Would you give this to your partner if that is what he wants?

[Interestingone]

Would you send a naked photograph to your partner if he asked?
Just that really. I am not sure if this is the norm between couples. Mine has asked but I'm not sure if I should or not.

How do you feel?
Would you or have you?

Yes, I’ve done it, and it’s fine if you want to, and you’re not being pressured.
but ffs, do not ever do nude with face.

Imo women are nearly always automatically at a disadvantage in relationships with men, we are quite often at least physically the vulnerable ones and I cannot think of any decent reason why someone would willingly put themselves at even more of a disadvantage by giving them a naked picture of themselves that you have no control over, especially if and when the relationship ends.

Definitely not

Once it's sent it's out there and you have no control over it. And that's regardless of how "nice" someone seems to be.

So no I wouldn't.

Dear god, no. He also would never ask.

Absolutely not.

Are you apart for some reason? Is he away?
if not why can’t he just look at the real thing?

I have/would, but only if I was into it in the moment and without face or any identifying features

Nope.

Who cares what he wants? What do you want @Interestingone?

does it feel cringy and give you the ick? Can you access his phone to delete them. Can you trust him not to share them?

This kinda behaviour when folks push it smacks of adolescent “if you loved me you’d x,y and z (things that are beyond your boundaries)”.

if he loved and respects you he won’t push it if you say no.

Absolutely not. You never share images that you dontvwant your mum or dad to see.even if your partner would share then he could get hacked.

No.
I just don’t trust technology like that.
I do trust my husband, it’s just that phones can be stolen, iCloud’s can be hacked, messages intercepted, not worth the risk..

No, definitely not.

You married a person who asks for nude pics?

Nope. He can come round to bask in all my naked glory, but a picture he'll not get.

No no no

Not a chance

Absolutely not. Enjoyment of my body is only available by my consent and in person with me. Aside from that, it's not even just the trust of the partner, it's the idea that phones, emails, etc can be hacked, stolen, that photo could end up anywhere.

Not a fucking chance would I do that.

Why is he asking? What would he do with such a photograph?

To be blunt - would you be happy for him to 'share' such a photograph with his mates? Upload it to a porn site? Hold it over your head to 'keep you in line'?

Don't be naive, never create such a photograph - you are worth far more.

How much of a partner is he? How old, how long together, any children?

No. You might not still be with your partner a few years from now, and you never know where your picture will end up.

Nope wouldn’t happen

I would as we've been together 20+ years, but not something I'd trust to any relatively new relationship. I wouldn't do anything 'porny', honestly if a tasteful nude of me got into the public domain I wouldn't care and it wouldn't have any effect on my life.

No, never

Yep, have done lots of times. No face or identifying features generally. But you shouldn't feel pressured to do it because other people enjoy it!

NO.

We send them back and forward all the time.