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Would you like this or find it unbearably cringe?

650 replies

TheEnterainer · 26/01/2025 17:17

We have a friend with a birthday in a few weeks.

The number one song when he was born was ‘Cinderella Rockafella.’

As you’ve possibly guessed - if this was his birthday number one - he’s still a young lad and might be a bit shy and self conscious when it comes ti things like showy displays ! 🙌

His birthday’s at the beginning of March.

What my partner and I would love to do is an impromptu dance to this song when we all visit the local social club in a few weeks to celebrate his birthday.

I’m busy learning the exact lyrics for this song already!

i personally LOVE this song although some people apparently find it a bit twee

SO -

YANBU - it’s a lovely, gesture and great to take initiative at a time when most people are busy scrolling their phones and CBA to make an effort for anyone or anything!

YABU - ‘Cinderella Rockafella’ is a novelty record sung by seasoned performers and the ‘Average Joes’ of this world can’t carry off such a performance without it looking extremely naff!

OP posts:
Itiswhysofew · 26/01/2025 18:47

I might smile and go along with it politely, but I'd be cringing inside.

Hoardasauruskaren · 26/01/2025 18:47

TheEnterainer · 26/01/2025 17:26

No neither of us are performer types.

We’d be doing it as something very ‘different’ that he might enjoy as its something not many people can be bothered to do

I don’t think its that people can’t be bothered 🙄🙄

MyNamesGaryAndImAddictedToChips · 26/01/2025 18:48

Dear God. I hope nobody ever does this to me! No. 1 when I was born was Chirpy Chirpy Cheep Cheep and it's a dreadful song. 😬

TheEnterainer · 26/01/2025 18:49

What surprises me greatly is that this sing ever got to no1 if SO many people dislike it

I personally love it

But - I’ve read the room - I won’t do it

OP posts:
zeibesaffron · 26/01/2025 18:49

Dear god, please don’t!!

blueshoes · 26/01/2025 18:50

Do it.

He could be one of those newborns who was big into Top of the Pops chart action.

FoxtonFoxton · 26/01/2025 18:50

Fuck me, I'm cringing already! I do cringe easily though so I'm probably the wrong audience.

DoloresODonovan · 26/01/2025 18:50

HollyKnight · 26/01/2025 18:31

I looked mine up. It's Crying by Don McLean. Which was also my mum's post-divorce drunk-on-vodka karaoke song! I'll be traumatised if my friends ever serenade me with that on my birthday. 😭😂

is this the “Cwying “ duet song on OFaH. ?

Rollergirl999 · 26/01/2025 18:50

I have always hated that song . It’s awful , unbearably cringy. Please don’t do it.

Brickiscool · 26/01/2025 18:50

Will he understand? You could rock up at my party and sing the number one from when I was born and I'd stare at you blankly as wouldn't have a clue

wassailess · 26/01/2025 18:50

Noooooo. Never ever do a pre-arranged dance.

I've had this done to me. I've seen it happen at other parties. It's always terrible and embarrassing for everyone.

Itsme3167 · 26/01/2025 18:52

I think it’s a cracking idea…….be a good laugh if nowt else. I was born in ‘67 and I’d love my mates to do something like this. Go for it I say. Do yourselves proud 👍🏻😊

Hotafternoon · 26/01/2025 18:52

I've been "serenaded" twice in the past, once was my birthday.

I can confirm it's horrible, sitting there as someone warbles away while your smile becomes so fixed your face hurts. Both times there were lots of people watching.

Don't do it.

unsync · 26/01/2025 18:52

Do you value the friendship and does he have a good sense of humour?

DoloresODonovan · 26/01/2025 18:53

Scentsitive · 26/01/2025 18:04

I fall for it every time!

sharpen your antenna, at least you realised, most do not lol

saveforthat · 26/01/2025 18:53

I remember that when it was in the charts and even as a child it made me cringe.

JMSA · 26/01/2025 18:54

Ohhh, no. I don't understand why you would 🫣

WhatDaHell · 26/01/2025 18:56

I think I would want a hole to swallow me up 🙈

However, it's a lovely thought!

jonnylooloo · 26/01/2025 18:56

This is a joke, right? Best post for ages, thanks!!!
Also. Holy Fuck x 2

LostNFoundSV · 26/01/2025 18:56

FireandBrimstone · 26/01/2025 17:21

Sorry but it sounds unbearably cringe and much more about getting you into the spotlight than the person with the birthday.

This 💯

FoxtonFoxton · 26/01/2025 18:57

Hotafternoon · 26/01/2025 18:52

I've been "serenaded" twice in the past, once was my birthday.

I can confirm it's horrible, sitting there as someone warbles away while your smile becomes so fixed your face hurts. Both times there were lots of people watching.

Don't do it.

Oh god, poor you. I can imagine sitting there with a rictus grin wanting to spontaneously combust to get the suffering over with. I think I'd have to pretend faint mid song to escape.

IamFrancine · 26/01/2025 18:57

dear god

TokyoSushi · 26/01/2025 18:58

My first thought is absolutely no, but indulge me...

Is your plan to put the song on and then you perform a dance to it? Will people even know that it was the song when he was born? Will he even know? Or will the vast majority of people think wtf are you doing performing this 'look at me' show and cringe themselves inside out?

TwistedWonder · 26/01/2025 18:58

How to make someone else’s special day all about meeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

I would probably get up and go home if anyone did this for me.

Im 59 and I had to google this song. It’s very vaguely familiar and very very very cringey and awful

HolyPeaches · 26/01/2025 18:58

The number 1 when I was born was ‘Meatloaf - I would do anything for love’. Can I hire you and your partner to do an impromptu rendition of it at my local social club on my birthday? It’s not until November though 😂

I’m being deadly serious.