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To tell my sister she's mad for naming her daughter this?

334 replies

lettingsitallbeagain · 23/01/2025 20:19

First baby. The name is a word. A word you would use to describe a very pleasurable feeling. No, not orgasm, before anyone says it!

It's absurd and I think someone should tell her. AIBU to say 'sorry, but it's ridiculous. You need to choose something else'.

My mum is all very supportive and says 'well, sometimes we don't like names. Then can't imagine them as anything else'

I think this is an exception.

May as well tell you the name actually, as my sister isn't going to be on MN! The name is Euphoria

She wants to call her Ewie for short, the nickname our late dad went by (he was an Ewan)

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Bamboogie · 23/01/2025 20:43

CowBuoy · 23/01/2025 20:42

Ewie is also quite baaaaad

At least the sister isn't a sheep, calling her child something in the top ten.

MrsJHernandez · 23/01/2025 20:44

It's a hideous and chavvy name, but your mum is right. It's not your place to say anything.

It's a good job she's locked down a nickname, people would have called her Euph lol. Ria makes sense when she's older.

lettingsitallbeagain · 23/01/2025 20:44

BabyFever246 · 23/01/2025 20:43

Start singing the song from eurovision top of your lungs every time she the name is said. You may find she changes it.

Oh dear, I am to blame then I think Blush she use to love the name Victoria at the beginning of the pregnancy... I couldn't help but sing 'Victoriaaa!' From the Victoria plumb ad Grin

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Nodlikeyouwerelistening · 23/01/2025 20:44

Am I missing something? It really isn’t that bad. It’s just another virtuous name like Joy, Faith, Hope, Harmony, Verity.
It’s a little unusual and not my cup of tea, but it way less “out there” than half of the names you hear these days.
Ultimately it’s none of your business and your mum is right. It’s not like she’s calling her something offensive so you really need to button it.

CowBuoy · 23/01/2025 20:44

Bamboogie · 23/01/2025 20:43

At least the sister isn't a sheep, calling her child something in the top ten.

Ewe have a point

WellsAndThistles · 23/01/2025 20:44

Up to the parents but poor child....

Maybe start a savings fund and you can help with therapy bills in the future?

Cremeeggtime · 23/01/2025 20:44

Good grief OP, you may as well post her postcode you've given so much personal info about her in your posts.

TheBunyip · 23/01/2025 20:44

As an ageing raver I wholly support this idea

PinkyFlamingo · 23/01/2025 20:45

ToKittyornottoKitty · 23/01/2025 20:21

Yeah YABU to think you can inform her ‘you need to choose something else’. No matter how stupid the name is it’s not your baby, not your choice. Try supporting your sister instead

How would you "support," get, lie and say it's a lovely name,? It's awful.

WhisperingCorridors · 23/01/2025 20:45

Ponoka7 · 23/01/2025 20:30

I like the nickname, including Ria later on. I mix in African circles, though, so these names don't seem strange to me.

I knew a Victoria, whose parents had nn'd her Ria. At school she was always called Ria End.

I heard when we left school she'd insisted on being called Vicky.

Axelotl · 23/01/2025 20:46

lettingsitallbeagain · 23/01/2025 20:19

First baby. The name is a word. A word you would use to describe a very pleasurable feeling. No, not orgasm, before anyone says it!

It's absurd and I think someone should tell her. AIBU to say 'sorry, but it's ridiculous. You need to choose something else'.

My mum is all very supportive and says 'well, sometimes we don't like names. Then can't imagine them as anything else'

I think this is an exception.

May as well tell you the name actually, as my sister isn't going to be on MN! The name is Euphoria

She wants to call her Ewie for short, the nickname our late dad went by (he was an Ewan)

Nooo there's so many nice similar names.
Ephemera
Elphaba
Alethea
Euphemia
Esmerelda
Emerald

Cocothecoconut · 23/01/2025 20:46

Ask her how her daughter as a teenager / adult ( porn star) will feel with a name like that
utterly ridiculous

Isthissleepthingworking · 23/01/2025 20:46

Euphegenia?

As in ‘Euphengenia Doutbfire dear’

MileyPsoriasis · 23/01/2025 20:46

You go ahead and upset your sister with your smugness about her dds name OP. And when you've caused a rift and possibly alienated her, you can come back and tell us all about it.
Or how about you dont, just keep your nose out and your opinions to yourself. Honestly.

GRCP · 23/01/2025 20:47

I actually really like it.

Saz12 · 23/01/2025 20:47

I quite like it, and usually prefer traditional names.

My first was meant to be Alice. So I sang "who the fuck is Alice" repeatedly in recovery room (morphine had been administered, copiously).

Hwi · 23/01/2025 20:47

Idiocy like that is only ever OK if you have a few dozen million to this name - like Apple Paltrow or Fifi Trixibelle whatever. People on normal salaries should be merciful to their children.

SnidelyWhiplash · 23/01/2025 20:48

I don’t believe you. No-one’s that stupid.

ThinWomansBrain · 23/01/2025 20:48

No offence, but Ewie sounds worse

Loub1987 · 23/01/2025 20:48

I don’t think it’s that bad really. The nickname is cute as well.

Names such as Gloria, Joy, Hope, Prudence are hardly that different.

Plus, her baby, her choice.

Leavesandacorns · 23/01/2025 20:49

I quite like it and I don't usually go for unusual names. Regardless, it's not your place to tell your sister to choose something else Hmm.

oakleaffy · 23/01/2025 20:49

@lettingsitallbeagain Euphoria is a rather silly name.

It leaves the kid open to being the butt of many jokes, especially when she's a grumpy menopausal woman- She will detest it.

Fine when one is young and pretty and wafting about- less appropriate when one is older.

Jk987 · 23/01/2025 20:50

I'm not so keen. It's what happens when you're high on drugs.

Spirallingdownwards · 23/01/2025 20:51

Euphoria is the Tv show about drug addicts etc

Perhaps remind her of that association.

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 23/01/2025 20:51

@lettingsitallbeagain I know that there is a girl in essex goes by the name of chlamydia!! her mother was very young and didnt get the ramifications! thought it sounded floral!

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