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Should she replace it? Part 2

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Langarg · 31/12/2024 23:14

Starting the new thread ahead of hopefully having an update soon!

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DearDeadrie · 02/01/2025 18:29

You lent the AW to cf = cf replaces it
Cf sister broke it = cf has to deal with Sister

One of them still has the AW broken or not so can claim on their insurance so cf can buy one on her credit card and she will be reimbursed by the insurance as between the pair of them one will have insurance, and insist you have it asap as you now don't know anyone who has a working hairdryer to lend to you.

DurhamDurham · 02/01/2025 18:29

You can't trust anything she says now. The only things that matters is that she replaces it. A new one not a second hand one.

AlexisP90 · 02/01/2025 18:29

You know I think she still has it. Do you know her sister? It's easy to blame someone who you won't ask.

First she blamed the hotel now there is this elaborate story about a sister and a master plan...

Nahhhhh I don't buy this. I think she kept it and is sitting at home with wonderful flowing hair.

I think she's giving herself more time with this story just like the hotel.

Strictlymad · 02/01/2025 18:30

Wowzers…… my gast is well and truly flabbered! I did wonder if the dh had no idea (so many lies about he didn’t want to drive in the weather warning etc…) and I was going to say try calling him next os you have his number. Also explains why the hotel was none the wiser. Well well well the plot thickens!

devilspawn · 02/01/2025 18:30

Tutorpuzzle · 02/01/2025 18:26

Blimey, the amount of time she’s been finding people to blame (hotel workers, sister, probably the dog next) she could have got a part time job to pay for the bleedin’ thing!

Long Hair Dog GIF by Relaxing Stuff

But the dog is looking majestic.

AlexisP90 · 02/01/2025 18:30

Ask to see it. If sister "threw it in the bin" this story is bullshit.

Tutorpuzzle · 02/01/2025 18:31

devilspawn · 02/01/2025 18:30

But the dog is looking majestic.

🤣🤣🤣

AlexisP90 · 02/01/2025 18:31

Her DH is about to be

"My fucking God what did I marry"

FizzyBisto · 02/01/2025 18:33

Nahhhhh I don't buy this. I think she kept it and is sitting at home with wonderful flowing hair.

As friends go, she most definitely isn't Worth It.

JustSawJohnny · 02/01/2025 18:33

Good Lord but that woman chats crap, doesn't she?!!

It's taken her days to come up with an alternative villain and now she's all poooorrr mmeeeeeee - NOPE!!!

Pay up and piss off!!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 02/01/2025 18:33

I'd just like to say well done to OP for this bit of the phone conversation:

'I was not expecting what she said so was left a bit speechless if I’m honest. I told her that I wanted to digest the information but ultimately there’s no option other than to replace the airwrap for a new one as I don’t want to trust some random second hand one.'

I'm not sure I'd want her to buy an airwrap rather than handing over the money, but other than that this is perfect.

Longsight2019 · 02/01/2025 18:34

Can we pretend I’m the sister being blamed here for a minute?

Hi (Hun), hope your [sic] ok!!!!

Soz about the blow dryer. Wasn’t that good anyway tbf - best I can do is a Braun from Argos on Klarna. Send me your address and I’ll get it sent.

Should she replace it? Part 2
Fortunefavoursthebrave · 02/01/2025 18:34

I don’t believe the sister knocked wine over it at all. What a load of BS. She needs to replace it asap and I would be ending the friendship. What a CF!

TessTackle · 02/01/2025 18:35

I. Am. GOBSMACKED.

FizzyBisto · 02/01/2025 18:35

She needs a little more time - she's currently frantically Googling "Which UK gameshows offer a cash prize of at least £500 and are undersubscribed for contestants?"

Bobbing46 · 02/01/2025 18:35

Langarg · 02/01/2025 17:54

Well well well. The phone call took place. I’m shocked at the lies and the lengths she went to to cover up the lies to be honest!

Some previous posters were correct. She lent it to someone else and that person broke it. Can you believe it!!

She waffled on and on and made excuses for her behaviour at every turn. Essentially she admitted that following the wedding, her sister (one of the witnesses) asked if she could borrow it. Her sister apparently guilt tripped her in to letting her borrow it due to her sister paying for half of the small wedding.

She told me she regularly asked her sister to return it but didn’t hear anything from her (hence why she didn’t reply to me for a good few days). Her sister eventually came clean when she seen her on Christmas Day, admitting that she’d knocked a glass of wine over it and broke it. Her sister convinced her to come up with the cover story of leaving it in the hotel in order to buy some time to get money together to replace it.

I was not expecting what she said so was left a bit speechless if I’m honest. I told her that I wanted to digest the information but ultimately there’s no option other than to replace the airwrap for a new one as I don’t want to trust some random second hand one. She agreed and said that she was going to come clean to her husband tonight (he had no clue about any of this) and that she would be in touch no later than tomorrow morning with a resolution.

I honestly don’t know what to believe any more 🤣 did she sell it? Did she break it? Or did she genuinely lend it out?! Seems like CF’ery runs in the family though!

It's irrelevant really. You lent it to her, she was negligent with your propery,and she needs to replace it.

Ladylushka · 02/01/2025 18:36

I have to admit that I wasn’t expecting the call with the friend to end well but the extra twist is shocking. I do however feel genuinely hurt for you that a friend could not only lend out your AW to someone you might not know particularly well without your knowledge or consent but then to weave such a terrible web of lies when you were kind enough to allow her to borrow them.
Your own set of AW is unlikely to return and not that you would want a AW that has allegedly experienced an attack by a random glass of wine back, but now the friend and her sister can send you the money to get a brand new AW with immediate effect.

brbg2g · 02/01/2025 18:37

Don't believe a word of it honestly

Floralnomad · 02/01/2025 18:37

You can’t trust anything she says . Why not just say ‘my sister broke it and I need a few weeks to save for a new one ‘ , which would have been more believable than the rubbish story she came up with . If she hasn’t ordered a new one tomorrow tell her you will take her to small claims .

FizzyBisto · 02/01/2025 18:38

I can't get 'friend' blustering and DARVOing at 100mph like Vicky Pollard out of my head now Grin

Wellwellwellys · 02/01/2025 18:38

I’m still certain she sold it, paid for her wedding or part of it with the money and that’s why she was so insistent on you lending it to her.

I hope you get the money back. What a shame to have taken advantage of a good friend.

Littlemisscapable · 02/01/2025 18:40

brbg2g · 02/01/2025 18:37

Don't believe a word of it honestly

This. New one in the next 48 hours. End of.

Lavenderfarmcottage · 02/01/2025 18:41

Wasn’t just Dyson that got the free publicity for selling air wraps worth knicking, it was also Boots. between the two of them they should give you a free one !

WhereYouLeftIt · 02/01/2025 18:42

"Her sister eventually came clean when she seen her on Christmas Day, admitting that she’d knocked a glass of wine over it and broke it. Her sister convinced her to come up with the cover story of leaving it in the hotel in order to buy some time to get money together to replace it."
Nah. Not buying it. But if I pretended I did, she still owes you the money to replace yours, and her wine-spilling sister can reimburse her.

WhereYouLeftIt · 02/01/2025 18:43

Might be time to start a Thread 3, @Langarg !

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