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Friends awful baby name

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ThisIcyHare · 01/01/2025 16:26

My best friend is due to have a baby soon, they are having a girl and she has been talking baby names with me, which feels super special. She has got a few very lovely traditional girly names, and a couple of more unusual choices, but not ‘offensive’. They are names I would expect from her. However, she has one absolutely terrible name, that actually just feels very cruel. It would be bad even by American standards and ‘tragedeigh’ names. It’s not that I wouldn’t choose it, it’s just crazy stupid and the child will be ridiculed by peers and adults. Some of her choices are genuinely wonderful, but I’m so worried she will madly choose this one awful name, I can’t say anything can I?!

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OnceMoreWithAttitude · 01/01/2025 17:44

OP, I think you have to find a way to point out , objectively, how the name could pan out for the child, in school, if the word crops up in the news, if they happen not to live up to the quality their name describes on any occasion., if other kids find it too out there etc.

OneZippyWasp · 01/01/2025 17:44

Truleigh Silleigh Billeigh

Sasskitty · 01/01/2025 17:45

Unity?

CatherinedeBourgh · 01/01/2025 17:45

StrawberryWater · 01/01/2025 16:39

I know plenty of people that have saddled their kid with awful names.

For example: Bu - pronounced 'Boo' apparently. However, to me it's Bu as in But. Where is she getting 'Boo' from? And even then Boo is NOT a good name. It's a nickname at best!

You can't say anything though. You just have to zip your lip and maybe encourage all the other names.

Edited

The u is pronounced oo in many, many languages. If I see Bu, I immediately think boo.

Jubaju · 01/01/2025 17:45

I thought you meant the name was tragedeigh 🫢

Iamacatslave · 01/01/2025 17:45

Please tell us 🙏

Thighdentitycrisis · 01/01/2025 17:45

Justice
Liberty
Bravery
Honesty (honestly!)
Valour
?

TimeForATerf · 01/01/2025 17:46

Like many others I thought Honesty, if not what about Morality? 😂

ChippedIkeaFurniture · 01/01/2025 17:46

Sincerity
Honour
Truth
Veracity
Virtue
Decency

Hopefully not Rectitude?

OriginalUsername2 · 01/01/2025 17:46

Rumplestiltskin

sommerjade · 01/01/2025 17:46

I know a Peculiar (meaning 'special & protected in her Nigerian culture I believe). I had never heard of that name before I met her.

Meltedwelly · 01/01/2025 17:46

Loyalteigh

Paperthin · 01/01/2025 17:47

It has got to be Dignity ?

CatherinedeBourgh · 01/01/2025 17:47

Honesty is a plant, and rather a pretty one, so you could see it from that perspective.

Garlicnorth · 01/01/2025 17:48

ThisIcyHare · 01/01/2025 17:15

No! It’s not honour, charity, faith. It’s like Integrity.

Do you mean something like Honesty or Truth? Both of those were very popular Victorian names. In fact, anyone who gets exasperated with 2020s names should take a look at the Victorians - not only were they very fond of (trying for) originality, they also re-used the names of children that died.

Just go with it, anyway. The current crop of babies have such unexpected names, nothing will seem strange among her peers!

Meltedwelly · 01/01/2025 17:48

CatherinedeBourgh · 01/01/2025 17:47

Honesty is a plant, and rather a pretty one, so you could see it from that perspective.

But you'd have to spell it Honesteigh

Laboheme78 · 01/01/2025 17:48

Oh come on!! What is the name?

MrsRonaldWeasley · 01/01/2025 17:49

Something like virtue or righteous?

Rosscameasdoody · 01/01/2025 17:49

wholettheturnipsburn · 01/01/2025 16:43

Chlamydia?

Coffee just came down my nose !!

Sasskitty · 01/01/2025 17:50

It can’t be That bad surely? Not like Adolf or bum hole?
It’s just you don’t like it 🤷‍♀️

AUDHD · 01/01/2025 17:50

Without knowing the name we can’t comment

Thatcastlethere · 01/01/2025 17:50

Is it Euphemia??
Virtue name, means "well spoken" was most common in the victorian era. I think it's very romantic but could see why someone might think it was nuts.
Or Chastity. I like the sound of that one but don't like the connotations.

FrangipaneMincies · 01/01/2025 17:50

It's not Elphaba, is it? Someone I know wanted to call her daughter that, from 'Wicked'

Thighdentitycrisis · 01/01/2025 17:50

TELL UUUUUUUS

Thighdentitycrisis · 01/01/2025 17:51

not Patience then?

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