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AIBU?

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Would you like this or find it unbearably cringe?

650 replies

TheEnterainer · 26/01/2025 17:17

We have a friend with a birthday in a few weeks.

The number one song when he was born was ‘Cinderella Rockafella.’

As you’ve possibly guessed - if this was his birthday number one - he’s still a young lad and might be a bit shy and self conscious when it comes ti things like showy displays ! 🙌

His birthday’s at the beginning of March.

What my partner and I would love to do is an impromptu dance to this song when we all visit the local social club in a few weeks to celebrate his birthday.

I’m busy learning the exact lyrics for this song already!

i personally LOVE this song although some people apparently find it a bit twee

SO -

YANBU - it’s a lovely, gesture and great to take initiative at a time when most people are busy scrolling their phones and CBA to make an effort for anyone or anything!

YABU - ‘Cinderella Rockafella’ is a novelty record sung by seasoned performers and the ‘Average Joes’ of this world can’t carry off such a performance without it looking extremely naff!

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TheEnterainer · 26/01/2025 19:21

StMarie4me · 26/01/2025 19:20

Surely 56?

Yes 57 in March

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JandamiHash · 26/01/2025 19:21

Dear Lord do not do this. Nobody wants to see it and it’s just cringey.

PSA: Unless you’re actually decent at proper dancing please don’t ever do an impromptu dance. It looks crap and the second hand embarrassment probably knocks a good six months off the life expectancy of your guests

StMarie4me · 26/01/2025 19:22

FireandBrimstone · 26/01/2025 17:31

he’s still a young lad and might be a bit shy and self conscious when it comes ti things like showy displays ! 🙌

The more I read your OP the more unbelievable I find the whole thing. Is a 66 year old really in anyone's books a 'young lad'?

All this is verging on the delusional.

Anyway if you are genuine, please read the room (in terms of the overwhelming view of responses here OP), and cancel this appallingly narcissistic idea.

I was born in 1962 and am currently... 62. How are people deciding he is 66?!

Not that 56 is a young lad!

Zucker · 26/01/2025 19:23

Has the friend mentioned that this was an especially special song for him?🤔
What an odd idea, maybe if it was a song from his clubbing days or whatever, but a tune from the week he was born!

Yoyokitten · 26/01/2025 19:23

Omg, please don't do this.It's almost as cringy as a bride and groom learning a dance 😱

Youngheartsalittletogetherness · 26/01/2025 19:23

LostittoBostik · 26/01/2025 17:55

Oh my god - how old is he? If he's any younger than 35 (I don't know the song) PLEASE do not do this .

The lucky recipient..is 56🥳🤯🤣🤣🤣

JandamiHash · 26/01/2025 19:23

TheNewSchmoo · 26/01/2025 17:23

If I am right he is 66 and I suppose would be ok if you are some kind of am dram musical family. But then I saw the post about making it more about you than him, and i can see that point.

When you said young and shy, I imagined a 9 year old and I do think that would be horrible.

I’m picturing the family in the Extras episode where Ashley Jensen is invited to hear her friend sing from Annie and her in the closet dad keeps shouting at her 😂

SomethingUniqueThisTime · 26/01/2025 19:23

The only way this song & performance could possibly work is if he was a total extrovert, camp, cross-dresser who loved laughing at himself. So DO NOT DO IT.

carly2803 · 26/01/2025 19:24

oh god no!!!! so so cringe, make him the centre of attention and its an awful idea!

Aposterhasnoname · 26/01/2025 19:25

God, I’d die on the spot.

TheEnterainer · 26/01/2025 19:25

JandamiHash · 26/01/2025 19:23

I’m picturing the family in the Extras episode where Ashley Jensen is invited to hear her friend sing from Annie and her in the closet dad keeps shouting at her 😂

Omg I remember this !

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Honeyroar · 26/01/2025 19:26

Sorry your idea got rained on, and sorry to join in, but no, no, no! This is something you do at your own wedding or your own birthday- or you perform for your grandma’s 90th. But absolutely not for a shy, middle aged man who doesn’t like fuss! Bake him a cake or something.

Endofyear · 26/01/2025 19:26

Unbearably cringe. Sorry 😬

Zucker · 26/01/2025 19:28

Just played the song. Makes this thread even funnier ffs. I've changed my mind, please do it and upload it here so we can all watch!

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 26/01/2025 19:29

Absolutely terrible idea!

I agree with what everyone else has said - it’s just making someone else’s birthday about you.

ForeverTheOptomist · 26/01/2025 19:29

TheEnterainer · 26/01/2025 17:21

I take it you’re not the kind of person who likes being serenaded at the dinner table by the resident hotel musician when on a Mediterranean holiday ?

God no!!

JandamiHash · 26/01/2025 19:30

I’ve just listened to the song, how in the name of suffering Jesus can you dance to that?!

Mercedes45 · 26/01/2025 19:31

Scarlet for ya!

NooNakedJacuzziness · 26/01/2025 19:32

Wonder how many requests this has generated on YouTube this evening 😁

JandamiHash · 26/01/2025 19:32

Just googled my own no 1 song

The Chicken Song by Spitting Image Hmm

WorldKeepsSpinningRound · 26/01/2025 19:32

I think if the birthday boy was the type to appreciate this sort of thing it would be blatantly obvious.

As it is not, he would probably die of second hand embarrassment as, no doubt, would others.

SecretLifeOfTeachers · 26/01/2025 19:33

Please don’t do this

ForeverTheOptomist · 26/01/2025 19:33

StMarie4me · 26/01/2025 19:22

I was born in 1962 and am currently... 62. How are people deciding he is 66?!

Not that 56 is a young lad!

Didn't somebody say he was born in 57?

Hotafternoon · 26/01/2025 19:36

Frank Sinatra and Three Coins in a Fountain was no. 1 when I was born.

I am quite old. 😆

TheEnterainer · 26/01/2025 19:42

JandamiHash · 26/01/2025 19:32

Just googled my own no 1 song

The Chicken Song by Spitting Image Hmm

A great song from an excellent time in my life 🙌

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