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Killer claims to be ill

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Galatine · 23/01/2025 12:09

According to the BBC Axel Rudakubana is shouting in court that he is ill.
AIBU to say I couldn’t give a shit!

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Tittat50 · 23/01/2025 18:30

Totallymessed · 23/01/2025 18:19

I mean I agree, obviously this person's behaviour was at the extreme of deliberate, sadistic brutality. But I think just defining any crime that we find disturbing and impossible to comprehend as meaning that the offender must be ill, as understandable but simply avoiding facing the fact that sane human beings can occasionally do the most hideous, atrocious things.

I also think it's deeply offensive to people who do suffer from mental illnesses.

It isn't deeply offensive at all. One would query something like schizophrenia in cases like this, knowing that many many people are living with schizophrenia and wouldn't harm anyone.

Mental illness is not sufficient enough a term. Psychopathy does not fall within the definition of mental illness. I'd define someone at an extreme end of psychopathy who could behave in a way devoid of emotion and empathy as very ill.

There is something else going on with this kid.

Maddy70 · 23/01/2025 18:30

Tbf he's definitely mentally ill. No sane person would act that way

missionchub · 23/01/2025 18:31

IVFmumoftwo · 23/01/2025 16:02

Actually failure to report is a crime. Pretty sure the parents of a school shooter have also been jailed in America.

They have. Ethan Crumbley, the school shooter himself, and both his parents convicted. It was the first conviction of parents in America for their culpability in allowing it to happen (access to weapons, failure to support, negligence etc). I watched the whole case because it was such a landmark in American law trying to find ways to address the root causes of these shootings and prevent them from happening. In that case there were numerous extremely concerning red flags that were ignored; I believe the school is also being pursued civilly by the parents, but perhaps should have been a test case for criminal negligence.

Weepixie · 23/01/2025 18:32

YoureNotGoingOutLikeThat · 23/01/2025 17:55

We haven't had a statement saying that he has been assessed, I don't think. Most assessments have to have some level of engagement and maybe the assessor (presumably psychiatrist) did not feel able to carry out an assessment if non-engaging?

I think it would be useful to know if he has had an attempted assessment and if it was abandoned.

I suspect that even if he has had assessments done they’ve been done very quickly and weren’t thorough due to the short time that’s gone by. I fully expect that over the course of the next few years more will come to light regarding this individuals state of mind.

fashionqueen0123 · 23/01/2025 18:34

Tittat50 · 23/01/2025 18:14

Another poster just gave a great explanation. There are disordered personality types such as psychopathy. That is not a defined mental illness believe it or not. It would be defined as a disordered personality type is my understanding.

If you look at Dahmer and what he did. Completely deranged with a complete absence of empathy that would be suggestive of psychopathy. What treatment is there for that? I don't think there is one!

Might it be useful to know. I'd say it would.

Does psychopathy fall under insane in some cases? I have no idea how they determine that. But we know in the case of say Dahmer the default typical human cannot do what he did. That's more than just being evil.

I think the guy needs to be removed permanently from society and never returned. It's interesting for us to understand what went on here.

I wonder why ‘disordered personality types’ aren’t included! They don’t seem normal?

KookyLemonSquid · 23/01/2025 18:35

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Thegoatliesdownonbroadway · 23/01/2025 18:37

SidekickSylvia · 23/01/2025 18:25

Japan is a homogeneous country, which is generally more successful altogether. They need to improve their birth rate though.

They do have the death penalty. It's horrendous, the convict is only told a few hours before that today is his last day.

Growsomeballswoman · 23/01/2025 18:37

Injected with his own homemade poison.

Totallymessed · 23/01/2025 18:38

SidekickSylvia · 23/01/2025 18:25

Japan is a homogeneous country, which is generally more successful altogether. They need to improve their birth rate though.

I think that poster meant that Japan is a civilised country that does have the death penalty.

Thegoatliesdownonbroadway · 23/01/2025 18:38

Growsomeballswoman · 23/01/2025 18:37

Injected with his own homemade poison.

And the prize for post of the day goes to ...... Growsomeballswoman

JHound · 23/01/2025 18:40

missionchub · 23/01/2025 18:31

They have. Ethan Crumbley, the school shooter himself, and both his parents convicted. It was the first conviction of parents in America for their culpability in allowing it to happen (access to weapons, failure to support, negligence etc). I watched the whole case because it was such a landmark in American law trying to find ways to address the root causes of these shootings and prevent them from happening. In that case there were numerous extremely concerning red flags that were ignored; I believe the school is also being pursued civilly by the parents, but perhaps should have been a test case for criminal negligence.

They were not convicted for failing to report a crime.

They were found guilty of involuntary manslaughter due to not only being aware of his mental state, but proceeding to buy him a gun while being fully aware he was a danger:

”Prosecutors had alleged that the pair had dismissed clear signs that their son's mental health had deteriorated, and noted that the parents had bought Ethan Crumbley the gun he used in the 2021 attack.”

JHound · 23/01/2025 18:42

IVFmumoftwo · 23/01/2025 16:02

Actually failure to report is a crime. Pretty sure the parents of a school shooter have also been jailed in America.

This is not true.

Telling the police
If you witness a crime you have a vital role to play in bringing the criminals to justice.
If you witness a crime you have a vital role to play in bringing the criminals to justice. You may well be feeling upset and have doubts about reporting what you have seen. There is no legal obligation to contact the police, but the information you give them could bring a criminal to justice. Reporting the crime to the police could prevent further crimes being committed and protect others from becoming victims.

www.cps.gov.uk/reporting-crime#:~:text=There%20is%20no%20legal%20obligation,protect%20others%20from%20becoming%20victims.

TinklySnail · 23/01/2025 18:42

ByGreenBiscuit · 23/01/2025 18:28

I agree that mental health services have declined but I also think there’s a limit to what they can do. When someone has this potential evil in them, I don’t think it’s the states responsibility or within its power to fix that. I’m sure he was racially bullied and had a hard time of it at school, but don’t many people? Usually it resulfs in poor self esteem, self harm, the usual. He is just warped.

and I really think this shows the danger or having so much violent content available to us every day. It inspires evil and scares the shit out of the rest of us. I really think the internet has made this all worse.

Unfortunately it’s not possible to prevent murders. There will always be evil people who have no qualms about doing evil things.
The internet has a lot to answer. It should be easy to fact find and learn ‘the truth’ but it’s just doesn’t seem to work.
So much misinformation and propaganda it’s no surprise the world is screwed.
It was so much simpler pre internet.

Waterbaby41 · 23/01/2025 18:42

Very worrying that 7% have said you are BU.

EasternStandard · 23/01/2025 18:43

Maddy70 · 23/01/2025 18:30

Tbf he's definitely mentally ill. No sane person would act that way

I take it you didn't listen to the judge summing up

Totallymessed · 23/01/2025 18:43

Tittat50 · 23/01/2025 18:30

It isn't deeply offensive at all. One would query something like schizophrenia in cases like this, knowing that many many people are living with schizophrenia and wouldn't harm anyone.

Mental illness is not sufficient enough a term. Psychopathy does not fall within the definition of mental illness. I'd define someone at an extreme end of psychopathy who could behave in a way devoid of emotion and empathy as very ill.

There is something else going on with this kid.

None of that means he isn't sane. You can't deal with the idea that he is, and it's easier and more comforting to see him as somehow mentally disordered. But even his own defence said there is no evidence of that.

Tittat50 · 23/01/2025 18:44

fashionqueen0123 · 23/01/2025 18:34

I wonder why ‘disordered personality types’ aren’t included! They don’t seem normal?

I'll have to go find the post. The explanation was very good. There are probably alot of disordered personality types in society who would not be on the end of the scale that would enable them to kill like this with no emotion. They say many successful business owners and politicians ( Trump) have many signs of a disordered personality such as psychopathy or sociopathy.

You couldn't realistically manage everyone who was identified as such and many would not pose risk.

In this case there were concerning behaviours out of the ordinary. There is not sufficient provision for any out of the ordinary behaviours with kids. So that's the first problem. If the services ( such ad Tier 3 support) were available I don't know if you could medicate this away! I don't think you can. That does kind of re enforce the point that some people are just evil and not subject to a treatable condition. I call someone like this, like Dahmer very ill, but as say sociopaths or psychopaths, there's no treatable disease to attribute the word ill to.

AllesAusLiebe · 23/01/2025 18:45

KittenPause · 23/01/2025 18:19

The parents were out of their depth desperately knowing their son was capable of such horrors but with no way of stopping it

Because he hadn't yet committed such a crime other than threats then no one did anything to stop somthing like this from happening

The parents tried by the sounds of it but their hands were tied.

Imagine living with a son like Axel knowing the worst can and will happen but no one will help you prevent it

Have I missed something? Did the father inform the police when he prevented his son from getting in a taxi en route to massacre innocent people?

What's the defence re the weapons under his bed and ricin in his bedroom? They failed to notice that too, I guess...

JHound · 23/01/2025 18:46

MaggieMistletoe · 23/01/2025 18:24

His parents should be deported back to Rwanda. The genocide they claimed to be fleeing from was over years and years ago. No doubt they are being protected via the taxpayer though.

Why would they be deported? They have been settled in the country for almost two decades. Why do you assume they are being protected via the taxpayer? They just seem to be living and working like any other Briton.

JHound · 23/01/2025 18:48

AllesAusLiebe · 23/01/2025 18:45

Have I missed something? Did the father inform the police when he prevented his son from getting in a taxi en route to massacre innocent people?

What's the defence re the weapons under his bed and ricin in his bedroom? They failed to notice that too, I guess...

Unless they regularly searched his room why would they notice?

And as for not telling the police about them stopping his first attack maybe they thought that was the end of it? The parents have committed no crime.

Pigsinblankets13 · 23/01/2025 18:48

He should just be hung the evil bastard

Totallymessed · 23/01/2025 18:52

JHound · 23/01/2025 18:48

Unless they regularly searched his room why would they notice?

And as for not telling the police about them stopping his first attack maybe they thought that was the end of it? The parents have committed no crime.

To be fair, they may have done. I would hope their actions are looked into closely, but I doubt that will happen. I doubt they'll be charged with anything, anyway. Far easier to not look too closely.

IVFmumoftwo · 23/01/2025 18:52

Maddy70 · 23/01/2025 18:30

Tbf he's definitely mentally ill. No sane person would act that way

Stabbing a six year old 122 times. Definitely. That made me feel sick.

JHound · 23/01/2025 18:52

OonaStubbs · 23/01/2025 18:07

Japan is a civilised country that does not have the death penalty. They also have a lot less crime than we do.

Not sure that has anything to do with it. Norway does not have the death penalty and less violent crime than us.

The USA has the death penalty and far more violent crime than us.

Bumdrops · 23/01/2025 18:52

Whiteskies · 23/01/2025 13:17

He is not mad though. He had capacity and rejoiced when the specific plans he made worked. He has grown up in the UK and he is used to being indulged about his behavior. He was reported to Prevent three times. He was permanently excluded from one school and refused to attend the next school. He was completely aware of his rights. It will be a big shock to him that our society refuses to indulge his behaviour any more.
His next trick will be to claim that because Prevent did not step in and help him, they allowed him to behave in a violent way. Therefore, he will claim that the blame does not lie with him but with others.
He is already refusing to listen and to acknowledge what he did.

I agree
not Mad
he’s BAD
fucking evil narcissist

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