He says 'most women would just laugh', I think he's delusional. Settle a debate please

[TheFairSheep]

Hi all. I paid for my boyfriend to get a tattoo yesterday as a gift as he has wanted one for a while. I saw these messages earlier of a conversation he had with a friend whilst getting the tattoo. I was (I believe) rightfully disgusted and annoyed. He says it was just banter and 'lads being lads'. He apologised but added that most women in relationships would just laugh if they saw those messages and maybe be a little annoyed but I'm overreacting.

We live together and I am pregnant. Am I being unreasonable here? (His friend asked who was doing his tattoo, he sent the screenshot. I have blanked out her details for privacy).

There is no female friend. It’s a female tattooist being discussed by some not particularly literate men.

Honestly OP, where did you find him? In a gutter?

Throw him back and find a man who's worth the air he breathes.

*Just what I thought but what else can realistically be expected from a chap who wants a tattoo and has a partner willing to buy one for him - for his birthday? It is just too tacky and chavvy for words.

Op, why on earth are you pregnant with this person?*

Nobody is more disgusted than me, but I actually find this shitty reply completely unhelpful to the OP.

How old are you both?

Bleugh.

Depending on how far along I was I'd be seriously reconsidering allowing this scummy illiterate lout to breed.

What a pair of illiterate creeps.

Seeing as you're having a child with an oaf, please don't let him help with Homework when the child is of a school age.

It's absolutely appalling that two grown men would converse like a couple of Fuckwits! ..

His friend actually reminds him of the boundary: “U w ya bird still” as if hinting he has crossed a line.

But instead of stepping back behind the boundary and saying something like “yeah mate she’s pregnant actually” he pushes back and says “she’s not here though”.

He’s a problem and he doesn’t respect you.

I agree, yet another woman stuck with a scummy, ignorant partner now she’s pregnant and he’s showing his true colours.

She doesn’t need to be stuck with him. She can leave.

I would not forgive any of that.

I would dump this waste of oxygen and then show the tattooist the texts. She can choose to embarrass him or ban him from from getting his next artistic illiterate shitty tattoo.

Not any time soon, one hopes.

Mental image of the op's partner and his chum -

Tell me that I'm not the only one ....

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Sexist and illiterate 🤢. I think my lady bits would clamp shut for ever more.

He has massive double standards for men and women.

He jokes about cheating on you with someone you're paying to do something/as a gift for him.

The fact that they somehow think a tattoist is going to give a free blow job or a blowjob at all is ....bizarre. Like they watch too much porn/sexualise everything.

His mate doesn't even know if you're still in a relationship, yet you're pregnant.

I can hardly understand a word on that image.

They both seem illiterate.

I would not find it funny. Its vile. Also, I would not be with someone who types like that. I would not understand whf he is on about, its barely English

God, what a loser. How old is he, 15?! This would give me the ick on a different level and I’d be running for the hills as far away from this illiterate sad sack as fast as my legs could carry me! 🤢

Yeah that's the important part!, 🤣😂

Vile.

No. Never. Not once in 14 years.

This.

I can't believe this is the first sign of what this guy is really like.

OP, this would be unforgivable for me. I don’t think I’d ever forget this exchange, particularly the part about knowing what your parter “is like”, implying that he regularly cheats on you.

Mental image…..

Laughing at the suggestion a female tattoo artist would give blow jobs to her customers is bad enough for me. You think that's OK?