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to think some people think WFH should be a constant nose to the grindstone?

360 replies

Yodeloo · 12/02/2025 15:45

I think some jobs are like that definitely. Heavy workload, helplines etc

Some people think all WFH should be like this and get horrified because someone hung some washing out or helped out a family member for a short time. Plenty of jobs have flexibility and it is about getting the job done not just being present in front of the computer non stop.

I get all my life admin done throughout the day around work. I do an exercise class most mornings and then start work later on the days I WFH. I will meet up with friends, work on my side business. Nobody cares at my work. All targets are met consistently.

Is it jealousy that people get so upset?

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Cattreesea · 13/02/2025 10:16

'If you were in the office and sat around not working, most employers would find more work for you to do if they are paying you to work those hours.'

When I was office basedI could see the computer screen of our line manager and she openly spent most of her day openly shopping online and conversing with her boyfriend...

Naive to think that managers don't waste their time too or that time in the office is always used productively.

MrsSunshine2b · 13/02/2025 10:17

MegTheForgetfulCat · 13/02/2025 07:51

Tell me you don't work for a law firm without telling me you don't work for a law firm! Grin

Tell me you're THAT office worker who is always SO BUSY without telling me...

Ddakji · 13/02/2025 10:17

olivehater · 13/02/2025 10:05

I guess because if you are putting less hours in you are essentially doing a part time job and are getting paid for a full time job.
As someone who works part time and works non stop when at work but only gets a part time wage you can see why it would annoy me or other people.
I work part time so I can do all that other stuff on my own time. But I get the part time wage to go with it.

I am similar in that I realised pretty early on that my job didn’t take 5 days and after a degree of fannying about I got them to agree to me doing 4 days.

My colleague does the same job but in 5 days. That’s up to her, I don’t begrudge her that. I didn’t want to feel tied to my desk for an additional day, I actually found it really mentally draining, she obviously doesn’t mind.

Comparison is the thief of joy.

Ddakji · 13/02/2025 10:20

MrsSunshine2b · 13/02/2025 10:17

Tell me you're THAT office worker who is always SO BUSY without telling me...

I once covered someone on sabbatical leave. It wasn’t a full time job which I worked out after a couple of weeks so I asked if I could do it part time, which was allowed. One of my colleagues said “I always thought X made a meal out of that job”. Something that X’s manager had clearly never noticed.

ThePartingOfTheWays · 13/02/2025 10:24

Cattreesea · 13/02/2025 10:16

'If you were in the office and sat around not working, most employers would find more work for you to do if they are paying you to work those hours.'

When I was office basedI could see the computer screen of our line manager and she openly spent most of her day openly shopping online and conversing with her boyfriend...

Naive to think that managers don't waste their time too or that time in the office is always used productively.

Yes, that's quite heroically optimistic isn't it!

But also, even without any piss taking, people have different work rates and patterns. Some people do better in bursts with time spent not working in the middle. Some people do better at a more consistent pace throughout. It's poor management to impose the second model on the first group.

Artesia · 13/02/2025 10:42

rwalker · 12/02/2025 16:05

hanging your washing out in works time and going to the gym is taking the piss if your being paid you should be working

What if you are then working outside work hours? So I take a couple of calls at 7am with colleagues in Australia/far east. Then send follow up emails. Then go have a shower at 10am and hang up some laundry. Work for a bit, then make dinner for later. Bit more work the school run. At 8pm i pick up with colleagues in USA and work for a couple of hours. That's a fairly standard day for me.

ThePartingOfTheWays · 13/02/2025 10:48

Artesia · 13/02/2025 10:42

What if you are then working outside work hours? So I take a couple of calls at 7am with colleagues in Australia/far east. Then send follow up emails. Then go have a shower at 10am and hang up some laundry. Work for a bit, then make dinner for later. Bit more work the school run. At 8pm i pick up with colleagues in USA and work for a couple of hours. That's a fairly standard day for me.

Does not compute, I expect.

Some MNers simply can't cope with the idea that anyone might need to do work with people who don't live within commuting distance of them, let alone in a different country.

DysmalRadius · 13/02/2025 11:02

I think some people also don't understand that many workers aren't employed to put a certain number of hours in - they have skills and experience that are valuable to their employer, even if they aren't actually 'productive' for a certain number of hours a day.

Kitchensinktoday · 13/02/2025 11:58

DysmalRadius · 13/02/2025 11:02

I think some people also don't understand that many workers aren't employed to put a certain number of hours in - they have skills and experience that are valuable to their employer, even if they aren't actually 'productive' for a certain number of hours a day.

This is so true. I'm employed to get a specific job done, and I'm judged on my outputs, not the length of time spent at my computer, or whether I'm in the office or WFH.

We've come a long way from clocking in and out.

SerenityNowSerenityNow · 13/02/2025 12:01

DysmalRadius · 13/02/2025 11:02

I think some people also don't understand that many workers aren't employed to put a certain number of hours in - they have skills and experience that are valuable to their employer, even if they aren't actually 'productive' for a certain number of hours a day.

Very true.
Technically I'm contracted for 37 hours a week but I don't record my hours anywhere.
I just do my job and work the hours that requires.

Linux20 · 13/02/2025 12:32

ThePartingOfTheWays · 13/02/2025 10:48

Does not compute, I expect.

Some MNers simply can't cope with the idea that anyone might need to do work with people who don't live within commuting distance of them, let alone in a different country.

Exactly I’m on the south coast. There are 8 people in my team 2 others live close enough to go to the same office as me. Another 2 in London, one in Shropshire and 2 in Scotland. Which office are we all supposed to be in or should we all commute to our nearest office to then sit on our own in an office and speak on Teams?
we also do an international job and have to have calls regularly with Australia, India and the US, which don’t fit into standard hours.

Yodeloo · 13/02/2025 13:02

k1233 · 13/02/2025 10:10

@Yodeloo work on my side business.

Yeah, worked with a guy who did similar. He was instantly dismissed when work found out.

Won't be the case for me!

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FaithFables · 13/02/2025 15:28

OonaStubbs · 13/02/2025 01:25

If people at work have time to hang out washing or go to exercise classes, they are not being managed properly and are not as productive as they should be. I think WFH should be cracked down on as too many are clearly swinging the lead.

Clearly you've not read the thread. Do you think people who WFH aren't bound by the same employment laws as everyone else? I do 9 hours per day from home, 5 days per week. I have one hour unpaid break, that's broken up through out the day. 15 minutes in the morning, half an hour for lunch and 15 minutes in the afternoon.

Morning break I make tea and toast whilst putting a wash on and hoovering. Lunchtime, I'll put the washing on the radiators/in the dryer and then walk the dog. Afternoon break I have coffee and biscuits whilst doing any other housework that needs doing.

Do you work all day without a break? Do you never go the loo, make a cuppa, chat to a colleague or pop out for lunch? If you don't then you have a point, if you do, well bit hypocritical of you, yes?

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 13/02/2025 22:38

But OP, if you do all that, your targets must be wrong. Still, not necessarily your problem.

Addeline · 13/02/2025 23:19

We complete timesheets so it would be considered fraud if we put down times we weren’t working. If you don’t put down 37 hours, you’d be expected to make the time up. If you’ve run out of things to do, you’d be expected to help someone who’s overloaded.

BellissimoGecko · 13/02/2025 23:49

God, you're smug.

You should be working the hours you are paid for.
It's not difficult.

EveInEden · 14/02/2025 07:30

Princessfluffy · 12/02/2025 23:46

I think the main worry about WFH is that a lot of jobs that provably can be done remotely are now being moved to wherever in the world labour is cheapest.

This has been going on for decades. It isn't new. Many roles cant be done offshore because they require onshore working due to the services they provide.

Yodeloo · 14/02/2025 07:31

BellissimoGecko · 13/02/2025 23:49

God, you're smug.

You should be working the hours you are paid for.
It's not difficult.

It is not difficult to understand that all jobs do not involve working solidly for every minute of your working hours.

I get everything done in less time and hit all my targets. Then I do other life stuff. So what is the problem?

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Yodeloo · 14/02/2025 07:33

Addeline · 13/02/2025 23:19

We complete timesheets so it would be considered fraud if we put down times we weren’t working. If you don’t put down 37 hours, you’d be expected to make the time up. If you’ve run out of things to do, you’d be expected to help someone who’s overloaded.

So happy my work doesn't run a timesheet system!

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ThePartingOfTheWays · 14/02/2025 07:38

Yodeloo · 14/02/2025 07:31

It is not difficult to understand that all jobs do not involve working solidly for every minute of your working hours.

I get everything done in less time and hit all my targets. Then I do other life stuff. So what is the problem?

I dunno, it seems to be quite beyond the understanding of some people.

Fizbosshoes · 14/02/2025 09:04

Fir people who used to work in an office but now reach all targets in half a day at home, how did you spend all the spare time in the office?

OlivePeer · 14/02/2025 09:15

Fizbosshoes · 14/02/2025 09:04

Fir people who used to work in an office but now reach all targets in half a day at home, how did you spend all the spare time in the office?

A lot of time being bored. I've tended to have jobs where you're waiting for an email or task to come in, so a lot of waiting around, keeping an eye on your inbox while time ticks by at a glacial pace. Making tea. Spending longer than needed on the tasks if I knew I'd be sitting around for a while otherwise. Seeing if anyone else needed anything (if appropriate - also tends to get people's backs up so not recommended on a regular basis). At least at home I can read a book (or go on mumsnet) during the pauses.

SecondMrsTanqueray · 14/02/2025 09:34

Addeline · 13/02/2025 23:19

We complete timesheets so it would be considered fraud if we put down times we weren’t working. If you don’t put down 37 hours, you’d be expected to make the time up. If you’ve run out of things to do, you’d be expected to help someone who’s overloaded.

That’s so archaic. I’d hate to have a job like that.

Yodeloo · 14/02/2025 09:45

Fizbosshoes · 14/02/2025 09:04

Fir people who used to work in an office but now reach all targets in half a day at home, how did you spend all the spare time in the office?

I ran my side business, sorted out life admin, did transcription work.

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MegTheForgetfulCat · 14/02/2025 09:45

SecondMrsTanqueray · 14/02/2025 09:34

That’s so archaic. I’d hate to have a job like that.

A lot of industries operate on that basis, and in the case of many professional services it will be a breach of regulatory standards to fabricate time recording where a client is being charged (accountants, lawyers, auditors etc).

Even if your charging structures aren't based on hourly rates, surely it's a good way of keeping track of how much time people are spending on particular tasks, in order to allocate a cost to the business, assess staff capacity levels etc?

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