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Killer claims to be ill

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Galatine · 23/01/2025 12:09

According to the BBC Axel Rudakubana is shouting in court that he is ill.
AIBU to say I couldn’t give a shit!

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EasternStandard · 23/01/2025 20:39

I am not even vaguely qualified to question the decision of a judge who has had many many years of training and experience and studying the law. He also knows far far more about the specifics of this case than I do.

And yet you did. But I agree he does know far far more and has years of training,

Reugny · 23/01/2025 20:41

MrsSchrute · 23/01/2025 20:38

Because we don't live in Norway!

In my opinion long sentences are not an effective deterrent, and I think the arguments for hugely decreasing the size of the prison estate are very compelling. However that is getting off topic.

I am not even vaguely qualified to question the decision of a judge who has had many many years of training and experience and studying the law. He also knows far far more about the specifics of this case than I do. L

It isn't a deterrent it is to keep us, society, safe from someone like him.

When he gets out in his seventies - if he's lucky and hasn't died in prison - he should be too old to go on a rampage.

MrsSchrute · 23/01/2025 20:41

EasternStandard · 23/01/2025 20:39

I am not even vaguely qualified to question the decision of a judge who has had many many years of training and experience and studying the law. He also knows far far more about the specifics of this case than I do.

And yet you did. But I agree he does know far far more and has years of training,

Where did I question his decision?

MrsSchrute · 23/01/2025 20:43

Reugny · 23/01/2025 20:41

It isn't a deterrent it is to keep us, society, safe from someone like him.

When he gets out in his seventies - if he's lucky and hasn't died in prison - he should be too old to go on a rampage.

But there is little evidence that longer sentences keep society any safer.
Remember the sentence in most cases is the minimum someone will serve in prison, not the date they will be released.

hazelnutvanillalatte · 23/01/2025 20:43

Tittat50 · 23/01/2025 20:33

That's tricky. That is also quite simplistic. This to me rules out alot of terrifying people who are quite clearly disordered in their thinking! Many of them know right from wrong practically but just do not feel it, understand it or relate to it.

This kid feels nothing, that is so obvious. That's not typical and I don't care what happened in court.

It is just the legal/criminal definition. It doesn't mean the person is 'normal'. But it is used to separate psychosis, which is treatable and which the person is not at fault for, from personality disorders or other issues.

JessiesJ99 · 23/01/2025 20:44

Reugny · 23/01/2025 20:37

Those places were used to lock up sane women for not adhering to society's standards at the time.

Yes, my great grandmother spent many years in a mental asylum (infact she was there for many years until she died). She was a Romany Gypsy woman with lots of kids by different men (they were all put in care).

Off topic I know and she certainly wasn't middle or upper class & the hospital didn't look like that 😅

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 23/01/2025 20:45

Long sentences aren't supposed to be a deterrent. It's to keep those people away from law abiding citizens. If more prisons have to be built, so be it.

Totallymessed · 23/01/2025 20:45

Reugny · 23/01/2025 20:33

Before I came here I read a newspaper article that stated his parents called the police four times within a six month period two years before the attack.

Unfortunately I know both adults who have been a caught up in the mental health system and people who work in it, it is a fucking joke. The police can do their job and contact the relevant agencies but it goes nowhere.

It seems the media still aren't being clear about what happened - I've seen the claim that his parents called the police multiple times, but also claims that it was social services who called the police after going to his home and not feeling safe around him.

Tittat50 · 23/01/2025 20:46

Reugny · 23/01/2025 20:38

How do you know?

There was no psychiatric assessment of him.

And be grateful he didn't end up in one of the prison mental hospitals.

He does. You only need read a few bits and look at his behaviour.

Do you think a typically minded person could do what he did and behave in court the way he did because he had awful parents and was a bit angry?

He displays a complete absence of empathy. His behaviour in court also points to that. There is no comprehension of the emotional impact of what he's done. I wonder what the psychiatric assessment covered beyond the realms of are you criminally insane.

Tittat50 · 23/01/2025 20:47

JessiesJ99 · 23/01/2025 20:44

Yes, my great grandmother spent many years in a mental asylum (infact she was there for many years until she died). She was a Romany Gypsy woman with lots of kids by different men (they were all put in care).

Off topic I know and she certainly wasn't middle or upper class & the hospital didn't look like that 😅

If we still had mental asylums they would have put me in one a long time ago! And not for being mentally ill. Definitely terrifying. No easy answers to all this which makes it so distressing.

Allihavetodoisdream · 23/01/2025 20:49

Tittat50 · 23/01/2025 20:13

Yes totally agree. That's why I felt his Autism diagnosis was relevant. But what support for that and co occurring MH issues and/or disordered personality there was, little I doubt. What could they have offered even with all the resources that are currently lacking? Maybe not very much.

I expect we will find out from the inquiry if there was a CAMHS referral. I expect there probably was. I think this case is going to really highlight multiple failings of services. That is not to remotely exonerate him. But it’s important to look at because if things could have been done better those little girls would still be alive.

MJconfessions · 23/01/2025 20:49

I dunno, I suppose to a certain extent people like this are deviant. There is something mentally abnormal about them. Whether that crosses the line into mental illness is another question I suppose.

LunaTheCat · 23/01/2025 20:50

MaryWhitehouseExperienced · 23/01/2025 13:06

I really don't want to read about this young madman. I want to read about the children and their families, and their recovering community.

Absolutely this.

devastatedagain · 23/01/2025 20:50

I don't think i've ever seen such an ugly person.

EasternStandard · 23/01/2025 20:50

@Tittat50 why push that narrative when there's no psych report to back it up?

It's not useful to spread false information

MrsSchrute · 23/01/2025 20:50

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 23/01/2025 20:45

Long sentences aren't supposed to be a deterrent. It's to keep those people away from law abiding citizens. If more prisons have to be built, so be it.

But virtually everyone in prison now will be released one day, and could be your neighbour.
Isn't it better, and cheaper, to focus on preparing people for release, rather than building more and more prisons and leaving people to rot?

missionchub · 23/01/2025 20:50

@Reugny
The lack of empathy for the victims parents is screaming here. What is wrong with attempting to force, temporarily, without any bodily harm, someone to hear the words spoken from his victims survivors, and the judge passing his sentence.

If that took a brief mouth gag, then I really don't see how your liberal heart could be offended. He's not harmed in the process, and the real focus of the judicial process, the victims and families, could speak their pain and maybe move on. He could hear exactly why he is receiving the sentence he has.

I don't support capital punishment. I don't support vigilante violence in prisons. I support convicted violent offenders hearing the result of their horrible actions. Because quite often, it's maybe exactly the thing they need to hear and there is a psychological reason they fight it. If you're so far on the left you think rehabilitation is always possible, then hearing the impact of their crimes is the start.

EasternStandard · 23/01/2025 20:51

@MrsSchrute it's doubtful he will be released. Good

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 23/01/2025 20:51

MrsSchrute · 23/01/2025 20:50

But virtually everyone in prison now will be released one day, and could be your neighbour.
Isn't it better, and cheaper, to focus on preparing people for release, rather than building more and more prisons and leaving people to rot?

Yeah, they should work in tandem. Rehabilitation is the preferred outcome obviously. I didn’t say they should be left to rot. Some people however can’t be rehabilitated. I work in criminal justice btw.

Username056 · 23/01/2025 20:54

It upset me today when Sky News put up photos of the three little girls with his face next to them on the screen. I felt absolutely sickened that they could do that.

maxplanck · 23/01/2025 20:54

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 23/01/2025 20:45

Long sentences aren't supposed to be a deterrent. It's to keep those people away from law abiding citizens. If more prisons have to be built, so be it.

Fair enough but no one wants a high security prison building nearby because of the effect on house prices. The government are trying to build a new one in Lancashire but there’s a lot of local resistance.

Tittat50 · 23/01/2025 20:54

EasternStandard · 23/01/2025 20:50

@Tittat50 why push that narrative when there's no psych report to back it up?

It's not useful to spread false information

You are completely right in that there is no evidence to support anything I've said at all. I don't believe for one minute this kid is completely typical minded. Questioning this, rightly so, is completely fine.

If I were spreading a narrative such as ' this guy is a Muslim and immigrant and should be deported ' I understand why one would be concerned with such a false narrative and that should be shut down.

No matter what is going on with this kid ( and I'll stand by the reality he is not typical like most of us) he's been locked away, as he should.

Totallymessed · 23/01/2025 20:55

MrsSchrute · 23/01/2025 20:50

But virtually everyone in prison now will be released one day, and could be your neighbour.
Isn't it better, and cheaper, to focus on preparing people for release, rather than building more and more prisons and leaving people to rot?

Well, this thread is about AR, and I very much hope he dies in prison. (Not saying I hope he is murdered by another prisoner, before you accuse me of really being no better than him).

I don't really see any point in trying to rehabilitate him tbh, I suspect he would use any attempt to engage him in therapy as an opportunity to manipulate and cause distress to the HCPs involved.

the80sweregreat · 23/01/2025 20:55

I can never see the point of enquires because it's generally more money to tell us about lack of joined up thinking and failings by everyone from the parcel delivery company for the weapons he was able to obtain right up to the authorities and the police. It's the same old same old time and again and the same old ' lessons will be learnt '
They never are it seems.

Owl55 · 23/01/2025 20:55

How can people blame his parents , we don’t know if they had sought help for this killer , he’d been investigated 3 times by Prevent , been referred to various other agencies and had lots of intervention by police so we don’t know they didn’t instigate these referrals , their lives have been blighted too by his actions maybe because I had a sibling with schizophrenia, there were times when he desperately needed to be admitted to hospital for his own safety as he was hearing voices , it was always really hard to get admitted despite family trying their best to get him help, the help wasn’t there hopefully many years later other families won’t face that now but sadly I think they probably do😰

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