Ok I’m sorry that you find my posts tedious and lacking empathy.
I’ve spent my working life in healthcare and the one thing I have learned is that patients will look to blame anyone for their state of health ( I am referring to preventable conditions) and that you can spend a lot of time educating them and supporting them only to find that they have completely ignored you.
I’m retired now so I no longer have to listen to the endless excuses and explanations of why the simple remedies I’ve suggested in a polite and appropriate way are not doable because they don’t have the time in their busy schedule to look after their health. They have the time to spend hours on the makeup, hair and nails but 15 mins a day on their mouths is just not doable. They are not prepared to change their diet to prevent the ongoing damage to their teeth and they expect me to fix it in the future because I can. Then moan about the cost.
Obesity is preventable but we need to start at an early age. There are multiple HCP banging their heads against walls all over the NHS having spent huge amounts of time with patients who are unwilling to take advice at a stage when prevention is possible. Ultimately the NHS is to blame because of its umbrella nature in the past. Patients understand one thing and that regardless of their actions they expect the NHS to fix it. We can’t do that anymore and HCPs are having to spell it out. Patients aren’t happy with the new tell it how you see it attitude and the whole system is on its knees.
So yes I agree I lost my empathy sometime before the pandemic which is why I left the NHS. I do a small amount of private work now where patients value your time and advice because they are paying good money for it.
I have a large dent in my forehead from repetitively banging my head against the wall.
There are some endocrine conditions that make weight loss complicated but ultimately weight is dependent primarily on how much you eat and what types of foods you eat. PCOs is one of these and is commonly treated with GLP-1 drugs. They are not given primarily to aid weight loss but to treat the associated problems with PCOs. Weight loss is a welcome side effect. I used to take Metformin when I was trying to get pregnant. I lost weight and fell pregnant. The weight loss was a bonus. I have a lot of empathy for women who struggle with endocrine problems they can have a lifelong affect. I’m overweight but I love my food. I know why I’m overweight and I’m currently addressing it.
One of the wonderful outcomes of the recession and cost of living crisis is that food manufacturers have made everything smaller so maybe the tide is turning. If you check the chocolate shelf most items are smaller so lower in calories. The bakery items have all shrunk and are twice the price. Now all we need is lower prices on the healthy stuff.