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Brilliant article about the rape gangs in the UK

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Petrine · 08/01/2025 10:07

I’ve put this on AIBU as it appears to be most read. A brilliant article about the rape gangs and the ensuing cover up.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/01/07/elon-musk-has-ripped-cloak-of-deceit-off-britain-scandal/

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PeppyGreenFinch · 08/01/2025 15:53

Feelingathomenow · 08/01/2025 15:41

I think people need to step away from the whataboutery re the Tories. Yes they failed too. Is that now an excuse for Labour to Fail. Whatever your view on musk, he has highlighted a real problem in the UK. A problem everyone agrees is ongoing. So are you going to ignore the continued rape of children because you don’t like the person pointing it out.

We need to get a back bone. We need to investigate why the men in these rape gangs were from a common heritage. We need to find out what link there is, if any between thinking it’s ok to rape and torture thousands of young white girls and the perpetrators culture (the commonality of culture and comments reported by those investigating suggests that there is a link especially when viewed in a wider context). We then need to address the causes and not be restricted by concerns about being PC.

Crimes against children are seen as the lowest of the low in the UK (hence the need for protection in jails). We need to make sure everyone in this country has the same priorities and values, and anyone who does not reflect these values suffers the full force of the law.

It would be whataboutery if Labour didn’t take action for 14 years time and in 14 years time we were still saying ‘the Tories also didn’t do anything for 14 years’.

It’s not whataboutery when we’ve barely entered in a new Labour government with a safeguarding minister tasked with implementing the changes.

BananaAppleOrange · 08/01/2025 15:54

HappyPanda613 · 08/01/2025 11:47

Please, can we stop talking about this already? It’s been days now and it will only further embolden the far right!

Stop talking about the rape and torture of thousands of girls that is still going on today!
Brush it under the carpet!
Cover it up!
Concern about rape of girls is far right!

Here is a quick TikTok with some nice music about drugging and having sex with young girls that the Labour Party have put out. Have a listen to that instead. Good lefty stuff….

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 15:55

Of course it’s all their fault. Who was in power in 2022? Which government received the report and sat on it for over two years? Who else could legitimately be blamed?

They aren't in power now, and they and their fans won't be able to rely on that excuse forever. Starmer has only just recently decided this is in any way a priority. Let's see what happens. He needs to get the fuck on with it, as I said, rather than wailing about Musk.

Brefugee · 08/01/2025 15:55

HelenaWaiting · 08/01/2025 15:33

Why didn't it blow your mind under the last government? It's been public knowledge for years. There was even a TV drama about it.

Well, of course, some people have been talking about this for a long time. Finally they are being heard.

Readers of Computer Weekly and Private Eye were talking about the post office Horizon scandal for years before it hit the mainstream. People weren't accusing the Johnny Come Latelys of ignoring THAT for years, because how could they have known until it hit the mainstream? See also scandals with paedophile priests etc etc. At some point the dam breaks, and we all talk. That is not a bad thing.

Lots of things are annoying me/making me angry at the moment. The abuse of thousands of girls is one, the plight of women in Afghanistan is another etc etc. I will not stop talking about this. And any handwaving, Be Kind or other bollocks will fall on my deaf ears.

PeppyGreenFinch · 08/01/2025 15:55

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 15:49

Not their fault when they were in power for 14 years? Come on.

Try to read posts better @BIossomtoes I said it wasn't all their fault that the recommendations, which still have not been implemented, have not been. I didn't say it wasn't their fault.

You were equating 14 years of Tory incompetence with a new Labour government barely in its infancy.

Those are not equal or the same.

dcbgr · 08/01/2025 15:56

Dear myrtlethepurpleturtle, I am sure you know that in the past it was illegal for women to vote and legal for 6 year old children to be sent up chimney's. If our current laws say it is illegal to deport foreign child rapists and torturers do you think we should a) accept this and welcome them to live in our society b) change the law and deport them?. Genuinely interested in your answer.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 15:57

I'm equating 14 years of Tory incompetence, with the previous Labour government's incompetence, and the incompetence of this new Labour government. Hope that helps.

Feelingathomenow · 08/01/2025 15:57

PeppyGreenFinch · 08/01/2025 15:53

It would be whataboutery if Labour didn’t take action for 14 years time and in 14 years time we were still saying ‘the Tories also didn’t do anything for 14 years’.

It’s not whataboutery when we’ve barely entered in a new Labour government with a safeguarding minister tasked with implementing the changes.

But are they going to do anything about the fundamental culture point here? All I’ve heard is some vague muttering about safe guarding and social services. Why have they rejected a call for an enquiry from Oldham Council for a new enquiry into the rape and torture of young girls because those councillors don’t think the existing enquiries covered everything- they want a national enquiry because they don’t think a local one will be independent. Why have Labour rejected that?

OneAmberFinch · 08/01/2025 15:58

dcbgr · 08/01/2025 15:48

|b) Abolish the rule of law and right to legal representation? Even the Nazis at Nuremberg had the right to legal representation. FFS\

When did I say this? I said re-visit the rules around what constitutes a right to stay in the UK. For example, currently the law said that a Congolese guy who raped his daughter and niece had a right to stay in the UK because deporting would interfere with his "human right to a family life".

I would re-state the law saying that dual nationality citizens who rape people are not entitled to stay in the UK even if that means their family life will be disrupted. Do you seriously think sending home child-rapists is a crime against humanity? Are you seriously arguing that we should allow foreign child-rapists to stay in the UK? That this is something we are obliged to accept and put up with and we cannot as a people can say "No thanks" and send them home?

If the law is an ass, you change the law. That is not a crime against humanity.

For example, currently the law said that a Congolese guy who raped his daughter and niece had a right to stay in the UK because deporting would interfere with his "human right to a family life".

It's so lovely to see such close family ties being celebrated 😇

Your point is clear and well-made even if posters are determined to misunderstand you: you aren't arguing for anyone to not have legal representation, you're arguing that we should tighten the law so that particular avenues of defence which have been exploited can no longer be used. And rightly so.

The story of the "safeguarding lead" being involved in one of these gangs is just another example of how the approach so far of training, tookits, guidelines, processes are not enough when you're against a determined enemy who doesn't respect them. It's the equivalent of writing a sternly worded letter.

PeppyGreenFinch · 08/01/2025 15:59

Feelingathomenow · 08/01/2025 15:50

It is the responsibility of those moving into a culture to integrate into it. If people don’t want to integrate into a culture, why do they chose to live in it.

I moved to a different part of the UK with quite a different culture, I set about understanding the local culture, made sure I supported local traditions and businesses. If I had gone round rejecting the local culture, criticising it, demanding things were changed to meet with my old way of life. If I started moaning things weren’t happening fast enough, that the roads were too narrow, that a few shops and businesses closed in winter, that people had different slang that I at first didn’t understand, that the steep narrow roads weren’t all gritted I would most likely have been rejected by the locals, quite fairly I think. But then if those things were a concern I wouldn’t be living here.

You can’t accuse an entire community of being inferior and then expect them to want to integrate with you.

You can’t call Muslims ‘a vast, suppurating evil such as the land had not known for a thousand years – continued to blight that good and fair country’ and expect them to want to integrate with you.

It doesn’t work like that.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 16:00

But are they going to do anything about the fundamental culture point here? All I’ve heard is some vague muttering about safe guarding and social services. Why have they rejected a call for an enquiry from Oldham Council for a new enquiry into the rape and torture of young girls because those councillors don’t think the existing enquiries covered everything- they want a national enquiry because they don’t think a local one will be independent. Why have Labour rejected that?

Isn't that the 64,000 dollar question.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 16:00

The story of the "safeguarding lead" being involved in one of these gangs is just another example of how the approach so far of training, tookits, guidelines, processes are not enough when you're against a determined enemy who doesn't respect them. It's the equivalent of writing a sternly worded letter.

This.

PeppyGreenFinch · 08/01/2025 16:01

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 15:57

I'm equating 14 years of Tory incompetence, with the previous Labour government's incompetence, and the incompetence of this new Labour government. Hope that helps.

What were the incompetences of the previous Labour govt?

lifeturnsonadime · 08/01/2025 16:03

How can we even start to address the issues with the women in Afghanistan when we can't name the problem in Rotherham and Oldham without being accused of being far right or racist?

I just think suggesting raising this is right wing highlights the fact that the left, as it currently stands, does have a woman problem.

It's not racist to speak about links between religion and harms to women and children. We shouldn't have to brush things under the carpet.

If we want to support a truly multicultural society with genuine community cohesion this NEEDS to be discussed.

I really don't get why people would prefer to castigate provocateurs like Musk rather than address the issues that enable him to poke the stick.

PeppyGreenFinch · 08/01/2025 16:03

Feelingathomenow · 08/01/2025 15:57

But are they going to do anything about the fundamental culture point here? All I’ve heard is some vague muttering about safe guarding and social services. Why have they rejected a call for an enquiry from Oldham Council for a new enquiry into the rape and torture of young girls because those councillors don’t think the existing enquiries covered everything- they want a national enquiry because they don’t think a local one will be independent. Why have Labour rejected that?

Because a new enquiry would halt the implementations of the current enquiry. Which took 7 years to complete.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 16:04

What were the incompetences of the previous Labour govt?

You do realise that many of the councils were Labour councils, and this didn't start in 2010?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 16:05

Because a new enquiry would halt the implementations of the current enquiry

Why? It's bullshit fobbing off.

BananaAppleOrange · 08/01/2025 16:05

For those saying Labour have only been in power six months… They weren’t born yesterday (though might seem it). These rapes took place under their last watch, under labour councils, and Labour have seen what has been done or hasn’t been done since. This hasn’t appeared from nowhere over the last two days. They have had fourteen years to plan return to government. Where is their plan to deal with this?

PeppyGreenFinch · 08/01/2025 16:05

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 15:55

Of course it’s all their fault. Who was in power in 2022? Which government received the report and sat on it for over two years? Who else could legitimately be blamed?

They aren't in power now, and they and their fans won't be able to rely on that excuse forever. Starmer has only just recently decided this is in any way a priority. Let's see what happens. He needs to get the fuck on with it, as I said, rather than wailing about Musk.

Pity you weren’t here posting for get the fuck on with it since 2022. Wonder what stopped you.

lifeturnsonadime · 08/01/2025 16:06

PeppyGreenFinch · 08/01/2025 16:05

Pity you weren’t here posting for get the fuck on with it since 2022. Wonder what stopped you.

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You're clearly not aware that posters have been discussing this issue on the feminists boards on here for years.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 16:07

Because I don't think the inquiry was particularly adequate. I know you'd love to think everyone who disagrees with you about this is some sort of Reform bot, but that isn't the case.

Proudtobeanortherner · 08/01/2025 16:08

HappyPanda613 · 08/01/2025 12:24

No. What I am happy for is the current government to continue to work behind the scenes to bring justice to any and all who have been victims of child sexual exploitation.

What we don’t need is for all of this to be dredged up into the realm of public opinion, where it is likely to radicalise working class men against the authorities, and against communities who just want to live their lives in peace.

Would you have insisted that the Suffragettes step down and let the “authorities” have a chat about women’s rights? I thought not so why should we trust the politicians of all parties, at all levels, to suddenly sort this one out now.
None of them did anything when it first came to light and none of them have done anything since. Whether you like it or not, this will only be dealt with by public involvement.
Whilst the crimes are far more heinous than the dreaded turkey twislers, the problem is the same - people in power don’t listen to the general public.
I can only assume that they think we are smart enough to vote them in but too stupid to be worth listening to.
We need to abolish the Party Whip so that central govt. politicians and local govt. councillors vote as their constituents tell them
to and not as their party demands.
These girls deserve justice, nothing more, nothing less.

BananaAppleOrange · 08/01/2025 16:08

I actually don’t think another inquiry is the priority. I think there should be a criminal investigation into the police, the politicians, the social works, and all the others who enabled the rape and torture of these girls by their actions and inactions.

EasternStandard · 08/01/2025 16:08

BananaAppleOrange · 08/01/2025 16:05

For those saying Labour have only been in power six months… They weren’t born yesterday (though might seem it). These rapes took place under their last watch, under labour councils, and Labour have seen what has been done or hasn’t been done since. This hasn’t appeared from nowhere over the last two days. They have had fourteen years to plan return to government. Where is their plan to deal with this?

These rapes took place under their last watch, under labour councils

This is part of it

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/01/2025 16:09

It's Labour who are now banging on about the recommendations that inquiry made, so they can get the fuck on with it. I've posted about this issue since I joined mumsnet over a decade ago, thanks.

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