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Brilliant article about the rape gangs in the UK

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Petrine · 08/01/2025 10:07

I’ve put this on AIBU as it appears to be most read. A brilliant article about the rape gangs and the ensuing cover up.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/01/07/elon-musk-has-ripped-cloak-of-deceit-off-britain-scandal/

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 13:51

It was actually Andrew Norfolk.

Actually, before him, there were women.

JustSawJohnny · 08/01/2025 13:53

Sussurations · 08/01/2025 13:43

WTF am I reading on here. Don’t talk about girls being horribly abused, because Elon Musk and Allison Pearson are also talking about it?

Don’t talk about girls being raped and tortured, because it might put people off voting Labour?

Don’t talk about this specific scandal of gangs targeting and raping girls and the authorities shrugging their shoulders about it, because other girls have also been raped by other men, and other girls have also been victims of official callousness and incompetence?

It is possible to be fucking angry about Allison Pearson using these crimes to praise Tommy Robinson and about Elon Musk’s frightening levels of power but also about the horrors these girls went through, and feel deep sorrow for them and admiration for all those who tried to bring this to light. It’s possible to see the victims as human beings and not pawns in some luxury-belief tribal culture war.

It’s possible to be angry that the parade of sacred caste abusers never ends - same shit, different protected caste of abusers - without being racist or ‘far Right’.

It’s absolutely morally bankrupt, a massive own goal, and just really fucking stupid, to try to shut down conversations because you’re so very afraid that the proles might vote the wrong way if people talk about what happened to these girls.

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I think what people are saying is to ACT on it and stop talking. The enquiry is over. Now it's time to make changes.

What's not going to help is allowing external forces, especially those hell bent on stoking hatred and division, to decide how that looks for us.

That narrative should be about the girls who suffered and stopping it from ever happening again, not a man rallying troops for his new favourite alt-right lap dog, Tommy Robinson, who coincidentally has been imprisoned in the past for beating his wife AND turned a blind eye to a paedophile within his own ranks. Hardly a beacon for women's safety!

What we want, surely, is justice for every woman and girl abused by a man/men and change to stop this kind of crime happening in the future? Not to only care about the issue if the scum who abuse women and girls are brown?!!

BusMumsHoliday · 08/01/2025 13:53

Adamante · 08/01/2025 13:41

It was supposedly said by Nazir Afzal, when he was Chief Crown Prosecutor North West England. Details in link. He claimed this is what he was told by multiple police officers. So not exactly “exploded”. It was said and it was the prevailing attitude at the time. Though you’re right there is no evidence to suggest that this was direct Labour Government policy.

uk.news.yahoo.com/fact-check-home-office-memo-143103588.html

The link that you've posted suggests that the phrase and sentiment weren't in any government document from that period. That's pretty "exploded" in my view. Afzal seems to have started a game of telephone - "the police told me that the government said that..."

It was definitely the prevailing attitude - and let's be honest, still is - that teenagers with chaotic lives made their own beds and should lie in them. But this wasn't top down directive. The idea that the police were held back from cracking down on the gangs because of government commitments to multiculturalism - the line of the article and Musk - is rubbish. The police, like almost everyone else, didn't really care about these girls, didn't believe them, and maybe even felt they deserved it.

Winter2020 · 08/01/2025 13:53

HappyPanda613 · 08/01/2025 12:16

Please stop attributing motives to my posts, I really don’t want to be wrongly labelled as someone who doesn’t care about the lives of young girls.

As for my comment about the crimes being years ago, well they are aren’t they? I think I remember someone saying this was way back in 2013, so a lot of time has passed since then, and lessons have been learned.

What hasn’t been learned, evidently, is the true scandal in this country, which is the mass scale of abuse perpetrated by white British men. Apparently shining a spotlight on the demographic who are most likely by far to abuse young girls is too inconvenient for the far right, don’t you think?

If you have evidence that children are going into police stations to report being raped and abused by white British men and being turned away then please report it as that would also be scandalous.

At the moment we are talking about children who were let down by the authorities when being abused by Muslim grooming gangs. If you have something to say about other forms of child exploitation why not start a thread.

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/heartbreaking-case-sophie-12-year-24270662

Sophie, 12, was repeatedly raped hours after police ignored her pleas for help

Authorities failed to properly investigate Sophie's case and she was accused of being ‘prone to fantasise'

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/heartbreaking-case-sophie-12-year-24270662

HappyPanda613 · 08/01/2025 13:54

FOJN · 08/01/2025 13:49

You do not care. You are on another thread claiming that there are no more than 300 victims of historical abuse, it's not true but even if it was is it not enough!

My posting history will reveal that I (and many others) have been warning about the rise of the far right for years. It's a direct response to the lefts sneering contempt for it's working class voter based. When they tried to talk about issues which affected them they were branded stupid and bigoted.

You are reaping what you sow and now you are trying to silence people as if you think it will reverse the trend rather than make it worse. The irony of you thinking you have superior intelligence would be funny if the rest of us didn't have to live with the consequences or your attitude. Slow hand clap for you and thanks a bunch.

Well it appears like these threads will continue to go on regardless, so feel free to continue to rant if you like, both here and on x or wherever it is you get your ‘news’.

But I will say this. Labour will get a handle on social media, and these toxic narratives that have taken the public by storm will be expunged by credible sources with facts and logic. So enjoy the chaos while you can.

ExtraOnions · 08/01/2025 13:54

Vinvertebrate · 08/01/2025 13:06

@ExtraOnions Because multiple authorities did not conspire to cover up, or fail to prosecute, those rapes to spare the hurty feelings of a particular group?

Because no elected MP’s have (so far) urged the victims of those rapes to “shut up in the interests of diversity”?

I’m as enraged about all SA by men as the next feminist, but industrialized rape of children being ignored or covered up at the highest level, in multiple UK cities, is uniquely horrifying.

Really ?? So Jimmy Savile wasn’t protected, Priests weren’t protected? Bishops? Teachers? Residential Home workers ??

They were all protected .. and many groups still are. Protected by a Justice System that downplays Male Sexual Violence.

The industrialised rape of children continues to this day … mostly by White Men .. but yourself and others are only horrified when it’s Brown Men raping White Girls

Shamina Begum was an underage girl, groomed, trafficked and raped - but the same mob who are now so concerned about “gangs”, are quite happy to say “she knew what she was doing”

The whole thing is racism covered in a very thin veneer of concern.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 13:54

WhereYouLeftIt · 08/01/2025 12:52

I keep a hold of LangCleg's wise words, because we all should pay attention to them.

How did the scandal of TV entertainers grooming and exploiting children get so bad before anything was done?

How did the scandal of Catholic priests grooming and exploiting children get so bad before anything was done?

How did the scandal of on-street gangs grooming and exploiting children get so bad before anything was done?

Because if you create a sacred caste of any group and silence anyone asking questions about individuals on behalf of the sacred caste, abusers will see, infiltrate, and groom and exploit children. That's how.

All those in authority who swept the abuse under the carpet in the name of 'community cohesion' created a sacred caste. All those who now suppress those asking questions are doing exactly the same.

To be blunt, your fear of the fall-out from this horror show creates hiding places for abusers. So please, stop feeling so comfortable with cover-ups that you're willing to participate in one.

This. No sacred castes.

BIossomtoes · 08/01/2025 13:54

I think that’s infringement of copyright @Petrine. Just so you know why it’s been reported.

OneAmberFinch · 08/01/2025 13:56

To anyone claiming that prosecutions happened and so justice has been served: no, it hasn't, not when some of them are out and about again after 2 years.

RobinStrike · 08/01/2025 13:56

Thanks to @BIossomtoes and @DuncinToffee for linking to the Andrew Norfolk article. The piece saying he's not a good journalist seems to be a little biased. There was nothing in the article he wrote about the man being invited to have contact with his child that was incorrect. Maybe he should have highlighted more that this was standard, but it did suggest that no one concerned on the council or social services was opposing it, which was really the point.

My biggest problem with the call for a new inquiry is that it's because most people see it as a way to get justice in terms of prosecutions and imprisonment for those in the various institutions who failed these girls. Personal blame is not something a public inquiry can do, and the Jay report has already shone a light on the systemic institutional prejudices which caused them to fail these girls so horrifically. So what will another public inquiry do? Surely implementing the 22 recommendations of the Jay report is a better way forward.
Individual councils will be supported if they want to have an inquiry and they may be better placed to establish blame and prosecutions.

As for the no one took any notice before Musk- as has been highlighted numerous journalists wrote about it-Andrew Norfolk said The Times had him working exclusively on that topic for 4 years! The BBC did a drama about Rotherham, but didn't have the same effect as the Post Office drama because the public inquiry can do General didn't want to know.

Grooming and kidnap in CSE is predominantly Pakistani men. Online grooming is predominantly white British men. Can you see a reason why Musk, at a time when online harms is becoming an issue, would want to deflect and move attention away from X rather than implement safeguards and possibly reduce revenue?

Also, all of the political turmoil on X just increases his income.

Adamante · 08/01/2025 13:57

FOJN · 08/01/2025 13:49

You do not care. You are on another thread claiming that there are no more than 300 victims of historical abuse, it's not true but even if it was is it not enough!

My posting history will reveal that I (and many others) have been warning about the rise of the far right for years. It's a direct response to the lefts sneering contempt for it's working class voter based. When they tried to talk about issues which affected them they were branded stupid and bigoted.

You are reaping what you sow and now you are trying to silence people as if you think it will reverse the trend rather than make it worse. The irony of you thinking you have superior intelligence would be funny if the rest of us didn't have to live with the consequences or your attitude. Slow hand clap for you and thanks a bunch.

Well said!

HappyPanda613 · 08/01/2025 13:57

OneAmberFinch · 08/01/2025 13:56

To anyone claiming that prosecutions happened and so justice has been served: no, it hasn't, not when some of them are out and about again after 2 years.

You’re saying that justice hasn’t been served and then go on to talk about people who are coming out of prison?

Do you even read what you wrote?

dcbgr · 08/01/2025 13:58

Some perpetrators were prosecuted. Many were not. Many who appeared obviously guilty got off because the police and lawyers bungled the prosecution. Many got ludicrously light sentences - community service for rape or a couple of years for violent, repeated gang rape and torture. Some served no time at all - for some pathetic excuse like "dementia" or whatever.

It appears very few or none were actually deported and many appear to be still living happily among the communities they abused. Pakistan refused to take them back - the solution is obvious. UK does not give any visas or send any aid to Pakistan until they agree to take back their deported criminals.

What we have is not justice. The perpetrators must be held to account and removed from the country.

30percent · 08/01/2025 13:58

HappyPanda613 · 08/01/2025 13:57

You’re saying that justice hasn’t been served and then go on to talk about people who are coming out of prison?

Do you even read what you wrote?

You think that two years for raping and torturing kids is justice? I think you should get off this thread and sit down with a glass of wine because you're talking pure bs

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 13:59

Sussurations · 08/01/2025 13:43

WTF am I reading on here. Don’t talk about girls being horribly abused, because Elon Musk and Allison Pearson are also talking about it?

Don’t talk about girls being raped and tortured, because it might put people off voting Labour?

Don’t talk about this specific scandal of gangs targeting and raping girls and the authorities shrugging their shoulders about it, because other girls have also been raped by other men, and other girls have also been victims of official callousness and incompetence?

It is possible to be fucking angry about Allison Pearson using these crimes to praise Tommy Robinson and about Elon Musk’s frightening levels of power but also about the horrors these girls went through, and feel deep sorrow for them and admiration for all those who tried to bring this to light. It’s possible to see the victims as human beings and not pawns in some luxury-belief tribal culture war.

It’s possible to be angry that the parade of sacred caste abusers never ends - same shit, different protected caste of abusers - without being racist or ‘far Right’.

It’s absolutely morally bankrupt, a massive own goal, and just really fucking stupid, to try to shut down conversations because you’re so very afraid that the proles might vote the wrong way if people talk about what happened to these girls.

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Well said 👏 👏

Wampyr · 08/01/2025 14:01

ExtraOnions · 08/01/2025 13:54

Really ?? So Jimmy Savile wasn’t protected, Priests weren’t protected? Bishops? Teachers? Residential Home workers ??

They were all protected .. and many groups still are. Protected by a Justice System that downplays Male Sexual Violence.

The industrialised rape of children continues to this day … mostly by White Men .. but yourself and others are only horrified when it’s Brown Men raping White Girls

Shamina Begum was an underage girl, groomed, trafficked and raped - but the same mob who are now so concerned about “gangs”, are quite happy to say “she knew what she was doing”

The whole thing is racism covered in a very thin veneer of concern.

Nope. I believe she was groomed. I’m also broadly pro immigration. I just think all child rapists should be treated equally under the law whatever their race religion or gender, and that has not been happening. Many more like me!

Sure there are people using this whole mess for political gain, but to say anyone who mentions it is racist or far right is totally wrong and totally unproductive. Some of us just care about girls!

RobinStrike · 08/01/2025 14:01

Politics Live following todays PMQs had Lisa Nandy talking about her experience of working with trafficked girls and the huge support she had from Keir Starmer as DPP. When he discovered some abusers had already been interviewed by police before but not prosecuted he was insistent that the instructions for prosecutors be changed to ensure that they would be prosecuted.

FOJN · 08/01/2025 14:02

HappyPanda613 · 08/01/2025 13:54

Well it appears like these threads will continue to go on regardless, so feel free to continue to rant if you like, both here and on x or wherever it is you get your ‘news’.

But I will say this. Labour will get a handle on social media, and these toxic narratives that have taken the public by storm will be expunged by credible sources with facts and logic. So enjoy the chaos while you can.

And you will celebrate the censorship and still not understand why you are pissing people off.

No ranting from me, just letting one of the many "new style" lefties know its their lack of respect for other people driving the chaos but you keep doing the same thing and expecting a different result.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 14:02

But I will say this. Labour will get a handle on social media, and these toxic narratives that have taken the public by storm will be expunged by credible sources with facts and logic. So enjoy the chaos while you can.

This comment is the cherry on top of the thread. The delusion is real.

JHound · 08/01/2025 14:03

Petrine · 08/01/2025 10:07

I’ve put this on AIBU as it appears to be most read. A brilliant article about the rape gangs and the ensuing cover up.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/01/07/elon-musk-has-ripped-cloak-of-deceit-off-britain-scandal/

Paywall.

And I absolutely won’t be paying for the Torygraph.

RandomButtons · 08/01/2025 14:04

HappyPanda613 · 08/01/2025 13:47

He probably believes that if he can get the middle class demographic of mumsnet onside, then the social paradigm will shift accordingly as it filters down into public discourse.

It’s a smart move if so, but one we need to be resistant to, lest we cede even more ground to the far right in this country.

Exactly, I suspect if we to go to other large forums across Europe we would find the same. Musk clearly wants to turn the tide to the far right.

If the statistically well educated middle class women of mumsnet don’t take a stand then who will?

HappyPanda613 · 08/01/2025 14:04

FOJN · 08/01/2025 14:02

And you will celebrate the censorship and still not understand why you are pissing people off.

No ranting from me, just letting one of the many "new style" lefties know its their lack of respect for other people driving the chaos but you keep doing the same thing and expecting a different result.

Censorship couldn’t come soon enough for dangerous far right peddlers and those who bought into their poisoned rhetoric.

lifeturnsonadime · 08/01/2025 14:06

HappyPanda613 · 08/01/2025 13:40

Well that’s fine, but I honestly do not care. The far right is rising all over Europe and across the ocean, aided and abetted by the complete unshackling of social media which has allowed toxic narratives unfettered access to the minds of our citizens.

And what are we doing about it? Arguing on a public forum about historic sex crimes that a multi billionaire has decided to dredge up for whatever reason. Ask yourself this, what are you doing to counter the narrative? Our democracy is at stake here.

You don't have an ounce of empathy for the victims, do you?

So long as you get to feel politically righteous.

The safety of children from abusive men should be everyones concern. No matter if it is politically inconvenient.

HappyPanda613 · 08/01/2025 14:06

RandomButtons · 08/01/2025 14:04

Exactly, I suspect if we to go to other large forums across Europe we would find the same. Musk clearly wants to turn the tide to the far right.

If the statistically well educated middle class women of mumsnet don’t take a stand then who will?

We will.

Fortunately many of our noble institutions are well staffed by intellectual middle class women who are well versed in countering dangerous language and rhetoric, so ultimately I am not concerned.

PeppyGreenFinch · 08/01/2025 14:07

Allison Oearson

“Conservative leader Kemi Badenoch has rightly said that she will try to insert a clause pledging such an inquiry into the Children’s Wellbeing and Schools Bill on Wednesday – let’s see which MP is foolish enough not to support it.”

Is Allison Pearson thick or just another Musk fangirl?

What is the point of another enquiry when Labour are in the process of implementing the recommendations from the 2022 enquiry which cost £200m and took 7 years?

The sly, cynical, disingenuousness of the article and her being so far up Musk’s arse is obvious.

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