’d love to hear @LucyMonth’s interpretation. Is she expressing anger at the patriarchy maybe? There is also a whole lot of joy and vulnerability and strength in the song and video

Bernadinetta · 19/02/2025 21:48

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 21:44

What's shocking? Please expand.

It takes a few mins for photos to be approved

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 21:57

Brinkley22 · 19/02/2025 21:44

Out of interest, what do you think about Sia? I was listening to an earlier interview with her last night actually - and I’m really interested in how she uses clothes and hair now. I’m also wondering if some (not all) women in the music industry (likely those with more power and money) are reclaiming their bodies and their hair back from the patriarchy…. Deciding what and how they use their bodies? I have a daughter… I want to see her in charge of what happens to her body and what she does with her body and how she chooses to dress it as she grows older. And I would hope that she would be able to articulate what she is doing and why. Beyoncé, to my mind, is a very intelligent woman. I’m sure there will be much thought and feeling behind what she chooses to do with her body and her hair. Sadly I think it’s different for young girls getting into modelling; acting; singing… and the royal family

I don't know Sia.
But yes young women should be exploring how they want to present themselves and how they want to express themselves through their clothes and style.
But that's not what I see on a day to day basis.
I see young girls looking all the same. Same hair styles, same skirts not even covering their backsides, shorts that arent even decent etc. Not because that's expressing their personality and individuality. But because they are aping what they see in social media and in the music stars they follow. And because that's what their pals do. Conforming to overwhelming social pressure.

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PanicPanicc · 19/02/2025 21:59

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 21:33

I don't know what you mean by trolling.
The whole premise of my thread was why, if a woman has musical talent,does she need to take her clothes off for people to listen to her?
And actually yes, I find it sad, that after all these years of feminism nothing has changed: it's women's bodies that sell. Not all the other talents they have.
You only have to walk down any street and its the teenage girls that are walking round half naked. The teenage boys aren't.
So explain to me why you are calling me a troll?

Because you have to be trolling. What they’re doing nowadays is nothing new and the singers you decided to single out don’t even make sense. Beyoncé is known for being super careful and conservative about her image, she might be hot but she’s never been hypersexualised.

Are we really pretending women (and men, to an extent) selling sex appeal is some 21st century concept? Is Dolly Parton untalented because of her style? Grow up.

Women singers singing in their knickers.
Women singers singing in their knickers.
PanicPanicc · 19/02/2025 22:00

I tried posting some Jane Birkin and Grace Jones outfits to illustrate my point but they’re currently under review 🤷🏻‍♀️

CatsMagic · 19/02/2025 22:03

Mittens67 · 19/02/2025 17:55

I agree OP.
When women market themselves as a sex object so very basically and blatantly it affects all women by encouraging men to see us as just that. Objects to fulfil their sexual needs.
Given the enormous issue of violence against women and girls (which is pretty much entirely sex related) this is the last thing we need.
Yes, this has always happened but it is more extreme now. Plus just because it has always happened doesn’t make it a good thing.
Ditto all the crap about Only fans etc empowering women and renaming prostitution sex work.
Enormous empathy for women forced to make such choices to survive but not for those who choose it as a route to a more luxurious lifestyle now it has been made more socially acceptable by the chattering classes feigning faux positivity.

100 percent agree.

Just as women are getting a more equal footing in society , and things are improving in the workplace and the home with regards to women’s rights we go backwards again with the “selling your body is empowering” crap- this does not benefit women at all.

Also really annoys me when I see middle class women cheering it on as a lifestyle choice- anyone advocating for this needs to spend 2 weeks working in Leeds red light district then come back and tell us how “empowering” it is.

FrangipaniBlue · 19/02/2025 22:13

Your outrage is misplaced OP.

Instead of denigrating the women for feeling they need sex sell their music, why not direct that anger at the society that tells women that their sexual is what matters?

BunnyLake · 19/02/2025 22:17

ClaudiaWankleman · 19/02/2025 21:19

No I think you’re accessing the videos in some nasty places on the internet. It’s certainly not like that in the YouTube comments.

Don’t be so ridiculous and why would she even be in nasty places on the internet? Who the heck do you think I am, I’m just a mum on mumsnet. You are the only one on here whose mind is in those places, no one else!

GretchenWienersHair · 19/02/2025 22:19

It’s both really. It’s a shape thing, but since “curvy” figures are more common on black women (and we all know how the world feels about black women), it’s tied into a race thing.

GretchenWienersHair · 19/02/2025 22:20

Dontlletmedownbruce · 19/02/2025 21:46

I don't know genuinely if this is a race thing or body shape thing. I'm white but curvy, big boobs and bum. Outfits that look good on straight figured women look slutty on me. If I went out in a tank top / sleeveless top like some women wear as a sporty look, I'd look like I was on onlyfans.

I was meant to quote this in the post above. (I don’t know why that keeps happening. I’m sure I clicked “quote”!)

JHound · 19/02/2025 22:23

I do find these conversations funny though.

Muslims women’s niqabs and hijabs are a symbol of patriarchy and male oppression.

Female performers in leotards and revealing outfits are also a symbol of patriarchy and male oppression.

What is the precise numbers of centimetres of material a woman must wear to be just right between the two? 😂

GretchenWienersHair · 19/02/2025 22:26

Brinkley22 · 19/02/2025 21:46

Watch the video… it’s interesting and I think could be interpreted in a multitude of ways… I’d love to hear @LucyMonth’s interpretation. Is she expressing anger at the patriarchy maybe? There is also a whole lot of joy and vulnerability and strength in the song and video

That scene where she wears a yellow dress - I’ve read interpretations that suggest she’s mirroring the Yoruba orisha, Oshun, who is known for femininity but also her rage if betrayed. The perfect symbol for that video (and album!)

GretchenWienersHair · 19/02/2025 22:27

JHound · 19/02/2025 22:23

I do find these conversations funny though.

Muslims women’s niqabs and hijabs are a symbol of patriarchy and male oppression.

Female performers in leotards and revealing outfits are also a symbol of patriarchy and male oppression.

What is the precise numbers of centimetres of material a woman must wear to be just right between the two? 😂

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Somewhere between 24” waist, small boobs and skin that resembles that of a “porcelain doll”, methinks.

Blinky21 · 19/02/2025 22:27

I can't stand the ubiquitous leottard that's been around for years now, men get to perform with trousers on

TwoRobins · 19/02/2025 22:29

ClaudiaWankleman · 19/02/2025 17:40

The type of show that Nina Simone, Linda Ronstadt, Suzi Quatro, Christine Perfect, Joan Baez or Tracy Chapman are putting on is very different to the incredibly active and dancey, fashion forward spectaculars that Rihanna and Beyoncé put on. They could hardly dance around in a pair of jeans and an oversized corduroy shirt.

😁😂😅

ClaudiaWankleman · 19/02/2025 22:32

BunnyLake · 19/02/2025 22:17

Don’t be so ridiculous and why would she even be in nasty places on the internet? Who the heck do you think I am, I’m just a mum on mumsnet. You are the only one on here whose mind is in those places, no one else!

You’re the one frequenting websites where people leer at camel toes. You won’t find that on YouTube. You’re the one who brought it up!

BlueSilverCats · 19/02/2025 22:38

@ClaudiaWankleman tbf there were a few threads on here too about SC and her outfits/behaviour on her tour. No need to go on the "dark sides" of the internet.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 19/02/2025 22:58

Blinky21 · 19/02/2025 22:27

I can't stand the ubiquitous leottard that's been around for years now, men get to perform with trousers on

Yeah, why DO female singers always dress like this? I mean, some did a few years ago, but it seems all of them do now (almost all!) The pop singers anyway!

Ariana, Sabrina, Miley, Pink

Women singers singing in their knickers.
Women singers singing in their knickers.
Women singers singing in their knickers.
Women singers singing in their knickers.
LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 19/02/2025 22:58

And... Britney, Rihanna, Taylor, Beyonce.

Some sources say that it's because they have free movement to dance and move around easier. But plenty of female singers have managed to perform just fine over the decades (and move about a bit!) without looking like they're going to the school gymnasium for a practice on the trampolines!

I have no problem with them dressing like this. I just think it's a bit weird, and they just all look the same, and I think it looks slightly naff... Many years ago, singers had an individual look. Now they're a carbon copy of each other!

Women singers singing in their knickers.
Women singers singing in their knickers.
Women singers singing in their knickers.
Women singers singing in their knickers.
ThatEllie · 19/02/2025 23:01

Thelasthurdle · 19/02/2025 20:14

I'm sorry I've been quite overwhelmed by the number if responses on the thread.
So if you have posed the question about me " calling out women of colour" I've missed it.
I can assure you when it comes to musical talent I'm colour blind. If anything I'm very pro " women of colour" when it comes to admiring singers - Nina Simone and Tracy Chapman being among my very favourites,
I will admit to Beyonce and her popularity and the reasons people give for her being so popular being a total mystery to me though. I think I could recognise one of her songs if I heard it. But all I ever see of her in the media is her wearing knickers or even less. So if she has musical talent it is very well hidden from people such as myself because the way her image is sold reveals nothing of this.
How dies this equate to calling out " women of colour"?

But all I ever see of her in the media is her wearing knickers or even less.

So now we’ve gone from “singing in knickers” to “all I ever see is her in knickers or less”? Again, can you provide examples of this? Preferably examples other than the pregnancy photo that apparently disgusted you so much, since many women do pregnancy photos (even- gasp- ones with nudity).

The more you post the more it seems like your disgust and criticism are indeed rooted in misogyny (and perhaps a bit of racism as well).

BlueSilverCats · 19/02/2025 23:11

Some people only see what they want to see.

LaineyCee · 19/02/2025 23:14

Singers in pop have always used their sexuality in performance. And not just the women- Remember Elvis the Pelvis?

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