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Do you get your children anything for Valentines day

282 replies

Thatsthesoundofthepolice · 12/02/2025 22:16

Or do any activities with them?

I’m seeing it more and more as a thing for kids to be involved in, as in crafts or getting heart cupcakes..do you do things like that?

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BurgundyZero · 13/02/2025 21:12

Fur babies! That's different. I will arrange any fox shit we stumble across into a heart-shape for my dog to fucking roll in tomorrow.❤❤❤

denhaag · 14/02/2025 07:32

Ds (15) came into my room this morning wishing me a happy Valentine's Day.
I said thanks but I don't love him like that.
He said (in the wry way teenagers speak) "but you've been there for me from day one".
I thought it was pretty sweet.
He's smitten with his GF at the moment so today is a big deal for him.

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 14/02/2025 08:21

denhaag · 14/02/2025 07:32

Ds (15) came into my room this morning wishing me a happy Valentine's Day.
I said thanks but I don't love him like that.
He said (in the wry way teenagers speak) "but you've been there for me from day one".
I thought it was pretty sweet.
He's smitten with his GF at the moment so today is a big deal for him.

Your DS sounds like a wonderful person. Well done for raising such an emotionally intelligent young man.

denhaag · 14/02/2025 08:23

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 14/02/2025 08:21

Your DS sounds like a wonderful person. Well done for raising such an emotionally intelligent young man.

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That's really kind, thank you.

LarnaArm · 14/02/2025 08:46

Modelling love and care is a good thing!

FiveWhatByFiveWhat · 14/02/2025 09:06

@crackadawn a think it's a bit ott but honestly I'm more worried about the part of "the next generation" who are growing up with no home, no heating, no food, violent/addicted/absent parents, than I am about kids whose parents got them a heart shaped chocolate, FFS.

Wannabegreenfingers · 14/02/2025 09:08

Not from me. It's commercialised nonsense.

Trainstrike · 14/02/2025 09:11

I can confirm my thinking after this morning's school run - it's definitely alive and well within primary schools. I saw a lot of children with cards this morning. Maybe I should have snatched them from their hands and warned the Safeguarding lead that MN said it's only about sex.

IamGrout · 14/02/2025 10:19

If you celebrate the day why wouldn't you do it with the people you love?

I was never bother by Valentines Day and considered all the hype a load of commercial nonsense. We tell each other we love each other and do nice things all the time, not just on one day a year. However, when DS was small he was so proud of a Valentines card he made for me at school and it was fun to join in the Valentine's celebrations with a little extra treat or card. DS is a teen now and the little extra reminders of how much he is loved makes him happy.

PizzaPowder · 14/02/2025 10:23

A wee card and £2 teddy or chocs through the letter box from a secret admirer. Do the same for my niece.

SunnyViper · 14/02/2025 10:25

Do they fuck. Apart from it being a load of bollocks, it’s directed at adults.

mumzof4x · 14/02/2025 10:28

I can't wait for DD aged 14 to get up and see her gift bag
Dd is Autistic and it will make her day as she really struggles with accepting being loved and anything like this means so much to her. Love her so much x
We had a great time filling it with goodies for her and a sweet red rose.
( it's teacher training day at her school btw!

KimberleyClark · 14/02/2025 10:30

I was never bother by Valentines Day and considered all the hype a load of commercial nonsense. We tell each other we love each other and do nice things all the time, not just on one day a year.

So do we. We also like looking forward to doing something a bit special on Valentine’s Day. Doesn’t have to be one or the other.

Househunter2025 · 14/02/2025 10:30

Whatnowthenfordone · 12/02/2025 22:29

It’s for romantic love. How could it be for kids?

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They do it at nursery. So clearly it is for kids these days

Needmorelego · 14/02/2025 10:31

Why do people care so much about what other families do or don't celebrate?

Househunter2025 · 14/02/2025 10:31

Wannabegreenfingers · 14/02/2025 09:08

Not from me. It's commercialised nonsense.

Meh it's only commercial if you buy stuff. Home made cards here - we all made them for each other. At work we did origami hearts.

Househunter2025 · 14/02/2025 10:34

I also think it's nice for single teenagers and young women to get something on valentine's day even if it's only from mum. It can feel a very lonely day

wipeywipe · 14/02/2025 10:38

No, didn't realise I should be!

wipeywipe · 14/02/2025 10:43

There are a lot of people lacking love on this thread!

😆 My dc don't need a VD themed gift bag to know I love them. But we are off on holiday tmw in case they are unsure, hopefully that will prove it!

SunnyViper · 14/02/2025 10:59

Househunter2025 · 14/02/2025 10:34

I also think it's nice for single teenagers and young women to get something on valentine's day even if it's only from mum. It can feel a very lonely day

It’s only lonely if you’re insecure and buy into the bullshit

JeremiahBullfrog · 14/02/2025 11:23

I suppose it fits very well with the pink glitter and fairytale princess culture we've decided to foist on little girls. I think I see more people mentioning getting cards and gifts for their daughters than their sons, wonder why this is ...

ClippyMuldoon · 14/02/2025 11:31

I only have a daughter Jeremiahbullfrog. If I had a son he'd get something too. Also I have read plenty of posts about sons. Still, if we can be groomers I suppose being sexist is a nice extra.

thaegumathteth · 14/02/2025 11:36

JeremiahBullfrog · 14/02/2025 11:23

I suppose it fits very well with the pink glitter and fairytale princess culture we've decided to foist on little girls. I think I see more people mentioning getting cards and gifts for their daughters than their sons, wonder why this is ...

I'd be really surprised if anyone bought for their daughter but not their son based purely on sex. Bit odd you think like that.

TheKeatingFive · 14/02/2025 13:08

JeremiahBullfrog · 14/02/2025 11:23

I suppose it fits very well with the pink glitter and fairytale princess culture we've decided to foist on little girls. I think I see more people mentioning getting cards and gifts for their daughters than their sons, wonder why this is ...

Whut?

Where are you getting this from? 🫠

TunipTheVegimal24 · 14/02/2025 13:19

ClippyMuldoon · 14/02/2025 11:31

I only have a daughter Jeremiahbullfrog. If I had a son he'd get something too. Also I have read plenty of posts about sons. Still, if we can be groomers I suppose being sexist is a nice extra.

If you're going to insist on getting your DD a gift, you should have another child first. Make sure it's a boy, of course. Only then can you gift your DD, if your son gets an identical gift. Anything else and yes, it is sexist behaviour.