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Circumcision should be banned.

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ArabellaScott · 24/01/2025 14:44

https://www.secularism.org.uk/news/2025/01/judge-and-parents-call-for-boys-to-be-protected-from-circumcision

Article describes an upsetting case of two doctors performing these ops without anesthesia, and with sometimes serious side effects. One boy nearly died.

The National Secular Society is running a concurrent campaign to ban all 'religious cutting' - that includes both FGM and male circumcision. I wholeheartedly agree that no baby or child should suffer in this way. More info:

https://www.secularism.org.uk/religious-surgery/

YABU - circumcision for religous reasons is fine
YANBU - circumcision should be banned (unless there is a medical reason)

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SapphireSeptember · 24/01/2025 17:33

MidnightMusing5 · 24/01/2025 16:54

educate yourself. Circumcision is scientifically proven to be a hygiene/ health benefit. FGM has no health benefit and in fact, as the name suggests - is mutilation. FGM is banned, and rightly so.

so we have two dodgy individuals breaking the law, and so now we ban circumcision??

A dodgy builder built a death trap of a house. We should now ban all builders from ever building a house.

give me strength!

And how many baby boys have to die before enough is enough? One is too many in my book. If someone said I had to allow someone to cut off my DS's foreskin without anesthetic I wouldn't be responsible for my actions. My little boy is perfectly clean, I make sure of it! He was born with a hydrocele and even then they rarely operate on those.

Fluufer · 24/01/2025 17:33

Zebedee999 · 24/01/2025 17:32

The thread developed and has covered male and female circumcision as well as the rights of the child.
Childish to suggest my not wanting FGM in this country is xenophobic. It's done to 100% of girls in large parts of the world and done in the UK now too despite it being illegal. Such is the problem there is even a court set up to handle FGM cases. Why you consider it xenophobic NOT to want this practice in the UK is beyond me, I don't want it here. What's your reason for not being bothered by it?

Well you couldn't read a graph title properly, I obviously couldn't assume you had anything close to an educated opinion.

MonkeyToHeaven · 24/01/2025 17:34

AliasGrace47 · 24/01/2025 17:31

I read in a Gloria Steinem book that circumcision can increase sensitivity by exposing more of the sensitive area. She overall stated that, while not comparable to FGM, it's mainly an act of submission to a patriarchal God. I think I agree- but does anyone agree about the possible increased sensation? I stil think any benefits are not worth infant circumcision.

It's the opposite. It decreases sensitivity, like walking barefoot toughens up your feet.

shuggles · 24/01/2025 17:34

@MrsPeregrine By that reasoning then let’s also ban ear piercing on babies and young children then

Well yes, lots of people would support that ban because a child can't consent to a piercing. It makes no sense to subject a child to potential risks for no benefit.

And it’s much easier to keep clean down there because there’s less area for bacteria to accumulate and multiply.

Penis is literally the easiest part of the body to clean because of where it is positioned.

From that comment, it looks like you don't think too highly of men's ability to keep themselves clean, and it would also make me question how the men in your life are able to clean the parts of their body which are much more challenging to clean.

speakout · 24/01/2025 17:34

I agree it should be criminalised.

My DD is a paediatric nurse, circumcision is performed and paid for by NHS.

Religion is responsible for so many hideous acts.

shuggles · 24/01/2025 17:35

@AliasGrace47 I read in a Gloria Steinem book that circumcision can increase sensitivity by exposing more of the sensitive area.

It sounds like you and Gloria Steinem both have very limited knowledge of male anatomy.

SapphireSeptember · 24/01/2025 17:37

Simone9 · 24/01/2025 17:02

As someone whose child has to undergo potentially life saving surgery when very young, I really struggle with this unnecessary mutilation of a perfect newborn/infant. I will never forget my eldest needing a cannula put in his hand as a newborn: that was horrendous enough to put him thorough although, again, medically necessary.

Feel you on that. They couldn't get a cannula in DS's hand so he had one in his foot and a feeding tube because he wasn't eating. They took him off to the SCBU when he was two days old. He's alright now but that was tough and I was so scared for my little boy.

Namechangedforgoodreasons · 24/01/2025 17:37

Icanttakethisanymore · 24/01/2025 15:12

In what way do you consider them different?

FGM frequently causes long-lasting problems with bleeding, pain, urinary problems and loss of sexual pleasure.
Circumcision doesn’t.

TheLargestToblerone · 24/01/2025 17:37

torkandgrunt · 24/01/2025 17:08

I was circumcised within days of being born. Our family doctor was adamant that the foreskin served no useful purpose, and increased the possibility of infection.
In later years, I was happy with having been circumcised and always flinched at the idea of a penis that was "uncut."
I will have to reread this thread to see if there are posts from women who express any preference either way in respect of partners

It's pretty gross that the thing that occurs to you on a thread about the mutilation of infants is whether or not women might want to touch your dick ffs.

ArabellaScott · 24/01/2025 17:38

GildedRage · 24/01/2025 17:24

@Zebedee999 please note that the WHO recommends adult voluntary circumcision in africa to prevent HIV and other serious sexually transmitted diseases.

Astonishingly, this is true.

https://www.who.int/teams/global-hiv-hepatitis-and-stis-programmes/hiv/prevention/voluntary-medical-male-circumcision

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swimsong · 24/01/2025 17:41

Runnersandtoms · 24/01/2025 15:19

Although I agree circumcision shouldn't be allowed apart from for health reasons, male circumcision doesn't cause any issues going forward once healed eg pain, sexual dysfunction etc. FGM can make sex impossible or impossibly painful and cause severe and dangerous lifelong consequences for girls and women, aside from the dangers of infection and extreme pain at the time.

There's an established loss of sensitivity, which I think explains the American obsession with anal sex. And then there's the need to use lube for satisfactory masturbation.

Simonjt · 24/01/2025 17:43

Namechangedforgoodreasons · 24/01/2025 17:37

FGM frequently causes long-lasting problems with bleeding, pain, urinary problems and loss of sexual pleasure.
Circumcision doesn’t.

Common life long problems with circumcision, reduced sensation, burning pain due to too much skin being removed, pain during erections that lead to erectile disfunction. Inclusion cysts, urinary problems due to the urethra being permanently damaged. Bleeding, infection and death.

knitnerd90 · 24/01/2025 17:43

As for profit in the US health care system -- perhaps at one time but not so much anymore. One way rates have dropped is if Medicaid stops covering it. The rates dropped in Canada when provincial plans stopped paying. (This has much less effect on religious circumcision as it's not done within the health system.)

The major driver in the US today is parental preference and whether the father is circumcised or not. You can see this even more strongly by regional trends. Circumcision is higher in the South and Midwest, low in the West (under 25%) and in the middle in the Northeast. States with high immigration, especially Latino (see: Texas and Florida) have lower rates. I would not say circumcision is dying, but the trend is absolutely downwards.

ArabellaScott · 24/01/2025 17:45

MrsPeregrine · 24/01/2025 17:12

By that reasoning then let’s also ban ear piercing on babies and young children then 🙄 FWIW I remember my brother had to have it done as a young child because his foreskin was too tight. My husband had to have it done as a teen, for the same reason. He soon got over the procedure. And it’s much easier to keep clean down there because there’s less area for bacteria to accumulate and multiply.

I agree that ear piercing in babies/children should be banned, yes.

Note that almost everyone here has said they are discussing circumcision that is medically unnecessary.

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Zebedee999 · 24/01/2025 17:45

Fluufer · 24/01/2025 17:33

Well you couldn't read a graph title properly, I obviously couldn't assume you had anything close to an educated opinion.

Here's the FGM graph, shocking imo. As I said it's happening in the UK nowadays and we have a court dedicated to dealing with it. Unlikely to stop it here when some migrants come from countries where 100% of girls experience it. Why import a problem we never used to have?

Circumcision should be banned.
mitogoshigg · 24/01/2025 17:45

I gave birth in the USA and you can request circumcision as part of the newborn health checks. I had a daughter so irrelevant and bring British it would have been a no but the leaflets cited hygiene and protection against certain conditions

Namechangedforgoodreasons · 24/01/2025 17:46

Simonjt · 24/01/2025 17:43

Common life long problems with circumcision, reduced sensation, burning pain due to too much skin being removed, pain during erections that lead to erectile disfunction. Inclusion cysts, urinary problems due to the urethra being permanently damaged. Bleeding, infection and death.

Not common at all.

ArabellaScott · 24/01/2025 17:46

Zebedee999 · 24/01/2025 17:45

Here's the FGM graph, shocking imo. As I said it's happening in the UK nowadays and we have a court dedicated to dealing with it. Unlikely to stop it here when some migrants come from countries where 100% of girls experience it. Why import a problem we never used to have?

These girls will be at risk whether they are in the UK or Africa, stopping migration isn't going to help them. In fact they may have a better chance of escaping in a country where its illegal.

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ditalini · 24/01/2025 17:46

shuggles · 24/01/2025 17:35

@AliasGrace47 I read in a Gloria Steinem book that circumcision can increase sensitivity by exposing more of the sensitive area.

It sounds like you and Gloria Steinem both have very limited knowledge of male anatomy.

If men want to get this amazing sensitivity that Gloria's suggesting, there's nothing stopping them paying to have their foreskin lopped when they're old enough to consent to other modifications such as a genital piercing or a tattoo.

Equally, if men think it's worth getting their foreskin lopped to lower their risk of HIV, they can pay to have it removed when they're old enough. With the advantage that they'll also be old enough to consult with the doctor re: how much they want removed.

If a man wants to show his commitment to the covenant with his deity he can pay to do so when he's old enough to consent to such a radical procedure. Arguably it would be a more valuable sacrifice since it would be freely given rather than taken.

swimsong · 24/01/2025 17:47

torkandgrunt · 24/01/2025 17:08

I was circumcised within days of being born. Our family doctor was adamant that the foreskin served no useful purpose, and increased the possibility of infection.
In later years, I was happy with having been circumcised and always flinched at the idea of a penis that was "uncut."
I will have to reread this thread to see if there are posts from women who express any preference either way in respect of partners

Aesthetics are wholly inappropriate to this discussion.

Simonjt · 24/01/2025 17:47

Namechangedforgoodreasons · 24/01/2025 17:46

Not common at all.

I’m impressed that you know better than the medical community.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/01/2025 17:49

Zebedee999 · 24/01/2025 17:45

Here's the FGM graph, shocking imo. As I said it's happening in the UK nowadays and we have a court dedicated to dealing with it. Unlikely to stop it here when some migrants come from countries where 100% of girls experience it. Why import a problem we never used to have?

I don't think there's any evidence that the practice is spreading to other cultures in the UK. The daughters of immigrants to the UK are simply at risk in the UK the same way they would be at risk in their parents' country of origin. We haven't imported a problem. We've just said we aren't going to turn a blind eye to this barbaric practice just because little girls from certain immigrant communities are the only victims.

swimsong · 24/01/2025 17:49

Whereas encouraging condom use instead protects both men and women.

Icanttakethisanymore · 24/01/2025 17:50

Namechangedforgoodreasons · 24/01/2025 17:37

FGM frequently causes long-lasting problems with bleeding, pain, urinary problems and loss of sexual pleasure.
Circumcision doesn’t.

So on a practical basis the outcome might be different for most (but not all) recipients. I say not all because, although I appreciate it’s rare, some men do suffer life long complications due to circumcision. Are they morally so different though? Given in both cases there is zero benefit to the person the procedure is inflicted upon?

ArabellaScott · 24/01/2025 17:51

swimsong · 24/01/2025 17:49

Whereas encouraging condom use instead protects both men and women.

And protects against unwanted pregnancy and other STDs.

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