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To think dogs shouldn't be in pubs?

370 replies

Orangesinthebag · 01/01/2025 09:47

Yesterday I went to the pub for an afternoon NY Eve drink and couldn't believe the number of people who brought their dog (sometimes two dogs!) with them.

Why is this such a thing now? Can't dogs be left alone any more?
A couple of the dogs were growling at each other and owners were having to drag them apart.
It happens all the time these days - pubs, cafes, restaurants, shops but only a few years ago it would have been so weird and only guide dogs were allowed into places, especially places serving food.

I love dogs but I know several people who are scared of them & find it difficult to have to encounter them everywhere these days.

Is it unreasonable to think dogs should be kept at home?

(Sorry could add a poll for some reason)

OP posts:
Hadalifeonce · 01/01/2025 10:15

I see a number of dogs in very crowded places, and actually feel quite sorry for them; they are surrounded by legs, their leads get caught up, and I have seen dogs being trodden on as they can't always be seen. I really don't think that just because a venue accepts dogs, that it is always wise to take them there.

luckylavender · 01/01/2025 10:15

MidnightPatrol · 01/01/2025 09:50

Dogs have always been allowed in pubs.

I think if you’re frightened of an animal you are going to see every time you leave the house, you need to get some help coming to terms with that fear.

I think we should ban miserable so-and-sos from pubs.

🙄

Tara336 · 01/01/2025 10:15

My last DDog as much as I loved him couldn't cope with being taken anywhere like a pub, he got over excited as was a pain for me and everyone around him ans so I never did it again.

However new DDog has been taken places with me since she was a tiny pup (in a sling) and is very quiet and well behaved and so I do take her with me to dog friendly places (not all the time).

My problem though is she is a very nervous dog who doesn't want to be petted by strangers and it is an issue as not everyone asks if its OK. She won't bite she is just scared and so many people just grab at her as she's a very cute dog. I was in a pet shop the other day paying for something and a man let his toddler just lunge at her and then was annoyed that she was barked at! Dont let your kid grab at my dog then!

We took both our dogs (we have an elderly shihtzu.as well) to a dog friendly light trail the other night. Young DDog walking along nicely and elderly dog in his pram we were enjoying yhe lights but the whole thing became a nightmare as people were letting their kids rush up to my elderly dog who is blind and deaf and grab at him, I just managed to stop one kid doing it and I warned the parent if he's startled he will snap! She looked at me like I was an asshole and pulled the kid away. Had she just bloody asked I'd have said no he's not OK to stroke if he's not expecting it!

Also same elderly dog being walked on a lead at the weekend another parent with a toddler let him rush at my dog and grab at him and I had to shout no please don't and pick my dog up.

Neither of my dogs are nasty and are very sweet and gentle but other people just assuming it's fine to approach them is making it difficult if we want to take them anywhere, its such a shame.

GCAcademic · 01/01/2025 10:16

Dogs have been allowed in pubs ever since pubs existed.

twinklystar23 · 01/01/2025 10:16

In reference to the title whislt dogs have always been in pubs historically it was only alcohol. Whoch is generally no longer the case.

Ginmonkeyagain · 01/01/2025 10:16

I don't like dogs in shops and restaurants but dogs in pubs is fine - they have always been allowed in most pubs.

satsumaqueen · 01/01/2025 10:16

@Kaleidoscopic101 that is absolutely hilarious! I would have loved to have seen that.

Proves my point though, where does it end?! If you allow dogs, why can’t a cat or a rabbit or a horse come in? Then you end up feeling like every outgoing is a trip to the vets.

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 01/01/2025 10:17

Would much prefer a well behaved pooch to share a meal with rather than a feral toddler

Well I'd prefer a well behaved toddler to a feral dog.

Annabella92 · 01/01/2025 10:17

nellythe · 01/01/2025 10:02

But your issue is clearly with dogs as a whole so you’re probably not capable of having a level discussion on the suitability of them being in a public place or not? If we replaced this thread topic with ‘children in pubs’ and all I had to contribute was ‘stinky snotty little brats’ then my post would be quite pointless.

Dogs aren't comparable to most children though. The dogs I know love to roll around in every dead decaying thing they can find in the undergrowth, they lick each others bottoms and then their owners hands, they produce far more saliva than even the snottiest kid (who absolutely should be at home when they're not well).

Orangesinthebag · 01/01/2025 10:17

Unicorntearsofgin · 01/01/2025 10:14

YANBU.

Country pub with lots of space then by all means welcome them.

Busy town or city pub just why? They just get in the way and it’s a pain for people with allergies.

Surely a good compromise is let them in beer gardens etc.

Just to clarify - it was a very busy city pub that serves food.
To my mind that's very different to a country pub with lots of space.

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DowntonNabby · 01/01/2025 10:18

ExpressCheckout · 01/01/2025 09:51

Personally, I'd prefer a well-behaved dog over a badly behaved child.

This. ^

I come across infinitely more brattish kids left to run amok in pubs by lazy arsed parents than I do badly behaved dogs.

PiastriThePastry · 01/01/2025 10:18

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 01/01/2025 10:06

Perhaps I should start my own thread on this - but I think it's rather sad that you no longer seem to see pub cats. They used to be be fairly commonplace (great examples in Malvern and Oxford that I used to frequent), but I haven't seen a resident pub cat for years.

Our local has one, dear thing. She’s a very old pub cat who has only half a tail and is ever so friendly. She lies on top of the glass washer because it’s nice and toasty.. im not a cat person at all but she’s fantastic and you’re right, there should be more pub cats!

WRT the op, dogs have always always been in pubs. But then, I tend to be around country pubs and as you say that’s somewhat different. I don’t really care about them being there and have taken my own many a time, although it annoys me when they don’t know how to behave due to useless owners! Dogs in cafes and shops and whathaveyou on the other hand, that’s ridiculous and annoys me intensely!

Annabella92 · 01/01/2025 10:18

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 01/01/2025 10:17

Would much prefer a well behaved pooch to share a meal with rather than a feral toddler

Well I'd prefer a well behaved toddler to a feral dog.

Exactly, there's a limit to the harm a toddler can cause. And some people are literally allergic to dogs, nobody has an allergy to toddlers.

Flopsy145 · 01/01/2025 10:18

Pubs have allowed dogs in bar areas since as long as I can remember, but not in the restaurant bits. And I think that's fine! Obviously well behaved ones only, but pubs are often rural or village based a lot of the time so you get dog walkers etc

Tara336 · 01/01/2025 10:18

Nugg · 01/01/2025 10:06

For me, my dog is like a security blanket. As I do most of my activities on my own, I feel so much better when my dog is with me.

She is exceptionally well behaved, probably because she is used to lots of different environments with me, but I always always check before I go anywhere that they are dog friendly and I have never taken her shopping other than two a local pet shop that encourages it!

If we have been on a dirty walk, I would never take her in anywhere, so she is always clean and fresh smelling. She would never approach another dog or human first she simply sits with me watching the world go by.

So for me YABU

Completely agree, my dog is very small and well behaved and is also a security blanket for me i have a chronic illness and she gives me comfort and confidence.

Wonderwall23 · 01/01/2025 10:19

I think as long as a dog is very well trained and will sit quietly, it's OK to take them on a nice walk with a country pub stop at the end. I don't think it's hugely unexpected that you'd find a dog in that scenario either.

Absolutely not in restaurants or in a scenario where they've just driven to the pub for the pub. I completely agree dogs are increasingly everywhere and I really don't like it. Especially when people think its ok for their dog to come up to you. Or bring them when they aren't OK with other dogs.

Growlybear83 · 01/01/2025 10:21

I agree with everyone who is saying that they much prefer to have dogs in pubs rather than children. It's incredibly irritating being in a pub with little children running round and shrieking, babies crying, and having to dodge prams.

CharlotteCChapel · 01/01/2025 10:23

The bag o' nails in Bristol has pub cats. One has its own box at the end of the bar that says I'm not pregnant just fat.

The pub doesn't do food so no problem with cat hairs in food.

I agree that pubs have accepted dogs for years. My friend's dog used to come to the pub with us in the early 80s.

lavenderlou · 01/01/2025 10:24

I think it would be better if they were just allowed in pub gardens. That's the way I remember it being in the past, although you didn't tend to see that many dogs in pubs at all until more recently.

BonnyBugbear · 01/01/2025 10:24

I would rather have dogs in pubs than kids running amok!

Tricho · 01/01/2025 10:24

Bore off

Kaleidoscopic101 · 01/01/2025 10:25

Growlybear83 · 01/01/2025 10:21

I agree with everyone who is saying that they much prefer to have dogs in pubs rather than children. It's incredibly irritating being in a pub with little children running round and shrieking, babies crying, and having to dodge prams.

Yes and quite frankly not fun for the kids either...it's like parents don't know where to take them and put their own needs above the kids...plenty of places that don't cost any money they can burn off steam

MadameCholetsDirtySecret · 01/01/2025 10:25

I've shared this story before.

DH and I were in our local pub. We live rurally - it is a pretty country pub with a good sized garden. Sunny day. Everyone outside enjoying the weather. DDog was asleep by our feet. A child, who has just been removed from the chicken run by the landlord (as they weren't allowed in there and had been terrorising the hens) came over to our dog and spat on her.

I know who I think should be banned from pubs.

Dontknowwhattocall13893 · 01/01/2025 10:27

ExpressCheckout · 01/01/2025 09:51

Personally, I'd prefer a well-behaved dog over a badly behaved child.

Thats kind of a silly comparison. I think most would prefer well behaved anything over badly behaved anything. I'd personally prefer a well behaved child over a well behaved dog and I'd rather neither a badly behaved child or dog.
For what it's worth I think the problem in either case is the adult/parent when they're not doing their duty and ignoring either child/dog which I've experienced more and more the past few years.
I don't mind a dog just chilling there but dogs growling at each other and putting their heads on the tables etc I'd rather avoid.

DarkForces · 01/01/2025 10:27

Pubs have always had dogs in them. Lots of them had dogs that lived there when I was growing up and would greet all the drinkers. If you don't want dogs around then drink in the many bars that don't let them in.

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