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To think Elon Musk has gone nuts

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Viviennemary · 06/01/2025 18:15

What on earth is going on with him. Calling for Nagel Farage to resign. Now wanting the PM to resign amd said we have a tyrannical government. It's all a bit odd.

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DuncinToffee · 07/01/2025 12:56

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 12:52

What’s the “right and correct thing”?

Not spreading lies?

midgetastic · 07/01/2025 12:56

The sad thing is though that the support for people like him is highest in the places with the least immigration

It's hard to tackle immigration problems in areas that don't actually have much immigration

They are also often areas of high poverty or low opportunities but it seems to me that the blame is put in the wrong place. I would blame the super rich myself - you know people like .. him.. who would rather distract from his enormous hoarding of wealth

This isn't saying there are not sone areas with problems caused by immigration - but it's rather a poor generalisation to think that all the issues would go away and the world would be rosy if we stopped all immigration

I also think that you get more problems with immigration when there is automatic hatred and fear - because then those who do come are less likely to take on and integrate into the British culture and more likely to group together out of fear

EasternStandard · 07/01/2025 12:57

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 12:46

I’m assuming that was aimed at me although you chose not to tag me, just lift quotes.

I can assure you, I’m far from “fucking stupid” (is this standard language you use when people disagree with you?)

What I, and several other posters, have pointed out, is all this anger against Musk is playing into his hands and giving him what he wants. He doesn’t care what you think of him, arguing about what he has said just makes him more relevant. The more outraged people get means he is more likely to keep winding people up to escalate the response. I posted something upthread about why neurodivergent people start arguments, if you care about some of the science take a look.

What we need to understand is why people feel the way they do about the things Musk is talking about.

We need to listen to those who are being adversely affected by immigration and acting on those concerns. Everytime someone raises a concern they’re shouted down with cries of “you’re racist” “you’re stupid” etc. usually by people who clearly aren’t impacted by immigration at all. We lived in a great area and were suddenly affected by mass immigration and movement into the area by second generation immigrants. Living there changed beyond all recognition, it started to affect my DS mental health. Crime went through the roof, I was scared to let my son out. There were targeted attacks always on white kids by members of other communities.

We were lucky to be able to move away. But some people aren’t, they see their kids school focusing all their resources on kids who can’t speak English, the streets are less safe esp for girls and women who are often heckled on the streets. The child rape gangs are still active in certain areas. People can’t heat their homes/eat but immigrants are in a warm hotel being fed. People feel unfairly treated in their own country and perceive those coming in to be receiving better treatment and astronomical amounts being spent.

The government and parts of society are ignoring these people and when their frustration boils over demonising them. What do you think happens when someone comes a long and listens to them?

Instead of dismissing them and demonising them, calling them names, we need to start listening to their lived experiences and address their concerns. It’s this dismissal of people’s concerns that’s feeding the Tommy Robinson’s of this world.

People just aren’t getting it, they think everyone’s experiences are like their own. These are the people responsible for the riots, the disenfranchisement of vast numbers of IK citizens, people need to close their mounts and open their ears a bit more.

I can assure you, I’m far from “fucking stupid” (is this standard language you use when people disagree with you?)

I don't see how this helps anyway. All these threads and posts help Musk as his earnings for X relate to how much attention he and it can get, obviously there are other companies but for X in particular that is what it is trading on.

The pp said they didn't want to just block Musk and delete X but felt they should do something else, what is that (other than mn threads discussing him)?

Goldenbear · 07/01/2025 12:59

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 12:52

What’s the “right and correct thing”?

To be optimistic and find solutions to problems not build walls between people, encourage people to think in extreme ways, pitching people against each other as once that process has began it is incredibly hard to unite people to find a way forward.

As someone who has relentlessly pursued success with his innovations, he must possess a solution driven mind, an optimistic mind i.e a belief that things can be achieved so it seems at odds with his character.

SallyWD · 07/01/2025 12:59

user243245346 · 07/01/2025 11:56

The interesting thing about this thread is the string of accusations and claims against me just because I stood up for free speech. It's really scary that society has become so intolerant and segmented that we can't even have a debate about people being free to say things you don't agree with. We have become so used to echo chambers and censoring things we find uncomfortable. It's unhealthy imo.

What we've been seeing lately isn't free speech. It's misinformation, exaggeration, incitement, racial/religious hatred. Do you really think the false claims repeatedly made by Tommy Robinson about a 16 year old refugee, that were viewed about 50 million times, were free speech? Do you think the encouragement by the MP's wife to burn down hotels housing asylum seekers was free speech?

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 13:00

cardibach · 07/01/2025 12:52

That’s a mix of stuff that does need looking at and stuff that’s misinformation. I agree we need to look at issues of deprivation and the housing situation, at the widening gap between rich and poor and so on. Funnily enough, lots of Labour’s manifesto, King’s Speech and budget are aimed at that. The problems you describe arose under the 14 years of Tory government, so why the vitriol at Labour and Starmer?

I wasn’t that keen to how the Tories mishandled it. But it is Labour in power now. I, and most other people are bored of hearing “well the Tories didn’t sort it”. I doubt Labour have the ability to sort this (or the inclination). They were in power during the riots - Starmer set about ensuring a hard line assault on those same frustrated people. Why did he not say “ we understand people’s frustrations and will work with the communities of those people to better understand the issues they are facing due to immigration”? Why did he keep saying there is no two tier policing (after all the left has been arguing that two tier policing exists for decades). Why is he so reluctant to address the failure of multiculturalism in Britain. Esp in those areas?

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 13:02

Goldenbear · 07/01/2025 12:59

To be optimistic and find solutions to problems not build walls between people, encourage people to think in extreme ways, pitching people against each other as once that process has began it is incredibly hard to unite people to find a way forward.

As someone who has relentlessly pursued success with his innovations, he must possess a solution driven mind, an optimistic mind i.e a belief that things can be achieved so it seems at odds with his character.

Maybe he thinks solutions will only be found if people are pushed and finding a solution becomes a priority.

Goldenbear · 07/01/2025 13:03

Goldenbear · 07/01/2025 12:59

To be optimistic and find solutions to problems not build walls between people, encourage people to think in extreme ways, pitching people against each other as once that process has began it is incredibly hard to unite people to find a way forward.

As someone who has relentlessly pursued success with his innovations, he must possess a solution driven mind, an optimistic mind i.e a belief that things can be achieved so it seems at odds with his character.

Begun not "began"

DuncinToffee · 07/01/2025 13:03

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cx2wx9w47p9o

Home Secretary Yvette Cooper has said those who cover up or fail to report child sexual abuse could face professional or criminal sanctions under a new offence to be introduced this year.

The proposal was one of 20 recommendations made by Professor Alexis Jay following her seven year inquiry into child sexual abuse, which concluded in 2022.

Cooper said the change would be added to the Crime and Policing Bill this spring.

Yvette Cooper speaking in the House of Commons

Yvette Cooper promises law to tackle child sex abuse cover ups

The home secretary says those who fail to report child sexual abuse could face criminal sanctions.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cx2wx9w47p9o

Goldenbear · 07/01/2025 13:06

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 13:02

Maybe he thinks solutions will only be found if people are pushed and finding a solution becomes a priority.

Pushed into hating each other, how has that ever helped anything and actually like I posted previously, it is much harder to start again on a united front once you have put all your energy into dividing people who blame each other for their problems.

BIossomtoes · 07/01/2025 13:07

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 13:00

I wasn’t that keen to how the Tories mishandled it. But it is Labour in power now. I, and most other people are bored of hearing “well the Tories didn’t sort it”. I doubt Labour have the ability to sort this (or the inclination). They were in power during the riots - Starmer set about ensuring a hard line assault on those same frustrated people. Why did he not say “ we understand people’s frustrations and will work with the communities of those people to better understand the issues they are facing due to immigration”? Why did he keep saying there is no two tier policing (after all the left has been arguing that two tier policing exists for decades). Why is he so reluctant to address the failure of multiculturalism in Britain. Esp in those areas?

You’d have wanted a long term approach to an immediate and urgent problem? Is that what you’d have expected or wanted if there was a baying mob trying to burn your house down? Seriously? Starmer did exactly the right thing and showed he was no gutless pushover.

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 13:07

midgetastic · 07/01/2025 12:56

The sad thing is though that the support for people like him is highest in the places with the least immigration

It's hard to tackle immigration problems in areas that don't actually have much immigration

They are also often areas of high poverty or low opportunities but it seems to me that the blame is put in the wrong place. I would blame the super rich myself - you know people like .. him.. who would rather distract from his enormous hoarding of wealth

This isn't saying there are not sone areas with problems caused by immigration - but it's rather a poor generalisation to think that all the issues would go away and the world would be rosy if we stopped all immigration

I also think that you get more problems with immigration when there is automatic hatred and fear - because then those who do come are less likely to take on and integrate into the British culture and more likely to group together out of fear

Oh I don’t think so. You seem to be trying to portray immigrants as poor defenceless rabbits huddling together. I suggest you live in an area of poverty and high immigration for a while to prevent such misinformation

cardibach · 07/01/2025 13:07

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 13:00

I wasn’t that keen to how the Tories mishandled it. But it is Labour in power now. I, and most other people are bored of hearing “well the Tories didn’t sort it”. I doubt Labour have the ability to sort this (or the inclination). They were in power during the riots - Starmer set about ensuring a hard line assault on those same frustrated people. Why did he not say “ we understand people’s frustrations and will work with the communities of those people to better understand the issues they are facing due to immigration”? Why did he keep saying there is no two tier policing (after all the left has been arguing that two tier policing exists for decades). Why is he so reluctant to address the failure of multiculturalism in Britain. Esp in those areas?

I know they are in power no. I am less than convinced by the honesty and seriousness of people who are so vitriolic about Labour (look at some of things you’ve said about Starmer) but never said a word about the Tories. It feels like. They neither knew not cared about this issue then and have just let themselves get wound up by misinformation and shit stirring.
He says there’s no two tier policing because there isn’t. Not as a matter of policy or deliberate intent. Yes, sometimes things go wrong. Changes have been made since those rape gang cases, for example, to make it much harder for yhem to happen again - but people are weak, prejudiced, make mistakes, you can’t remove all issues.
Im not sure what you mean by the failure if multiculturalism. I don’t think it’s a failure. There are failures relating to issues connected with it in some areas sometimes, but overall? No.

DuncinToffee · 07/01/2025 13:08

Crime and Policing Bill – A bill to improve policing, crack down on anti-social behaviour, tackle knife and retail crime, and provide a stronger response to violence against women and girls.

from the King's speech

https://www.instituteforgovernment.org.uk/explainer/2024-kings-speech

midgetastic · 07/01/2025 13:09

Ah only you @Feelingathomenow live anywhere near any immigrants?

Some are in fear
And some are thugs
Just like the rest of the population really
And I have seen both thanks for checking

cardibach · 07/01/2025 13:10

Blimey @DuncinToffee - you mean there’s evidence they didn’t need Elon going off on one to start doing something?

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 13:12

BIossomtoes · 07/01/2025 13:07

You’d have wanted a long term approach to an immediate and urgent problem? Is that what you’d have expected or wanted if there was a baying mob trying to burn your house down? Seriously? Starmer did exactly the right thing and showed he was no gutless pushover.

Oh we all know exactly what Starmer is. He has no long term plan, he just wants to instill fear.

I know people in Birmingham who were trapped in their homes by a mob. That mob wouldn’t listen to the police only “community leaders” maybe they should have rolled out a vicar to talk to the other rioters?

cardibach · 07/01/2025 13:13

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 13:12

Oh we all know exactly what Starmer is. He has no long term plan, he just wants to instill fear.

I know people in Birmingham who were trapped in their homes by a mob. That mob wouldn’t listen to the police only “community leaders” maybe they should have rolled out a vicar to talk to the other rioters?

Starmer isn’t the one trying to instil fear. And if mobs were trapping people, surely you can see a Swift and hardline response was exactly what was called for?

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 13:13

midgetastic · 07/01/2025 13:09

Ah only you @Feelingathomenow live anywhere near any immigrants?

Some are in fear
And some are thugs
Just like the rest of the population really
And I have seen both thanks for checking

Oh I moved away because there was no integration, I saw no evidence of fear.

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 13:15

cardibach · 07/01/2025 13:13

Starmer isn’t the one trying to instil fear. And if mobs were trapping people, surely you can see a Swift and hardline response was exactly what was called for?

Oh he was, he was making it very clear that people shouldn’t do things he didn’t approve of, he created fear. He is one of the most bullying leaders Britain has ever had.

BIossomtoes · 07/01/2025 13:15

cardibach · 07/01/2025 13:13

Starmer isn’t the one trying to instil fear. And if mobs were trapping people, surely you can see a Swift and hardline response was exactly what was called for?

Precisely. The bloody country was a tinderbox but Starmer should have let it burn apparently. There’s no sense or logic to it.

cardibach · 07/01/2025 13:15

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 13:13

Oh I moved away because there was no integration, I saw no evidence of fear.

Perhaps you can accept different people in different areas have a different experience and that your issue was specific to the place you lived then? I’ve lived and worked with various categories of immigrants, refugees and asylum seekers and not had a bad experience. Some are horrible, most are lovely, just like any other group - their ‘not white Christian British’ status didn’t seem to influence this.

DuncinToffee · 07/01/2025 13:16

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 13:15

Oh he was, he was making it very clear that people shouldn’t do things he didn’t approve of, he created fear. He is one of the most bullying leaders Britain has ever had.

You really should back up these claims with some evidence

cardibach · 07/01/2025 13:16

Feelingathomenow · 07/01/2025 13:15

Oh he was, he was making it very clear that people shouldn’t do things he didn’t approve of, he created fear. He is one of the most bullying leaders Britain has ever had.

Eh? What things he disapproved of did he make it clear peiple shouldn’t do? Was it suggesting murdering people in their beds? Cos I’d quite like people who thought that was a good idea to be scared of doing it to be honest.

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